That very well could be, but it seems that usually its the women that think that. All of the women I have tried to swing with aren't interested because of the "sacredness of marriage belief." But put in the situation that the male is a good friend, you are probably right. I don't want to seem too steriotypical; though most men in my area will do anything they can for the pootang
Dito
I feel you man.
Monolith