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geno58

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  1. Okay, women get "kid marks" (love that description) and men get a "shed over their tool". Anyone who is turned off by either is superficial.
  2. TO MIKE AND JAN: Thanks for realizing that we don't want to argue with anyone...we're just asking the question because we're relatively new to the lifestyle. Sure didn't want to offend anyone or start anything. We just wanted to hear from other people like us and wonder how they dealt with it. Frankly, anyone who's not into it really doesn't belong in the discussion. It's not a debate over right or wrong--rather a question of "if you're like us, how do you deal with it?"
  3. SPECIAL RESPONSE TO TEAMSOBE: Gosh darned we wish you lived here(or us there.)You are something else. For the record...it should be no surprise to you that we're not racists either Love your cojones.
  4. To Chicup: Not upset really. Just dismayed that some people who feel that way aren't willing to say that. Any yes, we do get answers to our ads. Oh, and those are from people who post themselves as straight. Considering we're willing to put ourselves out there truthfully, I'm sure you'll understand why that makes me suspect. Pretty much interested in people who have the balls to do the same. I should probably also say that I started this whole thing because of my male partner--we were at no loss to find couples where the guys could watch the girls. And to Don't Be Afraid...thanks for your comments. I'm personally not interested in the house party scene. Mainly because I suspected what you said is true would be, and because I've heard it from others. I've actually had a friend thrown out of a party for something completely absurd (won't go into it) and she is a pretty tame person! Agree with your opinion to continue being open and honest. Always the best policy, regardless of how it is received. If you're not on the same page, why bother?
  5. Okay, essentially what I've learned here is that the swinger lifestyle really isn't much different from the non-swing lifestyle. Mostly people are conservative, and still bring their baggage to the table in spite of the fact that what they are doing would appear on the surface to be open. Now, that being said, don't take that to mean that we believe everyone should be bi. We don't expect everyone in the lifestyle to believe as we do anymore than we do our friends who aren't in the lifestyle. Our hope was that we wouldn't have to "go back into the closet" with our bi tendencies in the swing lifestyle. After all, that is something you can't discuss with your friends outside the lifestyle as a rule. Our basic beef is that we wish people were more up front in their profiles as to what they like/dislike. We just bet we're missing out on meeting some really nice folks because they are afraid to voice their true preferences, and we think that sucks.
  6. You know, TeamSoBe, I think you're right. I'm learning more and more that if you truly want to explore your sexuality swinging might not be the place to do it. Curious though...isn't it? One would think that they could be themselves more in this venue than anywhere else...more and more I'm finding that this is not necessarily the case. Truly appreciate your comments.
  7. Thanks for your insight. I guess I'm the exception rather than the norm when I comes to women then. My partner's bisexual tendencies don't turn me off at all. He is strictly oral and touching, and I find this extremely erotic. Seems a pity that men can't seem to enjoy the same thing women have been enjoying for some time.
  8. Are we the only couple out there who gets tired of reading all the ads and they say "he's straight, she's bi (or bi curious)"? We are are bi couple and really want to have experiences with other bi couples! We have learned by accident that there are other guys out there who want to have the oral/touching experience with other men, but didn't represent themselves that way. What is up with that? Why is it so much more acceptable for women to say they are bi than it is for men? Could it be because two women together are a common fantasy for a lot of men? Our idea of a perfect swinging experience is EVERYONE touching/sucking/etc. each other if they feel like it at the moment. Guess we're just a little frustrated that people can be so open and yet so closed at the same time. Has anyone else felt this way? If so, what did you do about it?
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