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puneswings

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About puneswings

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  • Birthday 02/05/1970

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Pune, India
  • Interests
    Travelling
  1. We once had a group scene with 5 couples (us included) involved. We had rented a villa quite far out from everyone's respective places of residence. However, one of them had a babysitter cancelling at the last minute, and had no choice but to either cancel their own plans of joining us, or bringing the children along. They went with the latter. We (me and asha) were a bit nervous about it initially, but it turned out fine in the end. The children (3 yrs and 5 yrs, if I remember right) went to bed early, and didn't wake up even once, despite the fairly loud noises coming from our designated Temple of Wanton Lust.
  2. I would agree with JnCC here. I think it is perfectly ok for the guy to not cum once she has. Let her enjoy the post-orgasm buzz; jerk yourself off if you must cum, its what I do. We have a pretty good unspoken deal in place. The person who rides on top has the right to cum. The other one begs for it We average about 50% either way.
  3. We had met this couple where the wife was about 10 junior to the hubby. She was quite active while he was not at all, besides some touchy-feely things with my wife. So most of the time, it was me with her, with my wife and her hubby cheering from the sidelines. Not comfortable. We decided we shouldn't continue with that one.
  4. After a two year swinging spree, we have been taking a break right now for the past approx 2.5 years, because we just had our 2nd and 3rd daughters (one year apart). We plan to get back next month onwards.
  5. We are on our first marriage, and are now 7 years married. Ours was a typical Indian "arranged" marriage and I never knew Asha before our brief 1 month engagement. I know this sounds unimaginable to most, but what the heck, it worked for us. As it turned out, we are very very compatible on almost fronts. She enjoys the occassional smoke like I do, shares the occassional drink with me (when reading this, keep in mind that these interests are quite rare for the traditional Indian woman) and of course we discovered we were both bi and developed a common interest in swinging as well (definitely even more rare! ) We did go thru some initial mind-f*** when we started swinging, some amount of jealousy and possesiveness did creep in. But we both understood that such feelings were not rational given that we were both interested in swinging and we both understand our love for each other, and now we were quite happy and secure in the lifestyle.
  6. Hey Spoomonkey... I have to ask: What's fried foods got to do with swinging/sex??
  7. Surely you mean "accepted norms for society at large" or similar, and are not suggested that publicly acceptable norms should/would be established by the hetero folks?
  8. It has been my favorite fantasy to be having anal sex with Asha while someone is having it with me! I don't even know if it is physically/anatomically possible, but what the heck, one can dream, and who knows I may get a chance to find out one day
  9. At what point in our evolution did we begin to differentiate between the genders? At what point did humankind say 'I am a man/woman and can therefore only only be happy with a woman/man'? Will there ever reach a stage where humankind will have evolved to such a level that they shall know no difference between the genders when it comes to using the human body (one's own, and others') for pure physical pleasure? I wonder if this differentiation that we make between the sexes are a result of social conditioning. What is it that makes a man or woman say 'never' when presented with an option to explore pleasure with another man? And, what is different about those men and women who say 'ok', or 'maybe' and are open to trying it out? I have always considered bisexuality as the most beautiful form of sexuality. The liberating feeling of knowing that you are not limited in your choice of potential partners, the sheer thrill of being able to participate in a sexual act with any of the participants (and not to mention, double the rejections ), its simply exhilarating. Universal Receiver, Universal Giver I see the beauty of bisexuality not merely at the physical level; it is even more so at the mental and emotional level. To be able to admire a fellow human being belonging to the same gender as you and enjoy it is, I believe, a sign of an evolved personality; one who's inner eye has opened and can see true beauty in all humans without the limitations of social conditioning. Universal Lover Finally I see the social beauty of bisexuality: How can there ever be true equality until that day comes when a man can feel free to bring out the woman in him without worry, and woman can be man without fearing the wounded masculine ego? When you are Kali; Shaker of the Worlds I will be your Shiva; Humble Recepient When I am Shiva; Dancing Tandav Be my Parvati; become my Dance Peace. Mohan PS: Both me and Asha are bi.
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