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  1. Just curious about something. In your first post, you stated single women were non existant during your stay. In your second you mention being watched by three single ladies on Wednesday night. Am I missing something? Dan
  2. Nah, not judgementalism, just a strong aversion to involving children in our private, sexual matters. Who ever said swingers should be exempt from having some sort of moral code? Dan
  3. If so, glad you've enjoyed reading my posts. As far as "babbling" to strangers or acquaintances, there are far too many people out there of all stripes who insist on doing just that -- whatever their particular proclivication is, they're constantly shoving it in the faces of everyone around them. And then have the nerve to complain if someone disagrees. I've always been of the mind that, if you want to make your personal life public, you have no right to complain of any slings and arrows that come your way as a result of it. Too many homosexuals are doing just that, wanting it both ways. (no pun intended.) Dan
  4. Ion, not everyone wants to hear of your involvement in swinging, nor mine. And some of them tend to get a tad upset having it shoved into their faces. Dan
  5. You may think of me as a rather intolerant individual, but that's the furthest thing from the truth. However, there's a big difference between intolerance and not wishing to be made privy of every single nuance of other people's lives. I could care less if you're an Athiest, Muslim, Christian, Buddist, or if you worship doorknobs, but that doesn't mean I want to hear a daily mantra about it on the job. And I suspect those who DO lose their jobs over such issues don't lose them because of their beliefs, but because they simply can't resist inserting plugs into conversations each chance they get. Believe me, I've known some real militant types who apparently can't think of anything BUT their pet cause. Again, why would Bill volunteer such personal information with his children? If you've been following this thread from the beginning, that's indeed what he's talking about. If at some future date his kids come across something that looks suspicious, whether it be an email or something along those lines, then he can decide whether or not to come clean. What Bill's talking about is making certain his kids know. Big difference. This begs all sorts of possible scenarios. Are you suggesting dad confide in his son that he occasionally has the secretary bent over his desk? Or that mom tells her kids she once got drunk and did it with their daddy's brother? Do you really want to know the complete sexual history of your parents? I sure as hell don't, know more than I want them to know mine. What is it with this obsessive need to 'fess up everything to everyone? Sorry, this one stretches the boundaries of the imagination. Knowing someone has sex and involving them in your sexual activities by taking them to a club are two different things, and you know it. My mother has daily bodily functions like the rest of us, but that doesn't mean I want to hear a blow by blow description either. Or am I being close minded on THAT too? Ah yes, the good old "safe alternative". Shucks, they're gonna do it anyway, so why not make sure they do it RIGHT. Nothing like watching ma gettin' all hot 'n steamy with other men to set sonny on the right track. Maybe she just wanted to get him drunk for his 21st B day? And here I thought she had no redeeming qualities as a mother. If one of our children showed up at a function, we'd probably either faint of embarrassment, or have a coronary. But the difference is, Ion, the embarrassment would be born of the fact we've strived to keep our sexual lives completely separated from our kids, and theirs as adults from us. You'll probably think this makes us hypocrites, but not at all. It only further illustrates our natural instinct to insolate our children from our private sexual activities. There's that word again, "intolerant". I'm beginning to honestly think that means anyone with any limits whatsoever. At least in this context anyway. So telling anyone who'll listen about your sex life will contribute to longevity? Kudos Ion, for providing a new and unique twist to the argument. I guess confession is indeed good for the soul, and the heart. No, I realize Bill wasn't suggesting having sex in the same room as your children (although at this point, I'm not sure he'd discount it either. Intolerance, you know). But taking your kids to a swingers club is going beyond simply making them privy to what mom and dad do on Saturday nights. Can we agree on that much? Dan
  6. Ion, you have nothing to feel sorry about. You chose to post information about a woman taking her 21 year old son to a swing club, and that prompted comments which branched off into other areas. That's how converstations are born and expand. The "kid" may be 21, but he's still her son. I'm 45, and I can tell you I'd feel nothing short of incestuous about participating in anything even remotely sexual with my 76 year old mother. Bill has this inner compulsion to share anything and everything with his kids, including the fact their parents have sex with other people. I also believe the majority of people reading this thread agree with me, but have chosen not to join in the fray. That's fine, it's their choice to either participate or simply observe. Playing amateur psychologist, I still think Bill is unconsciously seeking approval with what he and his wife do, even from their own children. It belies his assertion to the contrary. Dan
  7. I had to re-read that quote to get the full import of it. Bill, do you really believe the public will become more accepting of our lifestyle if each of us begin involving our own children in it? To the point of actually taking them to the nearest swinger's club? I can't believe you actually buy into that. Dan
  8. Well Bill, I guess I'm one of those old fogeys who believes there are some things that should be off limits, and that includes parental/child sexual involvement, even if only attending a club together. I also believe there's apparently very little or no limits set in your household regarding your kids, and while that's every parent's right, it does your kids no good whatsoever. Beginning with and since the '60's, when this kind of parenting became vogue, teens have sunk into an abyss of self destructive behaviour unheard of previously. And with people like you, your solution is more of the same. Go ahead and take your kids to the local swinger's haven, Bill. Make certain they get that quality guidance they'll need to embark on a successful career in swinging. Dan
  9. Good idea. You can even supply the condoms. Do they sell them in family packs? You know, many in the swinging community are trying their damnedest to convince the general public we're not a bunch of sexual deviants, and now we have people in here suggesting it's a good idea to actively involve your kids. If I ever run for office, remind me not to hire you for campaign manager.
  10. I can guarantee the majority of even the most ardent swingers would find the idea of taking one's child to a club repulsive. Knowing and participating together are two different species. Frankly, I'm having a tough time even believing the story anyway. Then again, Jerry Springer's made millions from watered down DNA.
  11. Shock and disgust?!? My God, some people are just SOOO intolerant these days. Or maybe they were all PTL members undercover. Dan
  12. Yeah, that's all I'd need, to fall in love with another man's wife. Good grief, 'nuff said on THAT one.
  13. "Some guy says she needs another dick". Typo, or am I missing something here? Dan
  14. Had that happen, too. In fact, happens more often than not. The first time I went to pull it out, being ever so gentle and considerate of the lady, it slipped out of my fingers and gave her a bit of a snap. Sort of ruined the afterglow, I'm afraid.
  15. The most embarrassing (and I suppose humorous) moment was during a four-way, when both myself and the other guy found our little helpers pointing in the wrong direction. Namely, south. Fortunately, we both rallied to save the day. I mean, evening.
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