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About swmnkdinthervr

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  • Birthday 05/27/1954

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Fairfield, Pa
  • Interests
    motorcycles, travel, camping, swimming, fishing, adult play!!!
  • Occupation
    construction/sales
  • Swinging Experience
    curious about 3 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    swmnkdinthervr
  • Favorite Club(s)
    The Cottage but we don't attend any more.

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  1. Happy Birthday fromCalifornia

  2. To "MrsPandMe" and others...there IS a generic Viagra, Cialis and Levitra but you can't get it here. You can however get it in Canada through online sources. You will still need a prescription because their pharmacies are just as careful about your health. All the claims made by US pharmaceutical companies about buying in Canada are crap! Most of our drugs are now produced in India, under the same brand name/license as you see here and sold all over the world...it's just that other countries don't allow the US pharmaceutical companies to stretch out/extend a patent by changing the spelling of a word or a tiny percentage in the make up of the drug. The generics named above are available everywhere in the world but here and for about a tenth the price!!! Oh yeah...the FDA doesn't test drugs to make sure you're safe...they take the word of the drug companies on the safety of your medications!!!
  3. We both revel in watching the pleasure our partner is having, what a wonderful gift to be able to bestow to the person you love!!! Neither of us can quite comprehend anyone not wanting their partner to have the ultimate in sensual/sexual experience and pleasure!!! The "lifestyle" has only strengthened the bond we have, adding to the respect, trust and security in our relationship. Jealousy and insecurity are wasted emotions that have no place in a healthy relationship, let alone the lifestyle. Separating sex from love and good communication go a long way towards banishing those fears!
  4. We have no trouble watching each other enjoy another persons attentions, that is due in part to our view that if we truly love each other how could we deny our partner the ultimate in pleasure! We both also find it arousing to be able to observe the response of each other in that scenario...that's something we don't get to do while in each others arms!!!
  5. We have been with only a few exceptions bareback only, we don't seek out playmates that are strictly condoms only but have found ourselves in a scenario that required condoms and while that's not our preference we have complied. We are very careful about who we chose to meet/play with and prefer long term association/friendship over a one night stand. 1/ How long have you been bareback-only? We both have always been bareback even before exploring the lifestyle, both have been married before but she had her ex as her only previous lover, he had 2 other marriages and several lovers. 2/ How did you come to this decision? It was less a conscious decision than it was just a natural conclusion that we seemed to come to without discussion, we have since discussed this aspect and agree that we prefer bareback. 3/ Is the attraction of bareback to you physical (ie sensation) or psychological (ie do you view swinging as incomplete unless cum is exchanged) To some degree "all of the above" fits. There is no sensation to compare with skin on skin and anything less is so much less satisfying, he does occasionally have trouble with a wilting erection largely due to the knowledge that the sensation will be hugely reduced and we simply like cum!!! 4/ Do you find many that many swingers couples are bareback-only? (We find the real number is much higher than those who will openly admit it)It has been our experience that almost all the contacts we've made are with people that prefer bareback and agree that the number is likely higher than admit it due in some part at least to a fear of not being accepted and even being ridiculed/shunned by their peers. 5/ Has it ever seriously limited your number of potential partners? To date we have had no more trouble finding bareback partners than we have finding any partner considering the number of fakes/posers and those not really serious about meeting. 6/ For those who go to swingers parties/clubs (as Sarah and I do), have you ever been to any which are specifically bareback-only events/venues. We no longer attend clubs, the cliquish atmosphere and sometimes alcohol fueled "free for all" sexual approach don't fit our idea of intimate, sensual encounters. We have never been to a condom only/bareback only event, it has always been participants choice where we've attended.
  6. I(Mrs) find it so very hot to watch two guys play...and the MR finds it really hot to watch me with another woman!!!
  7. This was brought up by Mr Swm, We were dating and had just become intimate, he explained that since we were getting more serious that he should be upfront with me about his interests. (we've been members here a while as I'll explain later) I (Mrs Swm) was previously married for 33 years to a man that was controlling, a philanderer and somewhat emotionally abusive, it's no wonder I never had an orgasm before meeting my present husband! I am now incredibly multi-orgasmic!!! My parents are also extremely conservative, not religiously or politically but I doubt they have ever seen each other with their clothes of with the light on even if they did have 6 kids! Fortunately for Mr Swm and myself I was never told sex was nasty, dirty, wrong or anything negative...it was never even talked about. When he began to discuss/explain the lifestyle I found myself both intrigued and somewhat frightened. The Mr was a wise man, he brought me here to read about everyone's experiences. The "lifestyle" has only enhanced our already incredible sex life, deep love, trust and respect for each other!!! Neither of us has any use for wasted emotions like jealousy or insecurity and we can't imagine anyone claiming love for their spouse/SO/GF that wouldn't want to make the utmost pleasure available to them! Our activity in the lifestyle in no way defines us nor is this more than a hobby for lack of a better term. Have a super NEW YEAR everyone!!!
  8. Thanks for you views...we certainly NEED to update our profile and that's why we asked for an opinion. Our pic is actually from '04, that's on the image because of our camera, we've been unable to change it. The reference to the "late 40's" is because it was my/his age when the profile was posted...last but not least the sigh was added after attempting contact with numerous couples that either never responded or chose not to meet us, so we've a slightly jaded view of those in the lifestyle that seem to be only posers...I know we're not THAT ugly! Thanks again!!! J & L
  9. Us too if you would please (or anyone)...we're an older couple and we know that narrows our appeal but we've really have very few replies to our ad except the usual single guy, not that it a problem, it's just not what we're looking for...can you use our screen name here to find us? (same at SLS)
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