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beaverz

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About beaverz

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  • Birthday December 22

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    Couple
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    Indy
  • Swinging Experience
    0 Years
  1. Spoo When you’re watching the Anal Thrust Series Volume 17 you have to expect some anal activity. Even though I enjoy anal activity with Mrs. Beaverz I’m not a big fan of watching it on porn. I also get bored with today’s porn in general and find many things as turn offs. I don’t get the spitting on the vaginas or ass , popping the dick out of the ass and sticking it in the woman’s mouth , popping the dick out of a woman’s ass and showing a nice close-up of her asshole and every money shot is the guy jacking himself off on the woman’s face and mouth . We don’t watch much porn mainly because it’s seems to be all the same. We would actually like a good source for porn, something different, open for suggestions. I want to hear more about your workout program, it does sound interesting, but I don’t think it would be something I could incorporate at the gym.
  2. Those of you that have graduated from Swinger High or Swinger University will be receiving an official diploma that you can hang on your wall at home or at work next to your other diplomas and/or pictures of you shaking hands with past or current presidents. It would make for nice conversation at work or at home, don't you think. Those of you (including myself) that have not graduated high school will receive a wall size student ID. Teresa and Ted (or should I address you as Dr. Teresa and Dr. Ted) we would be honored for you to speak at this years graduation ceremony. Remember, all you alumni don't forget to mail you donations to show your support of your alma mater.
  3. Everyone on this board is at a grade level. I'm sure many of you have changed your status since joining the board. When you first joined the board what category were you compared to now? I joined this site about 18 months ago and really didn't know much about the lifestyle. I knew what the general public knows (that couples invite others into their sex life) but not about all the other aspects of swinging or the type of people that actually swing. I have discovered most are just like us and have average vanilla lives except for the sex thing. We have gone from a HS Freshman to now a HS Senior. I know I should have name the thread "Stupid Analogy Poll".
  4. Sorry I have no idea what % of the population swings. I personally think it is higher than what the average (non-swingers) person thinks, but I would doubt that swinging would be considered normal by most. We are not swingers at this time, we are just taking our time getting educated on the lifestyle and what to expect if we ever take the step. We are somewhat in your shoes (pre-swingers), but we are not going to let the main stream dictate what we should or should not do with our sex life or our marriage. I wouldn't base it on what is normal and what isn't normal. To me it's more normal and acceptable to have an affair behind your spouse's back than to swing. Just look around at your own family and friends, if they are like mine many of them are in miserable relationships, I would prefer to be in an abnormal relationship. I would much rather go against the gain and do what my wife and I feel comfortable with. Good luck!
  5. If you had to swing to discover that all you ever needed was each other than there were issues before inviting someone else into your love life. I doubt swinging caused a problem it just added to them.
  6. The protein drinks that are juices (grape ABB Pure Pro drink) seem to affect me in a strange way (a tingling sensation). I will only drink it after my workout. It’s not a good thing to walk around a gym with a hard on . The milk type protein shakes doesn’t have the same affect.
  7. Off topic: Mrs. Beaverz was telling me about a report she seen on tv regarding the above comment; If a woman is shown pictures of other women and asked to pick out which one she thought closely reflected her body, she would always pick the picture that had a woman with a bigger body than hers. The same was done to men and they would always pick the body type that was smaller than their own. I guess what they were saying is men think they are in better shape than they really are and women are in better shape than they think they are. Maybe Mrs. Beaverz was trying to tell me something.
  8. Dito That’s what scares me about Mrs. Beaverz, are we about to open the flood gates.
