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  1. We are a straight couple from Australia and find much the same here. 98% of couples profiles list themselves as the females being Bi. We do hook up with a bi female of a couple and make it clear we are both straight...in the bedroom they allways say something along the lines of "I know I cant touch but would love to" How would the straight guys feel with a bi guy saying that in the bedroom? We are allways coming across the excuse from the bi girls husbands saying the girls must play 1st....we agree part of this is male insecurity. The other thing we are told is ...How boring a straight couple , they just want one on one swap and probably seperate rooms. Us too after being in the lifestyle for 3 years where the norm you would expect to be sex with the opposite sex being the prioity but sadly the lifestyle is heavily slanted to sex with the same sex!
  2. We suspect those stats are right for those who swing regular and haven't got large egos in the way!
  3. We use it when swinging. What's the point in going swinging and then have to say "Sorry it won't work"! Can we forget about full swap now...sorry?
  4. We have done both, we agree it can be a little awkward with the two males and also if the one girl is straight, its really pairing off on one matress which is not that comfortable. Seperate rooms is more comfortable your attention is undivided can help with Jealous issues but we did have one not so good experiance in seperate rooms where the guy forced his cock into my wives throat....she should have bite it! Guess we will go either way
  5. We Guess the true percentage of couples swinging is close to 70 to 90 % where one of the partners are expecting a bi experiance. Does the definition of swinging need to change.....most say it could be your nxt door neighbours Mr and Mrs Avearge.....but if a bi tendancy is the modern way and a condition.......it certainly does not match most definitions of swinging. It was put to us by a couple with a bi lady......this is the modern way, previously the ladies were prevented from stateing their true wants!
  6. As we get more experienced with swinging 1-2 years now, we are surprised that in the majority of profiles when we talk with other couples that girl / girl play is a condition of swinging. We would estimate 90% of couples out there insist on some girl/girl play, originally we thought swinging was about swapping partners, we are curious how many others have found the same. It certainly limits the playing field if our ladies are straight!
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