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  1. Galanga - I only indulged in the person comments as you seemed to in your first response. As others noted, I didn't need a speech from an old vet swinger. Again, I respect your limits/rules, now respect mine without the speech.
  2. Thanks for your replies. Galanga - I don't feel the need to justify our pace, level of play, or lifestyle to anyone, your comments amaze me. Since you indulged, I will do the same. We did read your post a while back about your lifestyle and the numerous bareback adult book stores adventures. I wish you the best in your choices, but your behavior, to us, is crazy. This was a real question, we were just interested in the issue.
  3. We are a new couple to this stuff, while we are not full swap our even soft swap we do enjoy each other and like being watched/watching type deal. It is a fun environment to enjoy. No, we aren't the typical lurkers at clubs who only watch, but we are typically the first playing and being watched by many. That's kind of the charge for us. So, we are at a resort/club this weekend. The crowd was mixed with what seemed to be other folks like us, and then full swingers. All get along and no stress. We were kind of amazed at the, I guess for lack of better term, caring about STD's. Seems there were three couples that started playing, they swapped oral and then bareback sex. It appeared that they didn't know each other, or just met that night. The wife overheard the guy asking one of the women if she would like oral, she agreed and they went at it. There were several situations like I mentioned going on. Now, to us this seems pretty risky. I mean who knows what the other couples may have, had, or carry and to just dive right in kind of amazed us. Are we just wound too tight with this STD/Herpes thing, or are most swingers just fine with getting HPV/Herpes or other STD's and assume it is just part of the game? The risk of this is what keeps us at our level of play, and from trying more. Simply trying to better understand this, not trying to scold or anything. Thanks
  4. Check out Sea mountain inn in Palm Springs area, close to you and it would be right up your alley. We are a lot like you guys and have a great time there.
  5. 2inVT, my apologies, I didn't mean you personally. Just in general.
  6. I think we need to remember the thread topic here. prior to the flame wars, the question was "is there a place for a BBW in swinging". There sure is someone for everyone in life. It's gets rather personal when insults are made to the uninterested side. That's what hurts. Chicup - You can't offer the idea of getting into shape to anyone in this day and age of "no personal responsibility". Its never ones fault for anything anymore. 2invt - You mention that you don't care either way if your up or down 5lbs, that's great for you. But I know many, many folks who have lost 10lbs and gained ten fold the confidence, and that confidence was the fuel to help them lose more weight. What ever works for you though, just don't insult me if I'm looking for something else. Shelly - Not all barbies are held captive by guys or treated poorly. My wife is also very fit, model fitness wear and competes in figure comps. She is a very strong person, who has accomplished more than many and has a very successful career. You can only be controlled if you let it. Your comments generalized fit women and insult them.
  7. Holy crap this thread took off! Here's my politically correct message: We all like what we like, just because someone does like you, it doesn't give you the right to throw insults. A few not so politically correct messages: As I noted earlier, we are a very fit couple. I'm just over 6' and almost 280lbs, with a 34" waist. Basically a very musuclar, veiny, lean build. I know that the majority of the average population thinks I'm a circus side show. I can't walk into a room, bar, meeting with out at least one comment being said to me. I simply don't care, I'm me, my wife thinks I'm hot. I don't bash those that think I'm disgustingly to muscular. In essence, I understand the snickering behind your back and sometimes hurtful comments. But don't let those folks turn thier negativity onto you. Society as a whole has a major weight epidemic. Especially in the US, were no one seems to be responisble for thier own actions. Having worked with many folks (as a hobby, not career) in changing thier bodies, I really believe that most of obesity issues are self inflicted, and not a "gland, or medical condition". It is really a choice for many, and society says it's OK. Its very disturbing as I know that by simply losing 5 pounds it make some one who has little self esteem, turn into a much more positive person. Anyway my rant is over, I hope that everyone reading this post does come out of here with a more compassionate view of the "other side" Fitcouple, OUT...
  8. SuandBud, great post and also our thoughts too!. I always get a kick out of how open mined and nonshallow swingers pronounce themselves to be, then you hear the ken and Barbie trashing. Quite hypocritical. We like what we like, period. We are a very fit couple, and like others who are into fitness/bodybuilding too! That doesn't mean that we don't like all folks or are mean or hurtfull to others who don't fit our idea of what is attractive. I know that my body type isn't attractive to many, and a more toned than a muscular body is thier liking, but who cares. Nothing worse than a overweight person claiming to be so open minded, and a good person on the inside, and then Ken/barbie bashing comes out of thier mouths. It really makes one look pretty unattractive.
  9. Well I'm sure I'll need my flame retardant suit for this one, but here it goes. While we haven't seen your picture, or heard your stats its pretty safe to say they there is always a interested couple for anyone. I'm sure that there are many folks who would be interested in you. We are both very into working out (her fitness/bikini modeling, and him bodybuilding). We seem to like the same thing in others, its just our choice. The most important factor for us is personal respect. By that I mean do you do the best to present yourself in the best light (grooming, dieting, working out?) A good attitude and self respect go along way with us. It's a big turn off to deal with issues when someone is overly self conscious about their bodies. We have found many folks to be attractive to us mentally, just because of the simply having great self confidence and doing the best with what they have. The other side is someone who parks the butt in front of the TV eating chips and then complains about about all the fit people. Its amazing seeing the increase in someones self esteem just by simply losing 5 pounds. Now's here's were the suit is needed. I always get a kick out of how everyone assumes that in shape/attractive couples are all fake and have the personalities of a wet blanket. I guess it's along the same lines as thinking all overweight people are lazy and unclean. It just seems pretty hypocritical way of thinking, especially for a group of people that are supposed to be very open minded. Moral of the story: there's someone for everyone, and there will always be someone who isn't interested in you. BTW, I used to be the fat kid in highschool so I've walked in both sets of shoes.
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