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  1. maybe I gave mixed signals to fuck....but I NEVER gave the go ahead for them to make love.....there is a huge difference im hurt and sick of always feeling like the asshole.....not this time
  2. I cant make love to him right now...I can't be intimate with him at all. All I can think about is how he had sex with her in our bed...how the act was so close to how we make love..and how he did it on our bed while I slept. I did give mixed signals......and im paying dearly. Although..some things should be common sence..but not for all obviously and I pay for that too ....i give
  3. thank you both so much...my feelings have been validated. I have had the heart to hear with my husband over that past few days and he has swore his love for me. He swears he loves me more than anything.... ....but even tho we have one of the strongest marriages I have ever seen...this has seriously made me question..I have never felt so insecure in my entire life I totally agree that we will NEVER see that couple again and I doubt we will swing anywhere in the near future. Shit...we haven't even spoken much since the "episode" except fighting ..and he would prefer to spend the night at work tonight. I havent' been sleeping and sleeping in our bed just makes me sick ...this one episode is ruining my life. I feel like no matter how much I tell him how terribly im hurting because of this..im the one thats the asshole for giving mixed signals. I dont' know...after 8 years of marriage and 5 years of swinging I thought we had all our "ducks in a row".....and thats not the case our marriage is suffering..our communication is suffering...I feel dead inside thank you all for the feedback
  4. Not sure how to start this post as I have so many things going thru my mind, so I'll try to keep this as simple as possible... I'll start by saying that a few months ago we met another couple and have gotten together a few times over the past few months...sometimes to play and sometimes just to hang out. "She" is very chatty on the phone and I'am not! My hubby has never been much of a phone person..until "her". I've mentioned to him a few times over the past few months that I find it strange he can sit and talk with her on the phone for so long....(we are talking upto 4 hours at a time) Some "red flags" have been going up..but he's assured me that she's just so chatty he cant get off the phone. Anyway...her hubby was away last weekend on a camping trip (which he does quite often) so the previous weekend it was brought up between the four of us if she could play without her hubby. Her hubby had no problem whatsoever with this. So, this past saturday night, she came over. The evening went extremely well..the three of us had a blast! Until....here it is..4:30 in the morning..we are all beat (so I think) and we are all three laying in the bed (her in the middle) she was tickling my back with her finger nails and my husband is softly caressing her back, side and ass! I made a comment about the fact that he was stroking her....well it went un-noticed! I was overly tired as I had been sick with the flu the week prior and was still recovering and exausted. I made a comment that the two "horn dogs" would probably fuck after I fell asleep..there was no mention that we werent infact going to sleep. I was kidding....and I passed out. Seriously..it was 4:30 int the morning and we were all being silly....I never dreamed... Well, when I awoke the following morning.....I find out that the rubbing/caressing he was doing to "her" led to other things. They were spooning as we typically do and caressing her as he normally does me. They had sex in the bed next to me as I slept! I asked him how this happened and he pretty much recited a reinactment of our typical Love making session...start to finish. I was kidding for cryin out loud...it was 4:30 in the morning!!!! He swears he has no feelings for her...and im just sick to my stomach. The argument is that my flirty remarks gave them the go-ahead. Im sorry...why was he caressing/snuggling her...talking to her on the phone for so many hours...and reinacting a love making session...is there no intimacy that is sacred for just me??? I know your all going to say that Im not cut out for this and that we are lacking communication....Im not looking for that from you..I just want your take on the situation..thank you be easy on me please
  5. omg LOL...just took the test again as we had quite an interesting night last night and this time I got a whopping 635.....YEEEE HAA!!!
  6. Degrading ????? dont understand what is degrading about it. My wife loves it. It is a part of the proccess and It is a complete waiste to blow it in the sheets. My wife has extremly wet orgasms (squirt) and I love it all over me is that degrading? The visual effect of Knowing you brought your partner to orgasm is in no way degrading
  7. I am married straight male and do not mind shareing my wife with another man. In fact I find it very exciteing. But Men willing to screw your wife are a dime a dozen. Dont take this personal But any one of my guy friends would come home with me and screw the wife. How ever it is much harder to finds couples or females to play with. You join the clubs to find somene that you cant meet elsewhere. I am not bothered by single men at the clubs just not interested.
  8. Hey everyone..we are new here and thought we'd just jump right in. I scored 565..soooo pretty anxious to see what hubby scores *g*. I'll post in the intro folder but this seemed like fun! thanks
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