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Quin

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    Swinging, gardening, jetskiing, shopping, cooking.
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  1. Since this post was started, I've paid attentiona little more and have come to the conclusion that I adore being the seducer...it adds so much fun on my part! And as Jim says, I do it ssssooooooooooo good!!
  2. One rule that some couples have is no kissing. And that could extend to women when the female is bisexual, so that could be one reason. Perhaps kissing and caressing should each have their own *slot* but then you could end up with a poll that's 18 feet long in options. As for myself, I do it all or have done it all on the list and even have done an all women BD a few times. Like the one poster here (sorry, don't remember who), I seem to have a breast fetish and like my SO, adore them (and even my own ). I'm always, in some way, touching, sucking, kissing, playing with the other woman's (womens) breasts. Even when my face is buried between their thighs, at least one hand is playing with a breast, hers or mine and it sends me in orbit when someone's buried between my legs if they're talented enough to play with mine. Because of this *fetish*, a strap-on can be equally fun. Nothing like being in missionary and reaching up or leaning upwards to fondle or suck on a large swinging tit with a hard protruding nipple. For those that have never tried a strap on...technology has given us many absolutely wonderful strap ons that has both a clit stimulator for the user and the usee. While expensive (I paid over $100 for the last one I bought as it was double headed), it's well worth the investiment! Quin
  3. I don't think it was the sharing of an experience that bothered people, Seymore. People do that all the time, whether it be here or in the stories section (which may have been a more appropriate forum to get into the more personal side of it all). I think it was more a matter of the naming of names along with specific details, mostly the naming of names. Very few people enjoy name-droppers and I think that's how many people responded to this thread. Quin ()()
  4. I like it both ways. I belong to a circle of 40-50 couples (many of whom have been in just as long as I have 20+ years) and there are many friendships there. In fact, two of the couples are probably my closest friends on earth outside of my best friend. Anyhow, we all have sex....there's a function going on almost every weekend hosted by couples within the group. I also like going to an on-premise club, eventually having sex with some people I know and some I don't. I can't count how many times after sex I've asked, 'And your name is?' A friend within my *circle* owns a business and has a huge warehouse of which his business only occupies around 35% of. So one weekend he had a GloryHole Party (think that's what he called it, it's been a few years). His wife and him belong to several *circles* and invited people from all the circles. He had partitioned off 50% of the warehouse and built these rows of booths, 10 rows of 10 I believe it was...anyhow, it was fun going from booth to booth, not knowing who was in the booth on either side to you (you weren't allowed to look in the holes to see) and either giving blow jobs, getting eaten or having sex thru the holes. They did have it set up very nice and had a common area that was carpeted with couches, chairs...a few sex swings, pillows etc and many people were there having sex also. That couple has had many parties there and eventually just converted it to their 'lil warehouse of sin' and have regular parties there. I had to miss their last GloryaHole party. But I was sure I didn't miss their annual BDSM party last March. Quin ()()
  5. I'm not going to debate this at all, but only bring up that you make love with your spouse...that's totally different than sex. Making love involves emotions, it appeases the emotional side and while sating the sexual need, it's a bit deeper than sex. Sex is more animalisitic, it's raw and emotion-less. And the feeling that you come away with after sex, is not the same feeling that you get when you've made love.
  6. Sorry, Jesse, I haven't seen these other discussions so I really can't comment on them or compare them in regards to this thread. Quin ()()
  7. I have always wondered the same thing, Chicup. And to be truthful, I don't even think God is powerful enough to help you if you claim the other way around.
