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guitarlover

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About guitarlover

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  • Birthday 05/04/1950

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Southern, Oregon
  • Interests
    guitar, camping,
  • Occupation
    music teacher
  • Swinging Experience
    still swing virgins

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    musiclovers05

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  1. Still swing virgins here at this point, but exploring. We met a guy into the lifestyle who said he would only go bare back, that skin on skin was the only way to go. That put up a red light for us, immediately. Needless to say, he didn't score that night. I feel it would be best for my S.O. and I to save 'bare back' for ourselves and insist on protection for anybody else if and when that occurs for us. A question that I still don't understand is why 'head' seems to be OK without protection, but a condom is needed for penetration. STDs can be transmitted orally, right?
  2. I would imagine that a first encounter with a new partner would be so enticing and exciting that it would be difficult to hold off the flood of a real good orgasm. I remember that the first time with my S.O. was so exciting to feel myself finally inside her and fulfilling a long awaited fantasy that I came way too fast to satisfy her. However, she said that she felt complimented that I was so excited to be with her. Naturally, I got it right later on, and I am able to hold on longer. I feel the urge to share her with the right man / woman, too. I don't know why, but the thought is so naughty that it really turns me on. Apparently, I'm not alone in this sharing thing after reading so many other posts from other guys. I find it interesting that a lot of women don't feel that way about sharing their guy....with exceptions, of course. My hat is off to those ladies! LOL So, I hope that YOUR woman's second go around will be more satisfying and I hope that she shares the experience with you rather than keep it to herself.
  3. I, too, get turned on by 'normal' people, and not the 'perfect' body types. I don't really know why, but, 'real people' are far more interesting to me. On top of that, I find that small breasts are exciting to look at, so, please tell her to be happy with what God gave her.....
  4. OOPS....I wrote this thinking I was logged on to my handle. Curiousfemale40 is my S.O. Obviously, the above message was written by me, guitarlover....
  5. Wow! I thought I was a major kinkster with 406 scored here, but, I can see that I'm still just a newbie. I promise, though, on my honor, to improve my score!!!
  6. I, too, love to watch my lover, curiousfemale40, during our sex play. Although we're still swing virgins at this point, the fantasy of a MFM with her has been a constant thing whispered between us during sex. I know that the fantasy turns her on about 200% higher than normal, and I know this to be true because she gets amazingly wet which is a plus for both of us! And when she comes, well, it's just too awesome to not share with somebody. The thought of watching her suck and play with another guy at the same time as I am inside her is an exciting thought to me. If and when that happens for real I feel confident that I won't have a problem with it. I've read a few threads on the board from men who did feel a twinge of jealousy the first time. It seems though, that most of them got over it after the first experience. However, I don't think that she should run off with another guy, without you being there, at least as an escort. I hope that our dreams come true, and that the reality will be even better than the fantasy....Only one way to really find out, eh?
  7. I think that this poll should have been done once for men, and another one for the ladies. I'm sure that they would have different results.
  8. My woman seems to attract males easily, but, although I don't believe that I'm a hunk, I don't feel unattractive. I don't search for flirting women and subtle hints from them. I have always been slow to pick up on hints dropped by females because they're just too subtle, I guess. But, I've had that problem all my life. Looking back at high school days, I realized that a few gals were dropping hints of being interested in me, but my radar wasn't functioning properly....LOL I guess that although we're both a bit overweight, but, not obese, and she's a mom, we're not perfect specimens of sexuality, but, feel that most folks wouldn't run away from us, screaming. Like I said, she attracts the guys anyway, and her personality is extremely enticing! Oh, and she loves Luke Picard a lot more than Ryker....(She calls him number two, laughingly.) I know that she would bed Picard in a second, given the chance.
  9. It was my idea to let us be free and explore this lifestyle. It's naughty and exciting to both of us, and I don't feel like the perv anymore, since she's opened her mind to the idea. I love hearing about the women who brought up the idea, though. The world needs more of those female open minds, I believe. We're still weighing the pros and cons, but, learning from the board, and hope to become swing non virgins one of these days. We're going slow because I certainly don't want to push her into something that she might regret later on, and that would certainly ruin any future encounters. She enjoys light flirting on the chat, and she knows that I am not jealous of that, but, she keeps asking me if it's OK to talk naughty with guys that she meets on chat. She doesn't realize how much of a turn on that is for me...am I sick? Well, guess she'll know after she reads my thread reply....LOL
  10. My baby loves my blue eyes. I love everything about her except, maybe her anger when I piss her off. But, for us, personality is a bigger turn on than an awesome body. That's why my poll vote was 'other'... I've met a few hot looking people with no personality, or they were snobs, and I've met some less than gorgeous ones who could make me melt with their open confident personality. Of course, I am generalizing, but you get the idea, I hope....
  11. Thanks for mentioning that fact. I thought so, too, but, wasn't sure. Guess we could still share web cam if I made sure to keep the lens pointed away from our faces to remain discreet...
  12. As my partner and I are still swing virgins but, getting closer to taking the next step, I mentioned to her that I'd rather have a bit more in common with another couple than just our mutual horniness. I understand the other angle of keeping it less personal, but, I think, personally, that it would be more fullfilling if we had more of a connection than just wanting to ball each other.
  13. Wow, there's a lot of replies to this one. I had to agree with Ms. Piggy in one of her early replies. Personally, I had same sex relations with friends of mine when I was young and exploring my sexuality. I learned a lot from those experiences. I think I can speak for those I engaged with, that we would have preferred girls, but, they were just not available to us. But, we knew what felt good, and learned that pleasuring another human being was really nice. I've been strictly hetero for 35 years or more. But, I don't have any grossed out feelings towards man on man sex if it makes them feel good. I once worked at a print shop in San Francisco where gay sex magazines were printed from time to time. Some of the things they advertised were 'kinky' to say the least with rubber suits, auto erotic asphixiation (sp?) , etc. But, there were just a lot of photos of men loving men. It didn't make me horny seeing those, like photos of two women would, but, I wasn't turned off by it either. Why is a line drawn there? I don't know the answer except for social acceptance which is very slowly coming around. My woman and I agree, it's hypocritical, and she is quick to point that out to guys who mention how grossed out they are by the thought of M/M sex.
  14. I'm not personally turned on by body art. It's hip now, but, I wonder what some of these people will look like when they reach their 70's or so....In fact, I think that 'Saturday Night Live' did a skit / fake commercial concerning that subject, which was very funny, but, somewhat true. It showed a nice young lady's ass cap, but, using 'Photoshop' altered it to show what happens later on. It was NOT pretty.....Pretty funny, though! I have grown more use to seeing tattoos on males and females these days due to it's popularity, and, it's not a complete turn off. A nice lower back design is interesting to look at, and gives me an excuse to check out her butt. But, on women I'd recommend a tiny flower, fairy, or something feminine like that. Otherwise, I think that tattoos make both men and women look 'tough' or roughneck even when I know that most are just as gentle as I am.
  15. I wear regular briefs because they support my testicles better than anything else I've tried. But, for sexiness, I'm sure that something in the way of boxer shorts looks better to her.
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