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    NJ
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    Still New

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    Both_Strong
  1. Male half posting here. Thanks for all your help – Kinda nice to see a bunch of responses. This board seems to have a higher percentage of view to responses than other boards we spend time on.(not Swinging brds). I myself spend far more time reading then posting – I like it here. I think this post may have hit a few nerves and sometimes that good. And I must say Chicups response hit us funny. I hate it when my reaction is to defend myself. We don’t have to apologize to anyone for our interests. Chicup has as much right to his opinions as we do to our desires and interests. Perhaps I could have worded our question a little better. We don’t want to insult anyone at a club or online. This is the reason we asked the question in the first place. Thanks
  2. This is the wife talking now. Thank you to everyone who responded. We learned alot from this post. Being the "newbies" that we are (and yes, Chicup, we are "newbies" but then maybe we didn't have to spell that out in the first sentence) we haven't quite figured out how things work, or exactly what we want yet. I am a little dismayed with the knowledge that we may not find a single woman interested in MFF at a club, and might have to look online for that (I don't know that I'm ready for that "direct" type of contact). But I guess that's why we haven't found the right situation yet. To be honest, the women I find attractive seem a little unapproachable, but I'm also a little hesitant to make the first move. Now to address Chicup's comments. Believe me, I wouldn't want to waste your time. I probably wouldn't even want to be in the same club with you, given your attitude. We like to make friends at the club, not be insulted. It's interesting that you would automatically assume that the limitation is totally due to the husband. It is actually the wife's disinclination to be with any other man. I just have no interest whatsoever. Part of the reason, I think, is that I haven't seen a man at a club who has attracted me yet. Plus I'm just not interested. So don't jump to conclusions and blame it on the husband's "insecurity." He has no reason to be insecure. We were both pretty disappointed in your response, Chicup. We are new and looking for some useful information. "Flaming" is so inappropriate.
  3. My wife and I are new to this game and are starting to think that it might be fun for a lady to join us. We have been to a few clubs and have a great time just doing our own thing. Most of the people at the clubs we visited are couples and when a single woman does show up she seems to disappear very fast. How would you communicate, or want to be told that we are only interested in ½ the couple?
  4. Yes I think she was married to him - they talked about that but didn't say his name. She said that was a very ugly break-up. She is the one on the far left on the trailer page.
  5. We have only been to on-prem accounts in PA and Ohio. Our taste in people tends to be those that are fit to very fit. We both find a fit muscular body very sexy. I find it interesting that you say that on-prem folks are not as attractive. We just assumed that the demographics of swingers matched that of out population in terms of being over-weight and so on. We are going to our first retreat – now it is being held by a on-prem place so we may not be exposed to anything different. You sure have me curious – We may have to visit a few off-premise clubs.
  6. I was in Maryland for work and hear a great interview with Janine on the radio. (Janine is a porn star that has been around awhile - you would love her if you like Tattoos) She said it was the most expensive Adult Film yet. And that they used the same ship from Pirates of the Caribbean. I will rent it. BTW it was a cool interview because she was talking about how she handles introducing her life as a porn star to her kids. Her oldest is an 11 year old boy who knows what his mom does. She said she just makes everything at home as natural as she can. And in fact never has men over to the house. She was funny saying that if she wasn’t a porn star she would never get laid, because she has no personal life. Since we have 3 young kids I am not sure how I would handle that.
  7. Cialis works great and I don't feel it like Viagra. Viagra makes me feel like my Blood Pressure is up or something. Cialis last for a few days and gives me a great hard0on. It does make it harder to cum - this is good sometimes but not always.
  8. I like my wife's feet and find that giving her a foot massage is good foreplay for both of us.
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