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bugaboos

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About bugaboos

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  • Birthday 07/13/1976

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  • Relationship Status
    Married Female
  • Location
    CA
  • Occupation
    Stay At Home Mom
  1. Hubby has expressed some interest in breaking out the camera(s). I guess it remains to be seen for us. We have one couple that is very into it, I think it's me that holds them back, I'm a bit camera shy lol
  2. I have an IUD, hubby has had a vascetomy and we use condoms.
  3. I guess Variety is our answer... making a few long lasting friends would be great, too..but we move frequently and it's easy to lose touch sometimes.
  4. Hubby is V-safe and I am fitted with an IUD. I believe the 10 year type has no hormones and my be safe for smokers.. but don't quote me on that! We also use condoms. Our families are aware of hubby's choice and it would be hard for us to explain it away, were it to happen. I'm not sure what we'd do. Keep it, for certain, but in regards to everything else involved in such a situation...I just don't know, I guess we'd take baby steps and try to figure it all out together.
  5. I scored a 558.. thats a bit kinkier than I expected...
  6. I'm a non smoker, hubby is a smoker. We both drink socially. We have no problems with smokers or drinkers, but wouldn't want to swing with people who were drunk. If the couple we're with doesn't smoke, hubby excuses himself to have a cigarette.
  7. I'm going to take a stab at this and guess that the "posers" in question were at an on premis club and never play at the club...not people who are discreet about their play partners. That's just a big ole guess though!
  8. Personally, I agree with Mr. Naughty.. and for those same reasons. Just the what if...things don't turn out the way you'd hope. These are relationships that have years of history..why chance destroying it...but that's just me.
  9. I have to admit... hubby and I are intimidated by the "beautiful people". We're average...and even though we are trying to shed those extra pounds, we're happy to be with other wonderful average people.... Okay, truth be told, I'm sure hubby would love to spend some time with an amazingly beautiful woman, but I'd be terrified to shed my clothes in front of either a stunning woman or man... lol.. *shakes head in shame*. That's just me though!
  10. We can talk about anything!!! I never felt as though we had limits before, but now everything is free game, and there are rarely hurt feelings. We get to do things we had at one time considered to be little more than bedroom talk. We get experience..and bring that back to each other--how can that be bad?? And for me, since I don't go to work everyday and we're living in a new place.. it's a good social interaction for me. One that I would not have otherwise. What a fun question!
  11. Yawanna, Thanks for your frank reply. I don't get any feeling that this couple has any bad intentions, they did mention they weren't interested in exploiting our newness.. lol. We've had a few experiences and the opportunity to form a few opinions of our own, which is fortunate. I've been taking advantage of this board and reading older posts as I have the opportunity and it's great to see everyone's ideas and thoughts, so i'll definitly use this as my point of reference. Again, thanks so much!
  12. Thanks, both, for your replies! Truth be told, I'm pretty sure this couple doesn't want to play with us, as much as guide us. I don't have any trouble with it, I just wondered if anyone else had encountered it. I look forward to the opportunity to have people to discuss this stuff with. Thanks again!
  13. Hi everyone, thanks for the warm welcome yesterday. I have a question. We've posted ads in several places and had a few experiences. We're still sort of scratching our heads about protocol and etiquette. The other day we received an email for a nice couple, a bit older than us, who seem to want to take us under their wing, so to speak. Almost like they'd like to be mentors to us. Has anyone else run into such a thing? What are your thoughts? I'm grateful to some extent, as it would be nice to have someone to bounce things off of in a non judgemental sort of way. I'm just wondering what others had experienced when they started swinging and what they thought of this. Thanks in advance!
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