pagan-lovers

Ours hasn't been changed in a while, if anyone has any suggestions for improvement I'm listening. PaganLovers on SLS

I have been DJing at an area club and have had quite a few people comment they keep coming back for the good music. I chalk it up to variety. Many clubs play primarily one genre. Same as swingers come in all ages, shapes and sizes; the music needs to be a mix of many styles. Something for everyone. Mr.PL

Any chance of getting that list? I have DJ'ed off and on since the days of vinyl, but just recently started spinning at our local swing club. The crowd seems to like what I do so far, but I am open to anything that can help me do a better job.

Your husband definately has some major issues, which you have no control over. I am amazed by the number of women who stay with a bad apple in hopes of fixing him, or think all men are cheaters, so I'll just put up with the one I have. I agree with the people who suggested counseling for the both of you. What you can work on is yourself, figure out where you stand. The quotes above represent confusion to me. Myself I don't do ultimatums. Give me an ultimatum and you will see the rebel in me real fast.

1. My wife is definitely pickier than me (see post from Southbond) 2. That decision needs to based on your fantasies and desires as well as finding people you feel comfortable with then finding out what they offer. ie. are they a couple, Bi-female etc. and their comfort level. Are they softswap only etc. We had some friends with benefits years ago but our first real venture into the lifestyle was a visit to a on-premise club. My wife was so nervous she had an upset stomach. All we did was dance, talk to a few people and watch. By the time we left, she was asking "When are we coming back". We left there and took care of each over and over again

Very well put. What comes around goes around. We have chosen what few playmates we have had on a combination of attraction and personality. Lying seems to circumvent that process.

What he said.

Welcome to the world of swinging Awesome isn't it. You guys are great. Nervousness and tiredness can get the best of one sometimes, as can alcohol. Who cares man 'you played' . We don't have a ton of experience either, but we've have some oral only adventures that are as much as full swap. It's all good.

I think Spoomonkey already said it best. The wife and I don't drink at all, but will play with friends who have had a few, IF I know they would make the same choice sober. That's it, end of story.

I may be wrong, but it sounds like a black man somehow seems like less of a threat to you. Much like some guys are comfortable with their wife playing with a woman but not another man. The woman offers something different that doesn't threaten the status quo. Apparently you feel your wife is not going to leave you for a black guy but might like another white guy better than you. In my opinion it wouldn't matter if the other guy was black white yellow or red it's still another man. You're either OK with her playing with a man or you're not. If this is anywhere near close, then there needs to be more security between the two of you before you continue to play with any other males. Mr. PL

I have a computer game like that called 4Play. But we have gotten more use out of good old fashioned 'truth or dare'. We actually found out some of our so called "vanilla" friends had been to a swing club with that one. They are now coming to a Meet n Greet with us.

Definitely the Flintstones? Fred, Wilma, Barney & Betty gettin' jiggy with it after a night of bowling. and Jennifer and Johnathan Hart from "Hart to Hart".

What ever shows your best assets. If you have cleavage, sport it. If you have great legs, a short skirt is in order. If you have little extra around the middle avoid too tight shirts. Thongs are sexy; but then so is a skirt with no panties. the Mrs. has been know to do that. I love it. Another thing that I think is sexy is anything lacy or sheer. That you kinda can see through it, but not really, sorta look. Or sheer with a sexy bra underneath. Cleavage never goes out of style. Lingerie is always great. The Mrs. was a lingerie model for years, and there's a reason I never missed a show. Body jewelry is sexy. Belly chains, earrings etc... really add to the sex appeal when nude. If you look like this ) ( low rise jeans are hot. If you look like this ( ) they are not.

Embarrasing moment #1) It was one of those lazy Sunday summer afternoons. The Mrs. and I decided to get a little afternoon delight. It was a beautiful day. We had the windows open, but didn't think much about it since the lady next doors was in her 90's never came outside and couldn't hear well. Well sometimes we aren't very quiet and this was one of those times. As the moans and screams subsided, we heard voices outside our window. Of course today was the day the 90 yr old lady had a visit from her 70 yr old daughter. They were standing in their driveway 5 feet from our bedroom window. We didn't show our faces outside for quite a while. Embarrasing moment #2) The day started at a college record store. You know the kind where they have headphones all around the room to listen to different tunes. I found a CD that I found interesting. It was called Cyborgasm, It was literally sex scenes recorded in Hi-Fidelity Stereo. I told the Mrs. you've got to hear this and put the headphones on her. I proceeded to find my way around the store and listen to some other musical samplings. Picked up a few CD's and looked around for the Mrs. I found her right where I left her headphones still on. We decided we needed to have this CD. So we paid for our purchases and raced home. We put the previously mentioned CD on the Stereo and turned it up. Needless to say after listening for a bit we bacame preoccupied. As the CD progressed the scenes changed from a twosome to a threesome to a full blow orgy, gathering intensity and Volume with each track. I wasn't in a position to reach the volume knob at this time. When we finished we realized the windows were open once again but this time neighbors were treated to the sound of a very loud orgy that wasn't even happening.

Yea I want to be convinced she is enjoying herself some what or I don't enjoy the movie. One of my fav's is Janine. She appears to actually be having fun, and doesn't do anal that I know of. I just fast forward through that stuff. Cytherea can be fun as well.