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S&E

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About S&E

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    Couple w/Bi Curious Female
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    Newtown, PA

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    BucksCoCouple
  1. Health Care Professionals and Cops, they are naturals together, how many cops and nurses are married. The numbers are staggering. How many cops and nurses have dates or date. Again alot. It is the next logical step with these professionals who see life from all sides, appreciate life and understand just how short it can be.
  2. Some thought on the topic, I think that you need to look at that phrase on a couple by couple/person by person bases. Some that post D/D free, are free of social diseases and illicit street drugs, but may use prescription drugs in lieu of other things. Illicit street drug, IV drugs, etc., are of unknown origin, have inherent risks, dependency, etc. and risk of disease. I know a few women that will take prescription drugs like Xanax, Kolonpin, and other anti anxiety meds which are legally prescribed to them. They use them as a chill pill in lieu of drinking alcoholic beverages. One equated it to me as comparable to a couple so glasses of wine with out a hang over in the morning. She also explained that she just doesn't like to drink alcoholic beverages and has no detectable side effects from her prescribed meds. Another explained it that if she doesn’t, if she comes hard early, she’s done, when she takes her prescription, for her it is like the female Viagra, it relaxes her just enough and lets her keep going all night long. Apparently doctors prescribe frequently. One was prescribed them for fear of flying, another for panic attacks and both found other hidden benefits. How many men are taking Viagra, whether they admit it or not. Where does that fit into the picture of "D/D Free." Neither of the aforementioned prescription meds is illegal when prescribed to the person. Marijuana is another thing. It is illegal by its own presence. The odor gets into everything. Its effects are similar in some ways to both alcohol and other prescription meds. We must not forget that alcohol is a drug too. I am neither endorsing it nor condoning it, but I understand it. We don't like spending time with drunks, but sometimes just one or two drinks, it just what everyone needs to relax and enjoy. Moderation is the key if any thing is used. I'll bet that up to 50% of the "D/D Free", are disease free and in their mind and or perspective are drug free but are actually not drug free. Some people are better 100% sober/straight, and some are better a little relaxed. Therefore, we evaluate each couple and person on an individual basis and make our decision to play from there. Personally, for us, we prefer a drink or two.
  3. Quick answer, NO. It is the total package that matters. The personality is what matters. Think about it, "Hot Body" & zero personality vs okay body and killer personality, who would be more fun to be with? Although, nipple sensitivity is a huge plus.
  4. We know a woman who we are friends with that isn't into any herbs, not a fan of alcohol beverages (gets sick, hung over, even after just 2 or 3 drinks ) but she takes a Xanax or similar preseciption med to relax and enjoy herself. (She actually has a prescription for it from her doctor) She explained it and associates it to having a couple drinks or a couple of glasses of wine, with out any ill effects, to help her relax and let her inner self out. Seeing her an hour after she takes it, there are no real obvious effects, at best she appears as if she had had just that, a glass or two of wine, prehaps a bit more esxpressive and maybe a little less inhibitied. So what ever works for her is okay with us, as she is a beautiful professional woman, who I guess wants to have a few drinks and relax on her weekend, but for what ever reason her body chemistry doesn't respond well to alcohol but she wants to have the benefit of the drink or two, relax and enjoy . Were not supportive of people who use drugs, or drink to excess, but in this circumstance, we understand her use of it.
  5. We have never done this, hired an escort, but we have often discussed this, just to by pass all of the aggrevation trying to find the ever elusive single bi female to join a married couple for pure unadulterated fun & pleasure. No drama , no games, no no- shows , no let down , just fun. We have talked about finding an up scale bi female escort to play with us one night. This is an interesting post and I am curious as to how many other couples have considered the same thing. Or for that matter, may have not considered it before, but may now talk about it or explore it further. S&E
