Hi. Single male here, No swinging experience. I've read several places where the "husband" has stated "he" has final say over who his wife "engages" with. Since when does the husband own the wife? I say the wife has the final say so about how, when, etc. Also, if the wife tells the "single male" it's okay to "touch" her or whatever, does that mean the hubby can say "hands off"? Somethings amiss here.