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michelle101

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About michelle101

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  • Relationship Status
    married couple
  • Location
    massachusetts
  • Occupation
    naughty housewife

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    michelle101
  1. I have gotten cold sores on my lips since I was 6 years old. I get them when I am stressed, when I have a fever or when I have some trauma to my lips I.E. got hit with something, got a fat lip. I have been with my husband for 22 years now. Of course I don't give him oral or kiss him at the time of an outbreak, but after living together so long, If it was so easy to spread to others, you would think he would have it by now. In the lifestyle i have found that most people don't care if you get cold sores as long as you don't play with an outbreak. but at first I was a little scared that others reactions might be to never play with us, but most are understanding. When you tell someone you have the Herpes virus, they look at you badly until you tell them it is cold sores, then they say Oh that's ok I thought you meant genital. I try to be as safe as possible for everyone's sake. If they find out and don't want to play with me, oh well, but that has NEVER happened.
  2. I wouldn't say I squirt. It's definitely a gush! I have only been able to do it for a while, and honestly, I am freaked out by the amount! Yet it is the best orgasms I've ever had. Would squirting/gushing be considered a watersport? I hope not.
  3. My best friend and I had a conversation one day about swinging. A couple she knew had asked her and another friend of hers several times to play with them. Not really taking no for an answer. Anyway, she launched into how swinging wouldn't help repair your sex life, and if your marriage was so bad, and you both wanted to have sex with others, you shouldn't have married in the first place. She truly thinks you must have a terrible marriage to swing. Wow! Was that ever hard to hold my tounge! I asked her if she ever had sexual fantacies that included other people. I told her that I had. She said fantacies are in your head, and that was different. I sooo badly wanted to tell her that fantacies could come true. I feel like I want to defend swinging, and the fact that a marriage has to be rock solid with an awesome sex life, to truly enjoy swinging for what it is. An awesome shared sexual experience with my husband.
  4. I agree.. Most of the things you just mentioned being uncomfortable with, are things that turned me on right from the start. Seeing him kiss another woman, or kissing me after ( no matter where he's been) is a big turn on for me. I think you should tell him you don't want anything to do with it, until a time comes, if ever, that you are interested.
  5. Late 20's is the youngest I would go without getting uncomfortable about it. I have neices and nephews in their early to mid 20's. It just doesn't feel right. Also, as I get older, ( I'm 34) I seem to be more attracted to older guys. There is a point when a boy takes on a more grown up/rugged manly look. Before that point , if they still have a baby face. I have no sexual attraction to them. A man in his early 20's, still has a baby face to me. My sister is 10 years older than me, and she says this will change. LOL As far as older guys go, 50 has been the oldest. It depends on the guy, their attitude and their personnality. I won't say that would be as high as I would consider, because you never know. I guess technically, you could be old enough to be my father, ....but you can't be as old as my father. Wow, that sounds bad.LOL
  6. I find it sad that people would limit themselves to only one social class. They probably miss out on a lot of good times because of it. We wouldn't reply to such an ad, because, personally, I take offense to it. It insinuates, to me, that they believe themselves to be better than me in some way. How many Professional/ upper class people out there have a passion for antiques? Do you have any in your home that you paid a mint for? Well, guess what, that 19th century china cabinet/ hope chest/rolltop desk, that you so proudly display in your bedroom, was hand made by a lower class, un- or under-educated blue collar immigrant who was just hoping to make enough money to feed his family. He most likely only received pennies for it from an upper class family. His work has stood the test of 200 years, and that same piece is now worth thousands. Too bad it took 200 years for people to realize that he was a master craftsman. A professional, and possibly a really interesting guy to talk to. This country was built by blue collared workers. To limit yourself to only one social class of people just seems ignorant to me. It seems like such a closed minded way of thinking, coming from such open minded people as swingers. Maybe my views will change, after all, it's been a long time since I've seen Mr.101 sitting on the couch with a beer opened next to him, picking his nose with one hand while he files for welfare with the other. "Honey, how does you spells ALCAMOHOLIC?" Of course it was just last month that he polished up his one good tooth real purty likes in honor of our wedding anniversary. He's such a sweet man. As far as not having anything in common with other classes of people, we all have life in common. We get up each morning, go to bed each night, and try to make the best of the time in between.
