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    Weiner dogs & cross stitching. What a combo !!
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  1. OMG !! I have this fantasy all the time ! Sadly, my guy would never, but I sure wish he would ! I would love to see this particular double standard disappear. I don't see it as being any different than two women together, but most men seem to think differently. The closest I've ever gotten with my guy is renting some movies that centered on male bi activity. Wow.... I'll bet the real thing is even better !!!
  2. I think it happens to us all at some time or other. I find that it happens to me only when he spreads my "everything" wide open on his way in. That allows air in, which has to escape at some point. He likes the view he gets from spreading me open, so it's a pretty common occurence. That's the only time it happens with me, and I don't really get embarrassed by it anymore. It's just no big deal if no attention is drawn to it.
  3. I prefer a couple of drinks, but not a lot, and not just when we go to a swinger's club. I'm fairly shy by nature, and a drink or two relaxes me enough to chat with people and enjoy myself. On the other hand, once I get to know people, I'm not shy at all, and I rarely touch alcohol. As for being "retarded drunk" I haven't done that in years, and it's really not my style, and never really was. I prefer to maintain control of myself all the time. That is partly why I do like a couple of drinks though.. sometimes I'm TOO controlled, so I need to loosen up...
  4. I have to disagree here, just a bit. Bi-CURIOUS means just that.. curiosity about same-sex play. What you describe would be more accurately called Bi-friendly, or Bi-playful. Bi-Curious would indicate that a person is not sure, but would like to find out. For example, I term myself Bi-curious. I have only had one Bi encounter, but the other person didn't really participate, so I still don't know what it would be like if we were both "going for it" and thus my curiosity. I can't say yet that I'm truly Bi, because I don't think I'll know that until I've truly experienced it. As for the original question, Bi-sexual people enjoy sexual contact with both sexes. Just that simple, in my book. Lesbian/Gay people enjoy sex with other people of the same sex. Straight/Hetero people enjoy sex with people of the opposite sex, and do not seek out same sex encounters. In my opinion, even those who are "Bi-playful" are just a little Bi. They may not seek out bi action, but if they participate, and enjoy it, they are a little Bi, as far as I'm concerned. It IS a sliding scale, and some are more or less Bi than others. JMO
  5. Well, mine isn't one of the choices.... I'd hate to run into my ex-husband. Gross... can't stand him !! As it turns out, that's why we don't go to the club anymore. He IS a member, so for me the possibility is very strong that we would encounter him there. Yuck. I only found out he was a member because I saw his ad on the club's website. Haven't been back since, although I have kept our membership up to date just in case he ever falls off the planet.
  6. No offense to anyone who has them, but for me personally.... Ewwwwww. Ear piercings for women, and that's about it...anything more just grosses me out, and I don't like tattoos much either, although I can tolerate one or two small ones.
  7. Ohh goody !! An opportunity for me to chime in ! LOL We did our "locking up" in stages. His eldest daughter, at the age of 12, started snooping through our drawers, on her mother's instructions, to see what she could find. We, at that point, locked up all the "fun" stuff in our gun safe. When it progressed to the girl not only snooping, after being told not to, but to actually stealing from our room, we installed a locking door knob, and kept our room locked whenever we were outside, or not at home. Now that she is 18, and not in our home, we do not lock the door, but the youngest of his daughters, now 9, is also not allowed in our room. We still keep the goodies locked in the gun safe, and if she follows her older sister's example, and starts snooping, and/or stealing from our room, it will get locked again. I realize this is a bit different from the original poster. We have the ex-wife to contend with. In fact, right after I moved in with him, we had to change the locks on the house, and take away his daugher's key priveleges, because on two occasions, he found his EX in our bedroom snooping, and discovered that she had been let in by his daughter. The point is, there's nothing wrong, IMO, with locking your room, IF you need to. In the case of the toys, it's not that difficult or inconvenient to put them away when you are done with them. Our gun safe is in our room anyway, so instead of putting the toys in a drawer, we put them in there. What we have in our room is none of the child's business, and we see to it that it stays that way. None of her mother's business either.... lol
  8. This is one of those preference things. For me, ewwwww.... I don't want to taste it, and I sure can't make my self swallow it, even though I enjoy everything up to that point. Luckily for me, my SO doesn't like to shoot in my mouth anyway, so no worries. He likes my mouth to stay "clean" for kissing after... he's one of those men who just can't bring himself to kiss a woman with a mouthful of cum. That's just fine with me, because, no matter how hard I try, I just can't get into the taste or texture of it in my mouth. If you can, more power to ya, but not for me, thanks.
