We completely agree with Spoo Monkey on this one...we are pretty good looking people.....maybe even traffick stoppers in our own right...however, we found that on our first swinging experience, looks don't mean a thing. It is more about the confidence (true inner self confidence) that you have in yourself that counts. That being said, if you are ever in CO and looking for a good time and feel truly over your outer looks, look us up! Most people in this world don't look like Brendan Frasier and Tara Banks and those in the swingers lifestyle are perfectly happy with that. Put yourselves in the mind fraim of "what if...." and have a great time swinging! We hope that these are only temporary stumbling blocks and that you have a great time from now on!