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  1. Yes, I can also have an orgasm with just vaginal stimulation as well...(oh that sounds sooo medical term-ish) LOL but seriously, I actually prefer that to having my clit over stimulated and rubbed too much as it can be painful for me. My guess is that he just hits in the G spot and away I go to happy land?!! facelick
  2. I would think it would be a very uncomfortable situation if a playmate went at it with me for an hour...especially in front of my hubby. We tend to play for a while, oral or touching, foreplay of all kinds, and then when we can't stand it is when we break out the condoms and go. But, it would make my hubby very uncomfy to watch my friend go at it with me for an hour, not to mention that I would be getting sore.....that's just a little too much for me!
  3. When I refer to myself to others who have not met me, I always say I have a Marilyn Monroe body. Anyone who knows Marilyn Monroe, is NEVER disappointed when I state this about myself. I have yet to meet a man who does not find my soft but trim curves appealing....but I also find that my personality is what attracts people the most. I also enjoy a great personality, you have to be able to have a conversation with the both of us, be genuine in your actions, and having a nice body is a biiiiiiigggg plus for me!
  4. I have also noticed that people on SLS are changing their profiles, taking off pics and changing the wording a little. Well I am a free member (please don't block us) but I haven't changed anything...I guess maybe I just didn't put alot of info in my ad that might help anyone to identify us? Man, I am glad I am not a part of the group that hangs out at the coffee machine at work anymore....I would hate to hear anyone say we were "gross" for being swingers. HMmmmmm yeah....a lil kinky, but not gross or dirty in anyway!
  5. I think 7.5 inches or better is well hung...but I don't go out searching for larger sized cocks or anything. I guess a big one would be icing on the cake for me? Now I have seen some that make me wonder if I am gonna have an enjoyable time, and well...it always comes back to, it's how they use it that matters for me, and not necessarily the size.
  6. And this is the reason why I love this board sooo much. If you look around you see such diversity in the posts here, it is amazing. But that is what I love about being in this lifestyle.....some people are only for couples, others single males, and some single females. My hubby and I started out just adding a single male friend to the mix, and we still do to this day. We love that arrangement, it works best for us, and I have not pressured him to decide to be with another woman. Because for him, I am also his "dream girl" and in the end he gets to be with me, and that is all he really wants. My suggestion is to talk and talk to your SO and decide what is best for you....I see nothing wrong with taking things slowly...maybe even taking one baby step at a time so you can get used to the idea of him being with another woman. It might help you if this other woman is a friend or a swinger "girlfriend" for you....it may eliminate some of the fear that she would take him away from you. (IF that is an issue at all). Best of luck to you and keep talking, this IS the key to your success!
  7. Oh that is totally awesome! "Any help for a want-to-be squirter"! You know, this may not work for you...but I discovered that I can become very wet and "squirt" LMAO...by playing with toys. I kept experimenting and varying my rhythim and then one day (oh glorious day) it happened. I also find that if I am having intercourse standing up....that makes me get wet enough for goggles! Best of luck and have fun!
  8. It really all depends on what the situation is for me and my hubby/friend in order for me to have one orgasm after another. Also depends on how well rested I am too...if I am sleepy and try to have intercourse, then forget it.....nothing is happening!
  9. I swallow on occasion.....I personally like to watch a man cum as well, and I prefer it to be on other areas of my body. I find that to be a real turn on....but just NEVER on my face!!
  10. Well I tend to like them natural....over done boobs just do not turn me on, or my husband for that matter. But since I have naturally large breasts....my dream would be to have them made a little smaller once I am finished having children. My hubby loves them though..so we might have to fight about that, but hey, I don't want them hanging to my knees when I get older! LOL
  11. Quote from US2maybe Of course we are all entitled to our own opinions, however, if I had that much of a fear about whether any violence would happen to my child while a friend was over, then I would NOT be swinging with that friend just for my own safety's sake.....
  12. I actually love tight boxers on a guy...mmmmm yummy! Something about that is very delicious I guess...
  13. NOW this is what I call, grounds to dump the single guy!! I am very open with our single guy friends, I have always told them that our friendship is based on respect and more. This person is not respecting you at all if his mentality is to come and go and do as he wishes. If you like this person, you had better nip this in the bud right now! Set up bounderies, say that you don't want to be bugged with phone calls and emails and asked to meet all the time. Maybe you and the spouse should also set up rules, like how many times to meet this person, etc etc. Otherwise I would say, let them go on their way and fast before it messes up your relationship with your spouse!!!
  14. I really do feel that my hubby and I are on the same page...with swinging and our general lives together. We built our relationship on being open and honest and being on the same page on pretty much everything. So for some it is hard to believe that there are couples out there that do not fight....and we really don't. I guess we like to say that we are two peas in a pod...as cheesy as that sounds! Also, we have not had any serious issues together in regards to swinging. To us swinging would not be a cause for us to break up, because wayyyyy before that happens, we would quit swinging and get professional help or whatever is needed to get us back on track with one another.
  15. I feel very blessed, my husband is rather large, and the first time I saw it, I felt a little worried to say the least! The only times that I feel that it's painful is if we have been going at it for a while, or when he accidently hits my cervix..but otherwise I enjoy it immensly! None of my friends are even close to his size so I really have nothing to worry about in regards to overly large playmates....
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