  6. True Single Bi-Females are like an endangered species! They need to be protected and cared for to prevent the extinction of the species! The true SBiF’s are few in number and in great demand. It is like a lesson in business 101, the laws of Supply & Demand. They are out there; it takes time to find that right one that you may want to join you and your significant other for the most intimate of fun times. About 12+ years ago I knew a true SBiF by every sense of the definition. She was tall, blonde, great body, wild, and truly single, never married, enjoyed guys as much as women. And if she had a few drinks, there was no holding her back. We opted not to hook up with her. You are thinking why???? Sounds like the perfect SBiF! I knew her through work and sensed something about her that I could not put my finger on, but I went with my instinct. She was as psycho as she was hot. She was a home wrecker, marriage destroyer who would turn into a stalker from a horror movie. Over a ten year period through mutual friends, I heard the stories about her, some first hand from the couples involved with her and some second hand but very believable. My reason for this little story is just a heads up warning to those searching for the elusive SBiF. That was in the days before the internet. So proceed with caution with your search and trust your instincts. Our tip: The internet is helpful, but also think outside of the box when looking, you may find what you are looking for in places other than the internet, then proceed with caution and trust your instincts.
  7. Our beginnings, S (he) was the poster child for the more the merrier between age 16 and marriage at 25, we are talking in the 100's of different partners, not many one night stands, maybe 20 or so, most were repeat performances, getting together every couple weeks for recreational sex, these were the good years of casual sex before AIDS. While today it would be foolish and dangerous today, S had the luck of the gods and got thru those years without catching anything, the experience and diversity gained was immeasurable. S had a number of partners who were older than him, they were in the 30-45 age range, so at least 10 years older than S, who in retrospect benefited him more than he will ever know, as they trained him right how to treat a woman at a young age which has paid its pleasurable dividends over that past 20+ years. E (her) had no other partners other than S before marriage. After 20 years of great monogamous marriage and we now play & explore together allowing E to see what she missed during her younger years. S has shared his experiences with E and encouraged E to take her sexuality to the fullest and explore without limits.
  8. Again there are many great replies to your question, and most all have valid points. You should not feel looked down upon at all Enjoy, S & E
  9. I am 6'5" and E is 5'9", so I guess we are both on the taller side. E likes it so she can wear any size heels. Hey but when you we are laying down are we all about the same height S & E
  10. Don't worry about it Appearance is only skin deep, and there are those few very shallow individuals that only want to get together with "10's". The more time you spend on this site, the more topics, advice, threads & responses you read, the questions that are asked and the depth of the answers, the more you will realize the intelligence of the members of this community and this site specifically. Think back to your single days or even married & swinging :rollseyes Have you ever been with that perfect 10, that person that gives off all of the looks , sex appeal, someone you know that "has got to be incredible in bed" and been totally disappointed then the flip side, you meet up this the really nice person, appears conservative, average looks, the person you may not give a second look to in passing or in a crowd, the person you don't even think that you would share intimate moments with, the person's appeance is totally deceptive, then that person totally rocks your world when you are with them in the most intimate of ways . This lifestyle is just like the everything else, you will find some very shallow people, but I think the majority of the people that you will meet are great, the people that you want to be friends with share fun times with. We are not experts or 25 year veterans of the lifestyle, but so far this has proved to be accurate, this is an outstanding site, the more you read on here, the more you interact with others on here, the more your realize, that the majority of the others out here are very similar to you. I read more than I respond or posts messages, not that I don't want to, but usually the the intelligent membership of this site has already addressed the issue or question in much the same way that we would and I would be just adding a Dito , which sometimes I do, to further support the other respondents and back up there suggestion or comments. Don't worry you will find many new great friends, think about my comments and most of all enjoy yourself XOXOXOXO S & E Newtown, PA
  11. I agree that in this community that you as a couple, arriving together, looking to play with another couple, would be the hit of any get together You would most likely have a great time with a M/Bi-F swinging couple. Likewise the M/Bi-F would be in heaven too under most circumstances. Welcome & Enjoy S & E
  12. Age is only a number, we are 45 & 44, and are receptive to those in the 30-early 50's, plus or minus depending in the couple. As most respondants, it depends on the couple as individuals. Enjoy!
  13. I started shaving, triming & shaving, about 8 years ago and she loves it and has turned into an oral fiend . I love it too it feels great up against her. I figure if she goes and gets waxed for us and our friends, that is least I can do!
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