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  1. Oh my have I missed alot while my computer was ill!!! I do have to say though, that I happen to think that the above is terrible advice. Marriage is a forever bond. You know, "till death due us part, for better for worse......" Obviously, this is the worse. So, what to do. 1. I agree, get family counsiling! This is a must. 2. FOR HEAVENS SAKE, TELL HIM HIS DAD KNOWS!!!! other wise he will believe this is some big secret binding the two of you together which will make him want you more. 3. stay away from him the best that you can and DO NOT tell him you could or may or suspect a pregnacy. Deal with that issue when or if it is an issue, and should it become one, I would highly reccomend hubby and you raising it as you would if it had happened during any other swinging situation, as your own baby. He is obviously not mature enough or ready to be a Daddy, or he wouldn't be living with his Daddy till he goes off to boot camp. But, again, cross that bridge when or if you go to it.
  2. I like the eating of the banana idea. That gets my hubby every time!!
  3. EXCELLENT ADVICE!!!!! I hope others who have asked about going solo read your tale and learn from it. The best lessons learned are the ones you can share.
  4. I am really, deeply sorry. I can not imagine how difficult that must be. At the 11th hour of filing this petition she said it would be over with him. No contact. I don't believe it. Time will tell. Too little, too late. I said I would try for reconciliation over the 90 cooling off period, before the dissolution is final, but that I wasn't pulling the paperwork this time. For whatever it's worth, I do agree with you in Not pulling the paperwork, however, please do take this time and see if she is serious about getting back together. See a councilor. If she goes, that's the first step. Also, like you said "no swinging" right now. It would probably be good to also abstain from sexual contact with each other as well. Right now you need to concintrate on the realationship aspect of the marriage. If it's even possible to do that. Again, I am very, very sorry.
  5. I have noticed that mr. two loves is online from time to time. It would be great if he would update us. You do not have to be real specific as you had mentioned that your wife was not overjoyed with you posting and all, but it would be nice if you would let us know if you are still together and if you have gone solo swinging or combo swinging, or did you quit that all together. Thanks.
  6. Well it's been a couple of weeks now since this started, soooooooo what's the update???? Any news??
  7. Wow I didn't think there would be so many questions. Since I said partners, it would be what Julie said over a course of a life time I guess.
  8. I thought this would be an interesting poll. I didn't see where it was asked before and I was just curious. So, the question is, how many different couples/singles have you had sex with?
  9. I would love to see a poll (thought there may already be one out there so if so, sorry) anyway- The same poll, but with f/f activity. I think we would find that f/f is far more socially acceptable. Just my 2 cents
  10. No matter how many times you clarify the story, the advice doesn't change. He broke the rules. It's over. End of story.
  11. Of course it does say A man not my man. hmmmmmmm Anyway- the betrayal seems VERY serious exspecially if done deliberately. I would be seriously concerned about STD's. I would also be direct with him and ask why
  12. I think the priority is that you are certain that who you swing with is of a legal age before you swing with them. The problem with some of the younger generations is that short of asking for ID, it's really hard to tell how old they actually are. I met a 14 year old today who looked every bit of 20 clear down to her huge tights, (far bigger than mine with a perfect bod to boot) tonge ring and belly button rings. (yep that's plural) Who would of thought at her age you would be so equipped. Scary isn't it?
  13. head bang O.k. I'm going bonkers here. I just had my cycle when my parents came to visit for two weeks!!! Though it was a nice visit, hubby and I did not have sex. I can't explain why, it just seemed creepy. Anyhow- they leave, I'm all reaved up and boom.... Here it is again EARLY!!!! Very early Anyhow it is really, really light and I really want well, I want to be munched dammitt!!!!! Anyhow- I read all the posts and I am nervous about the taste ect..... I am a full 7 dayer so I could have a wait, if I wait. I don't think the mess will be a issue since I'm light. I'm creeped out by him eating blood, but I am jonsing!! Any thought on taste issues????????? Surrender
  14. I mean when you have sex it can cause contractions ect.
  15. It does cause contractions which could lead to pre-mature labor.
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