It's a little different being a single guy... Look on any liefstyle site and you will see the vast majority of ads are for "blah-blah-blah ISO couple or single female" (no single male included). When I was in highschool I had an amazing relationship with a beautiful and caring 30 something couple in Palm Beach. Mutually fullfilling for everyone on a physical and emotional level. Later I went away to college and saw them from time to time during the summer, holiday breaks, and whathaveyou. They wound up having a child and exited the swing scene altogether. It was a wonderful introduction and experience in general. It is also what I have found to be a complete anomaly. I have not experienced that same type of 3 way long-term love affair since. As far a strictly sex is concerned, it is much easier to find a single female. For some reason with couples, if the husband is not having sex with someone elses wife, he does not care for you having sex with his!