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Fred&Wilma

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About Fred&Wilma

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  • Birthday 06/30/1953

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Michigan
  • Interests
    golf & sex (not always in that order)
  • Occupation
    Marketing

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    Fred & Wilma

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  1. Greetings - I read about and experienced the mood swings that occured when I quit smoking with Chantix well over a year ago. However I only took Chantix for 90 days and the mood swings persisted for almost a year, though the intensity did decrease over time. The question then is whether the mood swings were due to Chantix or due to Nicotine withdrawl. My opinion is that it is the Nicotine withdrawl as the effects of Nicotine on my bodies metabolic system were very severe. The only person that makes the decision to quit is you. To anybody who is trying to quit - Best wishes and keep on trying. It is worth it. Fred
  2. Hmm, have not run a online ad? At least not yet and not sure if we ever will. If we did it might go something like this: Fred&Wilma Been meeting up with neighbours for years and need to look outside our quarry. Wilma is bi-curious and neighbour is not. Fred is not afraid to communicate his desires. (Fred always has something to say) Wilma once she gets rolling will rock your world. Willing to meet for drinks at the Buffalo Lodge. We like to know you first and maybe crack your stones if we are compatible. Wilma's fantasties inlcude 3-ways and multipul bi-ways. Fred likes his Stone Pillar to be happy. Wilma has the same body as when we got married which is very well proportioned. Fred has a stocky but a rock solid build. Would love to hear from you and maybe we can do the Yaba Daba Doo!!!
  3. Nothing new to add to the comments of the non-smokers who prefer smoke free. My comment is from a pack a day for 30+ years ex smoker who lost track of the number of times I quit. There is a new drug from Pfizer called Chantix if you want to quit. It deals with nicotine addiction, you deal with the habitual addiction. It has the highest success rate of any method available. The medication is cheaper per day than a pack of cigarettes. Oh yeah, the sex is better when you do not smoke since smoking constricts your blood vessels which feed your erogenous zones. If you want to quit, give it a try, no harm in using any assistance you can lay your hands on. Fred
  4. In brief: - Married 30 years (Wahoo!!!) - Been discussed off and on for almost 25 years. (First time, really?, ding, ding, ding!) - Discussed rarely. (Oh look, a blue moon) - Situation hot (Let's find someone else to screw around with) - Situation cold (Too tall, too short, too whatever) - Goes only as fast as the slowest partner. (If both of us do not agree, it is not going to happen) - Sometimes open honest discussion. (Honey I would really like to try) - Sometimes all sorts of innuendo. (Comments about alternate sexual partners, but non-specific) - Sometime realistic comments and sometimes not. (Yes the average couple would probably be interested, but holding out for a Brad and Angelina type would not be fruitful). It may not ever happen, then again it may and probably on a moments notice when it does. However if it does not, it will not be the end of the world. Do not think I will ever throw in the towel, but will be realistic about it too. Fred
  5. Well maybe it has two meanings in one word. In the erotic film industry a "Fluffer" is the person who gets the actors sexually primed just before they step in a scene. Hence the term "Fluffer" meaning to prime the pump, fluff the pillow etc. Nutter - Could mean testicles, but I doubt it, probably means the whole group is a bunch of nuts who like to have a good time. Now my imagination is wondering about a scenario for consideration of group play and maybe they are already do it. I wonder what it would be "Fluffed" by someone else and then to be introduced to someone else who has also been "Fluffed". Talk about showing up horny and ready to rock and roll. Would you know who are being "Fluffed" for or not would also be an interesting question? Has kind of a gladiator love match type of feel to it. Act II could be the "Fluffers", talk about being given a treat only to have it taken away. They gotta have some fun too. Anyways, that is my opinion and I am sticking to it.
  6. LOL You can prowl He can't You can pick your meat He can't You set the rules He can't Sometimes we create a our situation, then wonder how we got there. Sounds like your own quotation: Oooh! Ahhh! That's how it always starts. Then later there's running and screaming.
  7. We will always have different levels of our life intruded upon whereby the word "no" is required. - Did you want to biggie size your food order? "No thank you" - Would you like a credit card for our store? "No thank you" - Would you like to donate to our charity? "No thank you" - Even the damn gas pumps sometimes ask you a bunch of questions trying to sell you something when all you want to do is put gas in your car and get back on the road! Trouble is you feel stupid telling a machine "NO". We have never been to a club, but I imagine everyone's perception is slightly varied of what they expect. Some have the fantasy to meet and greet new people and if they hit it off to let things take their course. Others however may have the image that it is all out hedonism and anything goes. I think they would call that the orgy room, but outside that realm most of us still wish to be civil and to be treated with civility. It is when the two opposites meet that trouble arises. Unfortunately there are people in this world who think that by proceeding indiscreetly or forcefully that they will get their way and ignore the word "NO" at their own peril and act contrite about their position when they are caught. Like I have read on the board many times "NO MEANS NO!". Unfortunately there are some who believe the rules were made for someone else.