  9. I have to admit for many years I had mentioned to Mrs. Beaverz “I would love to see her with another woman”, knowing it was only a fantasy. But now since swinging is eminent my mind set has changed. I never ask Mrs. Beaverz to perform sexual acts and I definitely would not ask her to eat another woman or suck another guy off. She seems to know what she likes and how to please. Don’t get me wrong I would love to see her with another woman, but only if she is sexually excited and not doing it for me. The same goes with another guy (her with another guy). Hell let’s face it I love to see her sexually excited period. I do agree things can change; 10 years ago there was absolutely no thought of swinging with either of us. About 5 years back I had brought up my fantasy of watching her and another woman she responded with “I might be interest in that, but first I would like to try another guy and you could watch”. My initial reaction was “I don’t think so”. I have obviously changed. Maybe that’s when the idea of swinging was born. There are many things that I am not interest in sexually; having sex with another guy is one of them. It doesn’t make it wrong just doesn’t excite me. There are many other things Mrs. Beaverz fantasies about and they certainly will stay fantasies. Believe me Mrs. Beavers has a very vivid imagination .
  10. I feel so bad for you and Mrs. fun, this is a terrible thing to happen. I really can’t add any advice that hasn’t been mentioned or you haven’t thought of. I would like to thank you for coming to the board and sharing your terrible experience with others. It may help others to be more wary of their situation, not just in the swinging, but also in all other social events. This is problem that all of us need to be aware of, watch each others back and step forward when we see something that’s not right. Good luck!!!
  11. We are new to this lifestyle so we haven’t had much experience, but I would think it would be a major turn off to meet a couple that doesn’t respect each other or that is not completely comfortable with each other. Even in the vanilla world we don’t want to be around couples that don’t respect each other, and unfortunately we have a few married friends that are a bummer to be around. It will be interesting how others will perceive us as a couple. We’ve been together for over 22 years since we were both in our late teens. We are extremely comfortable with each other. We some times say things or joke around with each other that others may not understand. We do hold hands when we are out, but we really are not a lovey dovey couple. We are very lucky to be able to spend a tremendous amount of time together, we both have our own businesses and we try to help each other out as much as possible. I hate the thought of ever having to get a real job and not being able to spend the time together. Early on we lost many friends because we were one of “Those sickening couples that love each other so much” and still are! We both were committed to each other pretty much from day one and placed each other above family and friends, which pissed off many of them. I heard I was pussy whipped and she heard I was one of those controlling guys. Now many of them tell us “I wish I had a relationship like yours”, which is a great compliment.
  12. Mrs. Beaverz loves anal sex, but only maybe once or twice a month. It normally consists of using a thin soft vibrator with me giving oral to her clit, sometimes we will add second toy to her vagina. It normally ends with intense orgasm. We very rarely have me penetrate her anally. We both don’t seem to have a need for that. Maybe it’s my massive size that keeps us from truly getting into it :rollseyes . (Man I hope Mrs. Beaverz don’t read this post.)
  13. Nicely said, EvilMJ (Evil cums in many forums) The same goes with my kids, once they hit a certain age. I have 22 year old and I don’t want to know or need to know any details of his sex life. (SexyShelby you need to stay out of this one, you are all ready in enough trouble as it is ).
  14. Is that you mom? couplewanting50, of course I’m joking, but I get what SexyShelby is saying I think . I’m glad mom is still active, having fun, and still playing hid the sausage or what ever. I just don’t need to know. That part is true.
  15. I’m 41 or 42 (I can’t remember) and somewhat old and wrinkly and a little gross, but anyway I’m with SexyShelby on this one. Maybe not the old and wrinkly part, but I don’t want my parents having sex or least knowing about it. My mom is only 59, looks young for her age, single and I’m sure has sex. That’s just wrong, my mom is not supposed to have sex after she gave birth to me, it should have stopped there. Anytime she has a hot date Mrs. Beaverz will always say “I wonder if your mom got some last night” or I’m going to call your mom and see if the slut got some” she knows it just curls my skin and I don’t won’t to hear anything about it. Mrs. Beaverz is on the phone the next day to get the details. So then I have to start describing visuals on what her mom is doing to her boyfriend just to get under her skin. Now my boys (22 & 16) I’m sure feel the same way they don’t want to know about our sex life. They know we have sex, but they are not about to ask any questions. There have been times when one of them has walked into a room and caught me saying something or doing something (not sex, just copping a feel or such) and their response is “I will be leaving now and I don’t want to know”. I really think if we ever start swinging and my boys suspected something I don’t think they would ask any questions or even want to know.
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