  8. While, apparently, it was agreed upon by all parties to bring it to the boards, I think it's tacky, juvenile and I felt as if I had been propelled back to high school and was listening to some 15 year old who got his weenie sucked for the first time. This is a public forum about swinging, it's not someone's personal avenue to stroke their ego or stroke another's ego and that's basically all this was. What those involved don't realize is they may have cut their own throat. Would I have met any of them prior to this, probably not, but the option would always be there to meet if I/they ever wanted. Would I meet any of them after reading this, no way in hell. And I don't think I'm alone in that, so they just cut their potential playing field down immensely. Quin ()()
  9. Don't know of many swinging couples who would still be interested, even with a note from home. Having been in the swinging life for 20+ years, I don't have enough fingers and toes to count the married men I've seen attempt to enter without their wifes. And still not enough fingers and toes to count those that have claimed their spouse either didn't care or said they could. It's a common lie that these men think people are stupid enough to buy into. Regardless of whether his wife gives him her blessing or not, I don't know of too many couples that will open that can of worms. And it is a HUGE can of worms full of ugly creepy crawlin worms of all kinds. He doesn't even know why his wife is no longer interested in swinging or in sex???? Doesn't that send up some fireworks for ya??? Serious communication problems. He obviously doesn't care what's going on with his wife or else he would know why. If he's not asked her why, I doubt he's asked for her permission to continue. His whole post reeks of communication problems within his marriage...and I bet there are some even deeper problems there. What swinging couple in their right mind would want to get involved with that? Just like I said in my other post, he needs to get affairs in order within his own marriage before he goes messin in other's marriages. Quin ()()
  10. I gotta go with the others on "Why NOT?" I simply have no desire to become monogamous with one person. Variety is the spice of life and I want as many and much spices as I can possibly get in my lifetime. Swinging is definitely not something new or something that's happened just within the last century. All through history there is evidence and records of wife swapping, group sex, orgies, etc. In the very earliest of tribes the women weren't inclusive only to their *mate*. They were shared within the tribe (and sometimes with other tribes as an offering of goodwill). And this doesn't include just heterosexual sex, in many primitive societies, sex between two men was not frown upon and may have been indulged in just as much as hetero sex. Although there are differing opinions on when this exactly happened, the idea of monogamy came along much later in history swinging (excuse the pun) the pendulum from sexual freedom (for lack of a better word right now) to the theory of being with only one person in a monogamous relationship. IMHO, as human beings became more evolved, more intelligent and began incorporating whatever religion (religion, not spirituality) within their lives the more monogamous human beings became.
  11. I would think that with Viagra now being almost readily available to any man who wants it and this new drug I read something about a few weeks ago, that those methods would possibly be coming obsolete, if not obsolete already. You don't have to tell me about pin cushions....I had about a 40 year spell where I was receiving two insulin shots a day and that's not even mentioning the lancing of myself for a 3 times a day blood sugar test. Quin ()()
  12. Had to laugh when I read this thread...not because of the health problems that men have that may affect their ability to get hard...but because it brought back memories of sitting in the student union in college watching Phil Donahue (this would have been 1978 or 1979) and his topic was males who couldn't get aroused. They had a urologist on who went into a very detailed description along with visual aids to show you exactly where they stuck the needle, etc. They even had a procedure by which they went in and inserted this inflatable thingie in a man's cock and they would put a little bulb like thingie in the male's scrotum and when the man wanted his cock hard, he reached down and pumped that little bulb thingie in his balls and pumped his cock up to his normal hard size. Needless to say, all of us sitting around watching were in hysterics and a few of the guys were sitting around scrunched up protecting their personal area with the most horrible looks on their faces, which just had us girls howling even louder! Quin ()()
  13. The more the merrier, IMHO. I do tend to think of 8 people or less more of a small gathering/get together...and they have their purpose and are nice on occasion. BTW, Brit, I think your sources need to update their definitions. While *in the olden days* alcohol/drugs may have played a large part in orgies, I don't think that's necessarily the case in today's age. Not that I haven't ever been to an orgy that is alcohol free (heck in college all our orgies were as much about the booze as it was about the sex)...most of them do have alcohol but people are over indulging in the sex, not the booze. Their definition leads one to believe that you can't involve in fantastic group sex without the aid of alcohol or that it's a requirement (well the first two definitions did).
  14. Yeah, it is your business if he's married and he's wanting to cheat on his wife with you. Chances are, his wife is fine, in great health and unaware of her husband's cheating ways. Put yourself in her place...would you want to find your spouse cheating on you? And further yet, as a woman...can you honestly be party to something that might possibly (and probably would as all cheaters are eventually found out) cause a lot of pain and hurt to a woman who is the innocent in this cheating situation? Would you wish that kind of pain on your best friend? On yourself? On your sister/daughter/mother? No...so why then would you want to risk putting another woman in pain by playing with her cheating husband? Not to even mention the pain that his children (if there are children) would go thru just because their mother is in pain and hurting. There are far too many single guys out there, ready willing and able, for a threesome if that's what you want. And if he's putting pressure on you, regardless of when you feel this pressure, you need to leave him alone and walk away. Just my 4 cents (inflation, ya know). Quin ()()
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