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  1. The temptations of life. Yea you would definitely have a great time. but it will probably come at a great price. Considering your sister in law is coming out of a relationship. It is normal to cling to the very first person who shows any attention. It's easy for a wife to disregard a clingy female with no ties to them but like it was mentioned, how do you ignore a disgruntled sister across the table at Christmas dinner especially when she needs to pass the turkey dressing. Or god forbid she needs to clean the air in front of Mom and Dad? But look on the bright side, you definitely wouldn't have anyone snoozing in the living room later.
  2. I agree with DarkBlue, the word vanilla is something We havnt ran across much either, but then again we are not what you would call Die Hards. Even something initially before contact that would give you a good clue of a couple being in a alternative lifestyle. say a global symbol known among swingers. which comes to mind, it was rumored the rubber wrist bands young people wore that where the color stood for a favored sexual position or preference. We should give it a shot, and just see where it goes. Someone with a great underlying symbol, animal, etc.Something not so obvious to a crowd but a red flag for a swinging couple. lets hear your thoughts.
  3. Crackojack, I'm just curious and by no means questioning your reasoning, but if you are a single male why would you be interested in a couples swing party to begin with? Single men interested in mingling with other couples, which is a whole other topic in itself. To pay 70 bucks to get into a club when I was single would have been laughable. "And your gonna tag me like some orphaned baby seal?? Nu UH!!" I believe the reasoning is guys think since swingers are sexually open, I am bound to get laid...lol, this is so far from the truth. Sure there are females sexually open in swinging but keep in mind that woman is bound to a man, which might not see your intentions as equally erotic. Being single was a sexual adventure in its own rite for me personally. Has it changed that dramatically over the last 7 years? I couldn't imagine it has. Hell, start your own singles swing parties. Remember the fried chicken and porno club? If you are even somewhat social in your area, local pubs, clubs etc. you would be surprised how many women you could entice to participate once word got out your house parties were sexually themed... curiosity killed the cat my friend. Good luck in all your adventures.
  4. I have heard before there are key points to look for to notice Hotwives/Swinging couples in public. I consider it a myth more than anything, So I will ask the more experienced here if there is any truth in it. Its rumored you can usually spot a hotwife from the color of nail polish, jewelery,ankle braclelets, preference in shoe style are all indications of a Alternative lifestyle. *I know to categorize a individual from just these simple choices is a stretch to say in the least.* But say we entertain the thought for a moment, any idea's how to spot signs on the male as well? Like anything most hobbies/activities have a simple sign to show interest in it. example: parents with kids in sports might have the football logo or whatever on their vehicle..Sure we have all seen them. Is there a global logo for swinging?lol and do you wear it publicly for the sole purpose?
  5. And guys don't feel left out. Try Man Parrish "male stripper" I know it is old but it is a classic, guaranteed to make them blush.
  6. Being of artistic nature, and self-proclaimed doodler I never found a tattoo that had me say - WOW!! I must have that on my arm, chest, ass. And the thought of getting something I would regret looking at for the rest of my life has always swayed me from the idea. But certain people can pull it off and I say, "Hey go for it." What I can't stand are the trendy tattoos or the outright ridiculous. I was a contractor on a remodel job and had hired a carpet company to install some carpet for a large petrochemical office. One evening I was speaking with the woman in charge of installation and such, and one of the workers approached us for something. He was in his mid fifties and the woman which was my boss noticed his tattoo which protruded from under his cap. With that he removes his cap with total pride for a closer look. To my horror it was a naked woman layed out on the hood of a Rolls Royce. Spread eagle with licenses plate 666. And how do I say her vulva was enhanced in pink shades. I will never forget the woman in the suits face and all she could muster was "That's nice". I was totally humiliated. If you have a Chinese or foreign tattoo, I expect you to speak the language fluently. Remember the tribal bands men were getting around their biceps in the late nineties early 00. Once the gym membership expired, after trading the stretch shirts for Haggar button up's, you don't see many sporting them anymore. another fading trend is the cutesy butterfly, Orbs ,Vines or what have you just above a womans backside. Well mother nature can be cruel, we are not promised youth forever and that beautiful dragonfly will resemble a 747 going down in flames one day. And I would prefer not being the one watching the disater unfold while I have you in doggie years down the lline.Besides who wants to hear "Grandma your back is bleeding". Just my 2 cents, but i have to admit i also seen some major hot ones....for now.
  7. Very nice example Spoonmonkey, I would have to say it would be more on the lines of the "chase" for us as well. But if you tally all other aspects *(and I am referring to the hardcore swinging couples)* Where is the big difference in meeting a couple and having sex with them 15 minutes later, than paying for someones services other than the money involved. Morally speaking. And by no means ,Do not take that as we have moral issues with swinging as I promise you we dont. We have never patronized a professional (well other than that Mexico trip 12 years ago with a few buddies, years before our relationship, but that's a bachelor's tale ) As I failed to mention this is just to get a idea of individual views. entertainment only.
