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FloridaFlirt

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About FloridaFlirt

  • Rank
    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 04/15/1965

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    a polyamorous "W"
  • Location
    Um....Florida?
  • Interests
    music, TV, hosting parties
  1. Did anyone see the episode of UGLY BETTY two weeks ago? There was a scene where Amanda (one of the characters) was going to her parents' home in the middle of the day to confront them on an issue. When she got there, her parents were coming down the stairs in matching robes and holding wine glasses. Amanda launches into a speech about how her parents kept secrets from her? "Secrets? We have no secrets dear!" And then, right on cue, down walks another couple, matching robes and wine glasses in tow, saying "Where are you? We're getting lonely!" The parents, immediately realizing the awkward situation, scrambled to explain that "these are our 'internet friends'. We were playing tennis when the lawn sprinklers went off and everyone's clothes got wet, so we put them in the dryer...." I.just.lost. it.
  2. In my opionion, original poster, your wife has made it clear....she is NOT ready to do this. You gave it a good shot. Maybe one day, if she brings it up on her own, it might become a possibility.... Good luck to y'all...
  3. Here's a link to the lyrics of a great song from the musical "Hairspray": http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/hairspray/bigblondeandbeautiful.htm
  4. Tribbles is right--live as you want to live. Life is way too damn short not to!
  5. Ditto to all of this, especially #1. Unfortunately this may mean it will take longer to find a couple that is compatible four ways....but if you are patient, it will be worth it!
  6. Wow, arvcpl, I haven't seen your pic and I'm already attracted to you! Seriously, you are the kind of guy that catches my eye usually. I prefer good grooming, good conversation and charm over any "pretty" aspect. Oh, and if you dance, that is also a HUGE plus! I'm glad to hear you don't "take one for the team." I used to do that in the early days, but no more! It only leads to resentment. One question: is it possible that YOUR standards are too high?
  7. Gosh, I remember posing this question to our play group's forum and opening a big ol' can of worms! People whom I would not consider "swingers" were getting offended left and right! In our group, we've got everything from couples who full swap to couples who only soft swap to couples that are only interested in women to couples that never play with anyone at all, but like the atmosphere of the parties and the freedom it gives to be naked in front of others. So, who's a real swinger in this instance? I have my personal definition; however, as long as they are consenting adults who are "lifestyle friendly", they are welcome to come hang out with us. Who knows....it could be the party that changes their minds about it...
  8. IMO, it is the fact that he is sneaking around behind your back that is bothersome....him being bi is no biggie..actually can be a turn on... The only way to know is to talk frankly about it.
  9. I agree with Shelley....just talk to them about it. If they found that it wasn't what they wanted to do, at least you will know that. Hopefully they will give you some feedback. Good luck!
  10. The gentleman that was the recipient of my "gift" is my steady lover and one of my closest friends. (Yep, polyamory is alive and well in my house! LOL) So had he been aware he would have come to my aid. Between him and my primary partner, I knew I was safe.
  11. Love the video! Personality means more to me than appearance does (except when it comes to hygiene and grooming...LOL) I gotta admit though...it's awesome being a BBW in the lifestyle. There are so many men that think I am a goddess!
  12. Echoing some things already posted here: Each couple needs to set its own boundaries regarding swinging. What works in my relationship may not work in yours. Sorry you are getting judgement like that from others.
  13. There were parts of it on her show My Life on the D List on Bravo... And call it what you will, it IS gay porn...I found it in the gay porn section right next to Forrest Hump and Ass Bandits ...
  14. Ask and you shall receive, my brother and sister! LOL http://www.libchrist.com/
  15. ROFL!! You'd be a rich woman with that plot! Gay porn is a BIG moneymaker! Hell they even have their own awards show! (Comedian Kathy Griffin hosted it!)
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