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cobracpl

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About cobracpl

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Los Banos, CA

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  • SLS Name
    cobracpl
  1. I know my wife likes the "confident" guy and I know that borders on aggressive but that doesn't mean that whenever he sees her she is free to be pawed, caressed, kissed, or fondled. That happens during play. I don't ever want to be told to "cool it", so I am a lot reserved in that regard but once things start I know what to do. Even in the straight world (non lifestyle) friends give hugs to my wife, but I do not solicit them from the other wives, even though I would like them. If the other woman doesn't offer the hug I wont initiate. I know I lose some great hugs this way but better to feel better about myself than to be thought of as pushy or perverted. Let's say If we were to attend a party or club, I wouldn't want another guy thinking he has full access to my wife at all times, even though we might have played with him previously. It should be almost as if he would treat us like friends and then see if we were interested in playing with him that night, not just assume he is that sure thing. He might not be what we were looking for. So my suggestion is to be cool until that time of agreement, then be confident in what you want and proceed from there. Just my views on this.
  2. It is awkward for sure. Happened more than once...Just would like to know who we are looking at like you said Likeminds, before you send or reply to a message of who you are messaging. So if you don't have a pic in your profile, put a pic up. Please!
  3. Hi! We think the picture is worth the effort of the potential players. We have responded to non picture profiles when mailed to. But our first request of them is of their G rated recent photo, preferably with their body connected. Most of the time the pic is returned and you find out why they don't have their pic posted. Shallow Hal here in that reguard but attraction is most important when finding play partners. Maybe people feel the same way about our profile but at least they are afforded that first pic as stimulus to contact. We think the email pic trading has just about run its course. Had a potential play partner requesting pics and more pics with a meeting that night...He didn't show...Dang! fooled again. Live and learn. Its these types that get this statement plastered throughout profiles...'NO SINGLE MALES'. Gives them all that bad name, even though we know they aren't all that way. Wish we could club more but find it hard to get out. Its also difficult to break into the "clic" scene that seems to be prevelant at clubs if you aren't constant attendees or look like barbie n ken. OH well there ya go. Thats our opinion we are also cobracpl on SLS and would hope you check us out and send a hi if you want to. mike n casey
  4. We think the cost should be shared or paid by the single guy. What a special gift you have given him, and he has done nothing but take. But it sounds like you aren't or wouldn't give him up anyway, but you should look for another 2nd cock which you may find is as satisfying as this one, and also willing to share the costs. That way you won't see him as often and then the cost of playing with him goes down until you are weened from him completely.
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