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Thanks so much for responding. I had to smile when you told me that you had started early as well. We've both been through a history of relationships and know quite well what works and what won't. We agreed from the very beginning that it seemed as if we'd already been together for years - we're so in tune to each other, and so incredible - in every aspect. Which we all know is unusual. That's why I'm able to move forward. I feel safe with him, and know he's not into head games. I really think that its something we might be ready to do now, where with most others, it might never happen. So tell me, what do you love about it? Share with me if you can.

Ok, I'm really curious and turned on now...we actually talked about swinging for the first time last night, and it was incredibly erotic. But I've only been with him for about 3 months. So I have to admit I'm a tad insecure...but I can't stop thinking about this. He's not a big talker but was so sweet last night telling me everything I craved to hear, and I know without a doubt that he's sincere. I have so many questions. What will this do to a realtionship? Is it a safe way to explore and develop or a dangerous begining? As you can see, I have no real clue as to what its all about, but want to understand. I can't stop thinking about it....So how does a couple begin? What are the rules? Where are clubs? What are on & off premises? Is there terminology I should know? Is there a "Swinging for Dummies" I should read?