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Question for you club veterans, do you see alot of single bi women approaching couples? Or are there more single males within these clubs.

Thanks guys for all your responses. It's really appreciated. So for the most part i guess the first time everyone is mainly an abserver. I guess that's the category that we'll be in unless something or someone just has that certain appeal. Is this the case with most of you? Or did you go in with a basic open mind that what happens will happen?

Thanks passion8 for your reply. So in that first club experience did you initiate conversation with others or did alot of people approach you? Plus where did you guys first go? Did it happen to be Trapeze? Thanks again.

Hello all, been quite a while since i posted here. I just have a simple question for all you club veterans, . In your first club appearence what were you looking for and what actually happened? I'm not actually looking for stories just a look into how your first time in a club worked it's way out. If you were looking for soft swing, basically just wanting to watch and play with your spouse or did you end up getting more than you expected? Just curious. My wife and i are thinking about attending Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale next month but we have never been to a club before. Just looking for some feedback on everyone's adventures in there first club experience.

Thanks again! One question. I was thinking of how this could proceed. I know my wife and she will not do anything without first letting me know, or for that matter asking. My question is this, what if my wife was to ask him if he is attracted to her? They both are sensible people and not do anything to damage either marriage. If they communicate there desires to each other maybe they can break the ground between both parties? I have a feeling that there has been discussion about this type of thing between them as well. The one positive it would be is that 3 of us would be aware of the sitiuation. Comments?

Thanks for the responses you guys. The thing is we have been out with this couple on many occasions. There does seem to be sexual tension between all involved. The other man's wife is the key though. I would never want my wife to pursue something that would damage someone else's marriage. An attraction is an attraction and we can gain a lot of fun just by fantasizing rather than an actual experience. Personally I would rather have a mutual agreement with all parties concerned. An understanding if you will that no one will have sex unless the other's partner is informed about it. I realize in some cases this may not happen. Sex has a tendency to cloud peoples judgment and they make an irrational move that will damage not only there mental states but their working environment. I can see that some ground rules between my wife and myself have to be set first before experiencing anything. We do have a dinner planned with their family and ours on Saturday. I know nothing is going to happen at this time but for myself I have to find a way to find out if his wife is interested in me. All you women in here, any ideas that you can tell a guy that would be a sign of interest?

Hello all, first time post here. I have lurked for a while but now I need a bit of advice from some of you experts. For sometime now my wife and I have been fantasizing about other people in our relationship. As a matter of fact a few years ago we had a threesome with a female friend of ours. That night was erotic as all get out but we have not done anything since. Mostly because of our two young children and not enough time in the day to do anything else but take care of them and work. For about the last year my wife has been very attracted to one of her co-workers. Now she is not the most open person in the world so we have been settling for basically fantasizing about him and my wife together. To be honest with you it's a real turn-on. Our sex life as of late has been suffering and I needed to find a way to open it up again. The first thing I did was write my wife and erotic story revolving around one of her fantasies with this man. I'm telling ya she never came as hard as she did the other night. She really wants to pursue this other man. They both flirt back and forth all the time together so I do know there is a mutual attraction. Here's the tricky part. He is also married. I'm attracted to his wife as well but I do not know if she is attracted to me. Sometimes I feel she is, other times I don't know. I do have this feeling that this man wants to take my wife and maybe even have her join him and his wife for a threesome. I just have that feeling. I know that if my wife uttered one word to him about getting together he'd do it in a second. I want to be involved though in order to protect both sides in this. The flirting between my wife and this other man is constantly there and I want to find out if there is a possibility of the other woman and myself getting together. Can you give a guy a bit of advice to work with? Do we just blurt it out and ask? I mean I don't want to lose the friendship and look like an ass seeing something that isn't there? How do we break the barrier here? My wife wants it and I'm trying to figure out how to get it to her? And me as well. Thanks guys.