  9. Now, see the compromises that are possible when we all play nice ? Ok, I like the sponsorship concept a lot. I was thinking as I read that, and it's possible that if a couple sponsors a single guy, they most likely will KNOW that he's worth playing with, so those of us who are interested in a guy would not be stuck weeding through all the wannabes. Hmmm.. double win there !!! As for the single females getting in for free, I'll just have to learn to cope with the fact that life is unequal, and more people want females than males, so I'll bite my tongue... LOL I'd still like to see guys charged a more reasonable amount, no matter what, and then the free female thing wouldn't bother me half as much. :evil:
  10. So, let me get this straight... Here we are in the 21st century, an age of sexual equality and freedom, and men are paying 100 or more dollars for something that a woman can get for free ??? Now, before anyone jumps my ass for my opinion on this, I DO understand what the clubs THINK they are accomplishing by charging guys more, but the fact is, charging more doesn't assure a better quality of man. It's all about SCREENING people !!! If the guy is an asshole, he's not gonna be a good boy just because you drain his wallet dry !!! Oh, and that single woman you just let in for free ? Well, just because she didn't have to pay, does that guarantee that she's not some 2 dollar whore, out to cause a problem between a husband and his wife ??? NO !!! The only way you can be sure you are weeding out the rotten apples is to screen them, and keep on screening them. If you let em in and they act like a jerk, kick em out the FIRST time, with no appeal. I know someone's bound to get all pissy about my comments, but ya know what ? I just don't think that a single person should be penalized for having a penis. The only penalty should be as a result of BEHAVIOR. Give em a chance to prove themselves before you punish them. Just MY opinion. :evil:
  11. I agree with Terrieleex... I'd love to see my guy participate in bi-sexual activity, but I know it won't happen. He's very clear that he has no interest at all in that. Bummer. I think there are probably a lot of us ladies who wouldn't mind seeing our men pleasure each other, orally at least. To me, it's no different really than two women, but men see it differently for some reason. Oh well... :-)
  12. The portions of John's post are so dead on. The one time that we had a "soft" experience with a single male, he just happened to be observing us in action (we leave the door open often in a private room... we like to watch and be watched.. lol) He politely offered himself, and was allowed to fondle and caress me while my man and I continued what we were doing. He wasn't a "stud" but he was respectful, and not at all demanding. He didn't expect anything more than what he got... a free feel and a close up view of the show. If we had the chance, we'd gladly invite him to join us for an all out session, simply because he had the perfect attitude. He was in the right place, at the right time, and he was totally non-intrusive. If all single males approached swinging that way, I think more couples would be open to them.
  13. Translucent Butterfly. I have one almost identical to that, but the name was different. Lady Dragon. it's amazing !! It's the only toy though that my honey has never used on me, probably because it's the one I keep just for me, in case of emergencies. I'm not even sure he knows I have it. Anyway, I have to agree, these are wonderful!!! :evil:
  14. At our club, anyone... single or couple... would get thrown out on their ear for that sort of behavior !! Knock on a private room door that's shut, and end up on the street. Ask once to join, get told no, and then ask again, and end up with, at best, a warning that it better not happen again. Staring and jacking off ? Well, single men do not get to go into many areas of our club unless they are escorted there by a lady or a couple, so...... I guess we're just blessed to have joined a really well run place. :evil:
  15. Ok.. now let me tell ya the real story.. LOL I hear everyone go on and on and on about the search for the "elusive single female" and how hard they are to find. I also hear the single males griping about not being wanted. I don't get it. Where we are, single females are a dime a dozen, but a decent single male is next to impossible to find. Oh, don't get me wrong.. there are lots of guys, but I'm talking about the good ones. At our club, there are lots of single females, and frankly, they are havin a great time. So are the couples who are into the FMF scene. Our first experience (and only so far) was with a single female, because that was the most available option. Our club charges single males more than twice what a couple pays, and I don't blame them for not wanting to pay a huge amount of money for what will probably be a "fruitless" evening. We as a couple would actually prefer a single male for our next encounter, but the ones we've met so far are far too eager to tell me how "hung" they are, when what I really want them to tell me/show me is what a great person they can be, and how understanding/friendly/considerate they can be. As for the walking bullseyes thing, our club must be different, because I have never seen single females treated that way. Never. More often than not, I see the single females approaching the couples, and not the other way around. Sadly for some of us, the single guys are so intimidated that they seem afraid to speak to us unless we approach them first, while on the other hand, I've had to turn down several aggressive single females who were quite frankly TOO forward about wanting to play with a couple. Ok, so there's our response, from a couple's point of view. Just my experience/opinion :evil:
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