  8. You can spice up your food and a lot of things in your life. My opinion is that usually when you hear "Spice Up Your Sex Life" it is between two people as a couple. Dress up, act out parts, risky location etc. to heighten their sexual experience with each other. But when it is stated in this context it implies all you have to do is join a swingers network. After reading many insightful comments on this board, just by agreeing to participate does not mean it is perfect. That you have to put effort into it, you can have a great time and find your own niche within this lifestyle, but there has to be effort. The advertisement implies that joining will improve your sex life and without effort it will not. (I think this is why Julie feels irked about this, that it makes it sound easy and a resolution to their problems) Cases in point (comments I have read) - We posted our ad, but no one calls. (Get off your butt and reach out to other ads). - They never called back, they never showed up. (Be prepared to qualify your playmates) The ad appeals to people who think everything happens in life as easy as turning on a light switch. If the pleasures of life were easy, everyone would have them, but the truth is that only those who put forth the effort achieve them. (Well unless you are Paris Hilton) I would also like to take this opportunity to thank those who post their comments on the board as it has been a wealth of food for thought for me. The insights are appreciated.
  9. Realize your hubby has already figured it out on his own that you have reached the level of screaming orgasm's. In fact he probably knew before when you were faking it (very hard for the eyes to fake it) Rather than make a scene or create an uncomfortable situation he may have found a way to take it to the next level in a non-confrontational manner instead. Also who really cares how you got there, but that you did. Can you imagine going through life and never reaching that level? What a waste that would be. Here's to those shatter the windows and soak the bed orgasm's. Wahoo!
  10. Realize that it also depends on the maturity and confidence of the waterboy. Years ago in the first couple of years of gainful employment I had to deliver documents to a client's house during the day. Had coffee with the lady of the house (hubby not home) and the lady of the house was flirty, suggestive and expressive. Translation - "Want to screw". Too many unknown's - Where was the hubby? - This was a client and if it went wrong, loose job - Too fast and never met her before in my life. On one hand, would of loved to jump her and on the other nervous about possible repercussions. So I left head bang The waterboy probably would love to jump your bones, but you need to find a way to make your intentions absolutely clear and that his risk is minimal. Good Luck
  11. But, I gave Mrs Spoomonkey a challenge. We were both wired to actually be going on a vacation - and we needed some way to get the edge off... So - the challenge? She had to finish me before we drove all of 670... Well Spoo, Everytime I drive I-670 I will have little grin knowing what happened. As for cars (like to think of it as personal transportation as cars are little limited) - Motorcycle - (Parked) - 73 Triumph Bonneville - That sissy bar car came in real handy. - Police Paddy Wagon - 66 GMC Long Box - Lots of room there. - 69 Vega - Tight fit as Fred's a big guy, one of the best bone jumping sessions ever though. - 68 SuperBee - Bench seat you could almost lie across, lots of room here. Front hood was pretty spacious too and comfortable with a heavy blanket across it. - 74 Gremlin - Fold down back seat. Cops busted Wilma & I on Daytona Beach, asked to see her I.D. to make sure she was legal, told us to finish up and left. - 77 Volvo - The practical car. Then along came children and a different perspective of comfort, nice bed, room service is even better and somewhere not up north during the winter is the best. Take care. Fred
  12. Wilma and I are still in the very early discussion/examination/inner looking stage. Her comments have fit into so many things I have read here it is down right scary. The whole thought/dicussion process is exactly as some of the female members have stated - "I was not brought up that way - but it sure does interest me" and they need to come to terms with that. Patience is virture, do you want your S/O to participate because you told them to or because it was a mutual agreement?
  13. Buck naked baby, no clothes or shoes to leave marks. Played a round of golf with my father next day and could not find any ball marks from the night before. Gave a whole new meaning to "A hole in one". Remembered another - tree house.
  14. I had mine 17 years ago, second child, one girl, one boy, family in place and decided to get it done. My procedure went fine, at that time the procedure was done like a production line by the doctor skipping from room to room at the hospital. As I was leaving my room, the door across the hall was open and all I could see was this guy with his feet toward me, head up looking out the door looking like a deer in the headlights (terrified). I was fine, but decided to moan and shuffle all the way down the hall out of the hospital. I can be a mean bastard sometimes. A buddy of mine went through hell though, not because of the initial operation, but for other reasons. Him and his wife decided it was time for the procedure. Gets it done, gets home, his butt is about 3" from hitting the couch when his wife states "I changed my mind and want another child". Being the loving husband he is, calls doctor and the corrective surgery is scheduled. It's surgery this time, not a procedure. Supposed to take about 30 minutes, complications arise and the surgery lasts about 3 hours. Finally awakens in the hospital room, balls as big as melons hurting like hell. Wife leans over and states "I changed my mind". My friend is one of the nicest, calmest, easy going guys I know stated "If I was not in such excruciating at that moment, I would have risen off the bed and done something I would have regretted". It is not that his wife is a mean-hearted person, she is just a ditz. A pretty ditz, but a ditz just the same.
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