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IndyGirl2004

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    couple; female (bicurious), male (straight)
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    Indianapolis
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    biking, walking, reading, movies, music and dancing
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    HR and sales
  1. Okay, so someone said that those of us who place the tp on the roll so that we have to pull it from under are crazy. Well, just thought of something...maybe we just have a bit more finger dexterity. Could be a very good thing in certain situations, eh? Just a thought
  2. I totally agree with the last two posts. The lesbian is not respecting you and/or your feelings (assuming she knows how you feel), and neither is your wife if she continues with this knowing how you feel about it all. I suppose it's easy to get carried away, especially if she's liking the bi-play, but she needs to fully hear and understand where you're coming from. Sounds like bad news to me, too. Best of luck to you as you work through this one.
  3. It's either way for us, but with pets in the house, under seems to work out better. I agree with those who are just pleased to have tp in the bathroom when needed. We've no children, but one of my friends has three boys. Her boys have many friends who are always around. My friend learned her lesson and embroidered a lovely little sign to put in the family room bathroom that reads "My aim is to have a clean bathroom. Your aim is greatly appreciated."
  4. I enjoyed the dishwasher thing, too! All the toys and the comments about cleanliness being next to Godliness. The descriptions by the couple of their party...it was a mixer...they were a very friendly group. lol I enjoyed that. The condom thing was a bit gross though. Unfortunately, they did resort to the Barbie and Ken thing as well as the darker side of sex and swinging.
  5. Considering the fact that sexual preference is much more openly talked about now, and considering that many parents from previous generations would probably still prefer that their children be straight, I can only imagine that your mother is happy that she caught you knee deep in the girly mags. By the way, "knee deep" was not my first choice there As far as I'm concerned, it takes all kinds and it certainly makes life more interesting. Now, if we could only learn to play nice more often. Hugs to you all.
  6. We have family members who are gay and they feel that some gays are born that way and others are "converts" *S*. We haven't discussed the "you must have gay in you somewhere" comments, but I'm going to see what their opinions are about that. The family members I'm speaking of have been married to those of the opposite sex and have had children, and enjoyed fairly good marriages for a time. In my experience with famiy and friends, there's a lot of baggage around being gay. No one person is exactly like another, nor should she be. Some people might be gay because of problems with the other sex, but the people I know who are gay are so because it's their natural inclination. Maybe, they got off track due to what society and family expected, but they feel they are where they "belong" now. A thought struck me as I read Mr. Spoo's comment about his friend, the one who said he might not be realizing his full sexuality unless he explored the possibility that he might be gay. Is it at all possible that the other person is trying to rationalize his own gayness. Is it possible he doesn't feel truly accepted by those who aren't gay unless those people admit that they might be a scosh (love that word) gay, too? Weird thought, huh? May be silly thought, but it just popped into my head. I don't think anyone should try to push another to "be" anything. Each to her own or his own as long as no one is getting hurt. As Forrest Gump said "that's all I have to say about that" By the way, you guys are pretty funny and it's always interesting to hear what others have to say. Hugs!
  7. Doggy style is definitely our favorite, but whatever we do, I want clitoral stimulation. It's all good!
  8. Haven't seen much M/M interaction with the exception of movies, but it really turns me on. My hubby is straight, but he doesn't have a problem with M/M sex as long as it doesn't involve him. It's interesting to me that so many men and women are into F/F sex or FMF sex, but not as many who are into the M/M or MFM thing where the men interact. Not a criticism, just my observation. Oh well, YES to the M/M thing.
  9. First time, sixteen, but not consentual. First "real" time, ninteen and with hubby. Still with him twenty-three years later and he's wonderful.
  10. As someone who was a bedwetter until about the age of eleven or twelve, I think I can easily say that I've had enough pee on me to last the remainder of my lifetime thank you very much. *S*
  11. In my previous post here I mentioned that maybe it was time to try this again. Well, we did it again and it was great. We took our time and just made sure that we were both very aroused and well lubed I can't tell you how nice it was. We wondered why we waited so long to try it again. I don't wish to do this everytime because I'm "walkin' funny" for a bit. Bottomline (yes, I had to do it eventhough it's a cheap shot!), it's just one more spice in the cabinet!
  12. Eyes and personality are what draw me to someone. Sure, it's helpful if I find the person attractive, but someone who is considered to be conventionally attractive can just look at you and/or open his or her mouth and can become a toad in my eyes. Nothing against toads, but I don't find them attractive and I certainly wouldn't want to have sex with one - unless I knew he was going turn into Antonio Banderas or Halle Berry
  13. It's been awhile since we've actually had anal sex, but ( ) we have used a nice vibrator there, while he's been inside me vaginally. With those two places taken care of, and with a nice vibrator on the clit, what else can a girl assssssssssssssssk for? Well, now that you are all mentioning it, maybe the real thing should be discussed again
  14. Girlie Z, I can totally understand how uncomfortable you must have felt on the spur of the moment situation. We haven't gone to a club yet, or done anything, but you can be sure that we're talking about things. Summer's coming and I bet we visit a club sometime over the next few months. If either of us feel as if we are uncomfortable, at any point, we will stop the process. Then, if we want to try it again later, we will. Of course, one or the other of us might be disappointed, but what's more important is that we will be in the situation together.............afterall that's what it's about, right? It's not just about one person's wishes, but both and I agree with those who encourage you to take your time to decide when, and if, the time is right for you. The fact that your husband is so wonderful about things is great! There's no reason to push anyone into any of this. If you are interested and comfortable enough to move forward, fine. If not, then that's fine, too. A person who would push another into something that he or she is not ready for is very selfish at that moment. Obviously, you can see by most of the responses you got here, most people are not like that. Fear is there for a reason. Yes, some fear is irrational and sometimes it is good to go against one's instincts and move forward, when the situation is important enough to warrant it. I doubt seriously that your situation was and the fact that your husband was encouraging to you afterward proves it. Good luck to you in whatever decision(s) you make. It sounds like you and your husband have a very good relationship and know what to do to keep it that way whether you move forward in the lifestyle or not. Hugs to you both:kissface:
  15. All of your points were very well taken and I agreed with them. Sorry if I didn't come off that way:) Yes, opting to have several sexual partners is more risky and so I think more thought and care should be taken when getting ready to invite someone to have sex. Having read many threads about the experiences of others, it seems that there are many people who do take this extra step, but by the same token there are many who don't. If and when we do decide to swap with others, I will be among you who do try to be more safe.
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