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Drknow

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About Drknow

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday April 8

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Louisiana
  • Interests
    fishing, boating, golf
  • Occupation
    medical
  • Swinging Experience
    investigating
  1. Don't see many single females on here but I find the sight very informative. How about you?

  2. thanks for the Birthday greeting

  3. Thanks for the Happy birthday greeting, I just got it. Hope you are doing well.

  4. Have a happy Birthday and a very happy Easter

  5. thanks for the birthday greeting, hope to meet one day

  6. Happy Birthday!

  7. I think Julie hit the nail on the head there, but out of curiosity, what ever happened here? Did she play or not?
  8. Interesting thread. I must state from the start that we are not swingers, but I have for years envied them. I also have to state that most women I think do feel like Dave's wife, they cannot dissociate sex and love and that it is easier for men in general to do so. Though I agree with just about everything that has been stated here, it is a giant step to bridge from seeing sex as purely an expression of love to viewing it as one would a game of mixed doubles. I think this is one reason I envie you guys, because this is a step I don't think my wife is capable of making. If more women were able to, I think we sure would have a lot more swingers out there.
  9. Perhaps they should try the open marriage course. It seems like they are on a path of destruction any way and probably would do less damage to another couple. If they don't have a change of heart I think they are doomed. Especially the way they jumped on you for giving them sound and concerned advice. Hope I am wrong, hang in there and don't be discouraged.
  10. I hope I didn't seem too harsh with my comments about alcohol, I didn't mean them as judgemental. One thing I appreciate about this site is the lack of moralizing over sex. My concern was simply that I felt that you were seeing all the negative in the light of whether this lifestlye was for you rather than what really caused the experience to be so negative. Everything spelled disaster from being intoxicated rather than disaster about swinging. Hope you don't give up on it.
  11. I am not knowledgeable in the lifestyle as many of you are, but I can say one thing. Driving drunk is a terrible idea, someone can die, and having your first swing experience while being that drunk is almost as bad. This experience tells me you two must have a good marriage to come out of it the way you have, but how can you assess your ability to swing when you were under the influence that heavily. I would say you shouldn't totally abandon the idea, just use a limited alcohol rule before you ever consider a little extracurriculal activity again.
  12. I think they have gone extinct. No post in quite a long time. I wornder what happened to them
  13. You have a very interesting problem that I would like to comment on from the perspective of another non swinger. I am one who has always been fascinated by swinging have have read and participated in a few threads for some time. I am a bit envious of you swingers as I have always fantsized of getting involved myself, but have to say that if my wife came to me and said what yours has said I would have the following reactions. First, I too would be a bit jealous as I would wonder about her motives. From what I have learned of this lifestyle, it is something that a couple pursues together and never is ram roded by one. Things never go beyond the comfort zone of either one and little steps are taken. Like others have said it does sound like she has thought of this for a long time and she obviously has the hots for this guy, but to tell you that she needs to take charge of her own sexual life is to completely violate the unwritten rule that the spouses are to take care of the sexual needs of the partner and if that involves another couple and they are both ready to move in that direction then great. She is wanting to direct her own sexual life and this sounds like a precription for disaster. She needs to become aware of what the swinglifestyle is all about and how it can enhance the marriage relationship. It seems to me that she is wanting to take things in a direction and with a motivation that could lead to dissolution rathen than improvement. Not being one of you guys except in desire, I know I only have part of the picture but I am very impressed by the moral standards of honesty and togetherness that y'all possess. Hope this is helpful.
  14. I'm married and my wife doesn't want to play, and doesn't want anything to do with any of this. I am learning from this site that there may be ways I can perhaps help to open her up to the idea of swinging but in reality it probably will not work. I love my wife and will not do this without her so I am probably destined to never getting to experience what all of you enjoy so much. So be it, I will not sacrifice my marriage for a little pleasure, but I wish I could experience my fantasy of swinging. This guy wants it all, I can't go there.
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