  7. An interesting subject, one that the Mr.and I have touched on before. If Mr.101 had cheated on my in the past, there is no way I would have considered the swinging lifestyle with him. My comfort level in this lifestyle, comes in part, by knowing he would never do that. It comes from my trust in him. Had he ever done anything to break that trust, then I don't think there would have been a solid enough foundation of trust to work from. Which I believe is key. I would never say to myself, Well, he cheated on me, maybe we should swing so it won't happen again. Swingers can cheat too. And without the trust that he wouldn't cheat, swinging would just be a big weight on my shoulders as opposed to the fun time sharing my husband, that it is now. On the other hand, the Mr. and I have been exclusive since High school, so the thought has crossed my mind that by the time he reaches a certain age, whatever that age may be, that he will get to a point of saying wow, I've only been with one woman my whole life. That sucks. Now, this thought is not why we began swinging, we began because I had fantacies of seeing Mr.101 with other woman as well as others about group activities, but it certainly does wipe out the thought of wow, only one woman my whole life. It makes me feel good that he is having all kinds of new experiences with different people. And I love to see him enjoying himself. Swinging has only enhanced our relationship in a possitive way. So, am I trying to prevent him from cheating by swinging, no, but you gotta think, although I know it happens, why would anyone cheat on their SO if they swing with them? If there is someone the Mr. is interested in, he comes right out and tells me. There is no need to sneak around. And also, he says he loves that I am right there cheering him on!
  8. To Hell with the discussion about "Pathological Discretion" !!! I want to hear about Reno!
  9. I bet the cops still talk about this one! They probably wish their spouses would do it for them! You know what they say, If you see a good looking hooker, It's either a cop or a guy. Guess we will have to add someones wife to that list. Thanks for the laugh.
  10. I too find that it feels better when the penis is going in and out at a slower pace. As for the "pounding", a little here and there is also good, but I would consider a pounding as fast. I think you can go at a slower pace and, at the same time, have it be hard. Or would that just be deep? Or firm? Now it all sounds good. Mrs.101
  11. Where can I start? I'm at home with the kids now, but for almost 10 years, I was an E.M.T. Now, I can tell you , first hand, that this is a blue collar job. When I was sweating my butt off in the summer heat carrying a patient down 3 flights of stairs, on a long board, with an O2 tank over my shoulder, I was blue collar. When I climbed over a glass covered back seat to stabilize a drivers head while my partner reached for a collar and backboard, we were blue collar. When I arrived at an elderly woman's house at 3 a.m. to find, what she called for, was that she couldn't find her glasses to read her medication bottles, I was most definitely blue collared. Yet, each and every patient I treated, knew that I was a professional. Now, numbers 2 and 3, in the above list, apply to me. Working the Ambulance was my career, not just a job. ( It's what I'll go back to when the kids get older) I sought to "move up" to positions of greater responsibility and pay, and had quite a bit of success at it. I was good at my " job", and moved up in my "career". So, the only one that wouldn't apply to me would be number one. Lack of a "white collared" position. Financially? Yes, an E.M.T. makes a meager wage, but take the case with my husband. He has been a Marine Mechanic since he was a teenager. He went to a Vocational High School, then on to more specialized Diesel training. He is constantly furthering his career. He is employed by one of the most profitable companies in the world. We have two children, mortgage , bills, the usual, and we do it very comfortably with my husband being the sole provider. Again, numbers two and three apply to him, but he is far from white collared. So, when your generator goes down in the middle of the night, or your boat full of business associates are stranded at the dock because your engine won't start on a weekend, and you see my husband coming.....with his pointy blue collared shirt, grab your wallet and hold on tight, this ones going to hurt. Being in the business so long, my husband has made many "White Collared" friends. I've sat at dinner tables with people who make millions of dollars a year. and me never having made more than 30 thousand a year. Yet, I'm invited back again and again. Hmmm, what does this say about me? I like variety in all things, even the company I choose to keep. As for the profiles on sls stating, "Professionals only", I feel bad that the female half of these couples will never experience Mr.101's firm, steely mechanic grip on their shoulders as he takes them from behind. Oh well...I guess they should learn to keep an open mind.
  12. They are not THAT expensive! And I have never heard of a nationwide condom shortage. (Wouldn't society as a whole be all the happier if it were so? ) It was definitely used.
  13. Alright! That's it. I'm already tied...The Mr. is getting snipped. I find this thread way too scary. Don't want to deal with it at all. Can't say what we would do until we were in that position, and I don't care to find out. I'm hoping on prevention.
  14. Over a period of about two years or so, I would occationally mention to Mr.101 during sex that I had fantacies that included other people. It was March of this year that I sat at the computer and searched Swingers. I found the Board. That's when we really started talking about it. It was the begining of Aug. that we actually tried it.
  15. O.K, I know someone here on the board is bound to give me shit for this, but here goes....When my husband and I were young 19 or 20, someone gave him a car because he didn't have one at the time. Being young and not caring what kind of vehicle it was, just that it got from point A to point B, he accepted it. It was a Hearse. Need I say more?
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