  8. Just wanted to get everyones opinion on how they would feel about a paid date. (escort,male/female) ...you get the idea. Lets say you were in a situation where you had no individuals in your area to play with ...lol,I know everyone does but just entertain the thought for a moment. Most of society frowns on the idea of hiring a person/persons for the sole intentions of sex, hence the illegal act of prostituion. Please give your opinion and why you would choose so. We are on the fence with this one.
  9. I use to have the same problem years ago. My problem was i was concerned with her acceptance of me cumming in her mouth, sure she said it was ok, but during the act you are not honestly having much of a conversation. and I always had a feeling in the back of my mind she would not enjoy it. Its a mental thing. the way around it for me was to RELAX!! Try this out , add more mental (verbal) stimulation, talk dirty to him, the good boy role will be thrown out of his head. work him up with your hand (alot of saliva or lube is needed).whille concentrating more oral attention to his testicals. So the first time expect to be there awhile, dont mention about him cumming in your mouth, but when he does take him in your mouth. all he needs to do , is actually do it once or twice and it will be a whole lot easier. So by no mean dont feel you arent pleasing, actually the opposite , you have done something right for him to hold you in such high reguards of respect. Hope this helps.
  10. I don't see asking to meet in a public place, possibly a coffee house he enjoys or whatever, as going out of his way. Something just doesn't feel right about someone asking for us to either come to his house or no deal. Just because you are a male is no reason you should feel safe in this lifestyle. Any lifestyle that invites sex also lures the sick and twisted.It reminds me of a story of a couple who were out on a date. Got carjacked by a group of men, taken by gunpoint back to a home and were sodomized for days, and it happened that one of the attackers was female. Long story short, and to save you the gory details, the man was raped and beaten repeatedly but compared to the woman got out easy and was killed the first day. The female was not so fortunate, her nightmare lasted days, and ended up dismembered in a trash bin. So would I worry about him being put out? Absolutely not! It is almost irritating to me he could be so inconsiderate...look elsewhere.
  11. Just to give you a piece of advice from experience, once you feel you have exhausted every avenue of reconcilation. Step back and seek another angle. Giving your religious background I know the exact same feeling, you feel like life is wasting away and you are missing out, What crazy stories are you going to tell your grand childern right? But honestly Fate, Religous belief or Charma, which ever you believe has a twisted way of turning around and Biting you square on the ass. I got so tired of hearing that one liner "The grass isnt always greener" one. But guess what, there is some serious truth in that catch phrase. Take a step back and look at the things you enjoy in your life at the moment. How many will no longer be there or the ones you might have taken for granted. You dont truly miss them till they are gone. Now I dont know your whole situation, as there could be other issues which might come into play ,where your former partner is not a equal balance and the best alternative is divorce. But if you are basically baseing your divorce on the idea your wife is no longer interested in swinging. Yes sir, you are selfish and you better grab on to the decent things in your life before they are taken from you.
  12. Try "No ordinary love" by Jade, you are definitely getting laid!! or flip 180 degrees Sexy back by JT. but the challenge is "tip toe through the tulips" by Tiny Tim. If you pull that off ,your the Master!!
  13. lol reminds me of a time when this subject came into play. We were going crazy one day, (you guys know, talking bout the sex where hours pass and you dont put under wear back on immediately because you no once again you rubbed that fucker raw, and seperateing a wounded penis that has stuck to the briefs is short of meeting the devil himself). one story short about 25 minutes passed in between *keep that in mind* well she is back down leaning back sucking like there was a reward comming, and I have to say I was ready, my gear was like blue steel, a cat couldnt scratch it. In the heat of the moment I rolled her on top of me to return the favor, and at about that moment i realize I hadnt thought this thru, ..I seen it comming!! rolls out and hit me right on the chin My immediate reponse was this is comming off now..I swear I would have thrown her on the floor before she seen it on my face. My girl is a kidder and I could have imagine the hell my friends would have put me thru for years to come. but my hand makes it about mid waist before she starts moaning a grinding on my face, and yes there was still more. at this point Im not gonna say a word. told myself I have ate worse and did my best tongue shoveling act in between pleaseing her not to send up any flags. she finishes and by the grace of god collapes forward giving me a moment to smear what was on my face into a pillow. so have a laugh guys, but remember it can happen to you.
  14. Imagine being the only kid in school on parent day, with a story that opened something llike this "My mom was on all fours in latex and collar with some stranger pounding from behind yelling Bark Bitch Bark!! We are talking about bringing innocent life into the world under some selfish fantasy. And the sad thing is its probably a reality for some.
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