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theatre, books, sex...not in that order
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Great actor, good singer, fair dancer
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I've said it before, but I'll still say it again anyway... Every woman in the throes of orgasm is beautiful. A woman who is secure about who she is and having fun with what she's doing is sexy to me. I don't focus on what marks a woman has on her skin, but how she's using what's between her legs.
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Girls, How did you discover you were Bi?
ddrewd replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Quin, I was both touched and turned on by your description of your first time with a woman. If only everyone's 'firsts' could be as sweet, sex would finally shake the 'dirty' label that puritans keep pinning to it.- 22 replies
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Strangely, while I really enjoy a passionate woman's dirty talk during sex, I'm not a very conversationalist with my clothes off. That's one area in which I still need to loosen up. My sex talk tends to be gentle ("I love the feel of your...".etc etc) rather than dirty ("shake your ass, you slut!")
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I've had a lifelong aversion to blood, so for the longest time I'd never have sex during a woman's period. That is, until I had a horny girlfriend who wanted it when she wanted it. Period. (Sorry about that! ) And as a true gentleman always assists a lady in need, I had to overcome my qualms and do the manly thing. It may not have been the most enjoyable thing I've ever done in bed, but the lady was satisfied, and that's what counts. Drew
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Who is the seducer, the woman or man?
ddrewd replied to Sweetdevil's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I've changed my view on this question ever since I've begun associating with swingers. Not too long ago, I would have said 'Neither' in my case. There's just too much game playing, and it's frustrating. Among swingers, everything is more upfront. Both men and women can try their hand at seduction, and no one has to be afraid of saying "No" or of having their feelings hurt. Yes, there's a lot of game-playing among swingers, but in the swinging environment everyone knows the rules and can play along. -
I've heard that if you leave a pill under your tongue, it goes into the bloodstream a lot faster (especially if it's split -- you don't have to melt through the coating). It has a bitter taste, but it's tolerable. I've had it kick in after just 15-20 minutes, useful for those moments when passion just carries you away. Just don't do any frenching while it's dissolving... LOL
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Originally posted by coolwetbreeze: PS...it's always better with a stick of gum in your mouth.All that tingly feeling for him and extra flavor for you... I bet "Big Red" gum would really give him a 'tingly' feeling.
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To get back to original question.... Yes, I use Viagra. I decided to get ahold of some after my divorce. During my first sexual encounter after the split, I suffered performance anxiety. That's generally not a good enough reason for a Doc to write a prescription, so I decided to get some online. My anxieties vanished during a very fulfilling (sexually and emotionally) relationship, but I continue to use it for performance enhancement. Because there's no real physiological need for it, I've found I can get away with using just 1/4 of a tablet for 12-16 hours' effectiveness. (Gives new meaning to 'the morning after'!) Yes, it's expensive online, though I haven't priced what a local prescription would charge. But since I get 4 times the dosage, I consider it a bargain. The only side effect I noticed was stuffed up sinuses, but I don't even have that problem ever since I cut the dosage to 1/4. I hope this info was of some help.
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Originally posted by Regularguy: Levels of alkalinity vary from person to person, and mine is low so tastes quite neutral, but give the guys a break... How do you know... Aww, never mind.
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Thanks, Lori, for the lovely affirmation. I know that it's flogging a deceased equine, but I appreciate the sentiments. From my pre-sexual days I can recall a great amount of social bigotry practiced by couples against single people. It's more than just sexual: most couples just like hanging out with other couples. I have no problem with that. But when couples don't like to hang with singles because they think they're 'losers', then it's hurtful prejudice.
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Which is the best way to get to get to know others?
ddrewd replied to ddrewd's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Nor does it do anything for me. It's faux sex, and I'd rather have the real thing. However it's a different thing to swap fantasies, and to offer suggestions for things to do if both parties make a connection. I enjoy hearing what others like to do or want to try. Drew- 27 replies
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Julie, stop me if this question has come up before, but I couldn't find it through Search. This question was inspired by another thread. I'm not asking about the initial contact, but after the first contact is made. Which way do you think is most effective at getting to know others before you meet face-to-face? It comes down to 3 methods: Chat Email Telephone For me Chat is nervewracking. Even though I can type 50+ wpm, it moves too fast (when you're typing) and too slow (when the other person is typing). Yet, it's in real time which makes for a more natural and conversational exchange. And chatting creates a more uninhibited exchange than you'd likely have over the phone. Telephone: With nationwide plans for cellphones, this is becoming a less-expensive option, though it's still costly. Yet, there's something about hearing a person's voice that tells you alot about them. Email: my preferred method. It's like old fashioned letters only digitized. It's not conversation, but it gives you time to think, to ask and answer questions more creatively (though increasing the BS factor at the same time). So, what'll be: Chat, Email or Phone? Drew
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with my ex... The most wonderful spot where we made love was on the dunes of Cape Cod. But the wildest spot had to be at the beach in her hometown on Cape Ann, Mass. We walked up the beach around the rocks and proceeded to couple right in plain sight of a dozen lobster boats offshore. (Do lobstermen carry binoculars?) BTW, we also had sex at the foot of the lighthouse in Nantucket harbor. So, next time you see a calendar photo of that famous building, think of me...
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Height/weight proportional - yeah right
ddrewd replied to sc3way's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
A few things from my perspective: 1) I guess I had undersood "HWP" a little differently than many who've posted here. I didn't see "HWP" as very exclusionary. Certainly it excludes those who are obese, but I saw it as a catchall phrase that included those whose physiques weren't perfect but were 'in the ballpark.' As I used to tell my ex, all a woman needs is a waist. (Her weight fluctuated and she constantly agonized over it.) To me, that's proportion. Measurements don't mean much as long as you have a waist. 2) You can be "overweight" and have a sexually satisfying life. In fact, from the amateur videos I've seen, it seems that "overweight" gals seem to be more often multi-orgasmic than "normal" women. From those vids I made one very important observation: Every women in the throes of orgasm is beautiful.- 56 replies
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Just so no one thinks that I was cheesed by John's last post, I want to thank him for the great advice, especially his conclusion: "I would advise single guys to just be themselves and not try to impress or outdo anyone, especially the hubby of the couple they want to hook up with." Thanks again!