froggyjenn80

ok so I didnt read EVERY post thereafter the original.....sorry. I am glad you chose to go to the next one, whenever that may be. And I am glad you have gotten to know these people as friends. I wish both you and the cpl the best of luck in the lifestyle. ~Jenn

omg a 25 room house I would be running inside to take a tour!!!! Rich or Poor we are all people. If people cant see past money, then really how shallow are they? If the couple you are talking about never lead others to believe that they were that well off, then why worry? I mean they dont throw their money in your face or brag about what they have....so why care? I am not trying to sound rude or anything...I just dont see the point. I would be happy that I was even invited to such an elaborate house to have fun at. Not everybody gets that chance everyday. Take it as a positive thing rather than looking at what they have and you dont. If they dont push the issue and act like any other regular couple, then why punish them for having the house in the first place? Just my idea Jenn

The patient/doctor confidentiality allows for you to be open and honest. If you dont feel that you can tell him, then your health may be at risk. Be open and honest, thats what they are there for. Its truly a weird feeling at first, but eventually it becomes just another part of life. Good luck

We both are non smokers and very very very light drinkers (if we even drink at all) We have been with both drinkers and smokers. We dont mind as long as they are not impaired from the drinking, and the smoking doesn't have that taste in their mouth. We highly recommend Altoids for that problem. That's us.

533 here, but I think some could be higher! whew, that was fun, thanks for sharing!

I am not sure, I haven't been with a non cut man before...hmmmm would be interesting...lol

I say go for it. If your hubby is ok with it, it may be a turn on to him to hear everything...like reading his own erotic story, but it really happened. If you are not comfortable with it, then dont. But be sure if you do to talk it out with your husband about rules on what you can or cannot do. Just my thought

This may not be funny to others, but it is to me. One was at a party the male half asked for a condom from the house owner. When going to put it on, it was extremely small and cut of circulation. So after going to get my stash upstairs, and getting back into things he went to add some ky to me, and found that it had dried out. We both couldnt stop laughing at everything to even begin sex. So we layed there for over an hour laughing hysterically.

My husband and I talked about it for awhile. Then checked into it...of course we just wanted the infamous single bi female. So we started a yahoo group, and went from there. We didnt understand "swinging" until after a couple of meet n greets. We were lifestyle stupid lol.

Definitely the people. The friendships go much more beyond the sex, and that is a huge plus! Also the openness and acceptance of everybody in the lifestyle, just being able to be free about who we really are and not have to tip toe around subjects. Excellent question!

Definately a turn off! I too hate those, or even the ones asking details about prior encounters, or who and how often we play with. Certain things are ok, but what happens behind closed doors is none of their business. If people cant think about other connections other than sex, then they dont need to be our partners...well thats what we think anyways... ~~Jenn

Even before swinging my husband and I were not religious, so in reality, swinging has nothing to do with our beliefs. My husband is pagan and I am agnostic. We know swingers that are very very religious, and we think they are extremely hypocritical. Not the swinging, but the acts that happen during swinging functions (smoking, drinking, swearing, ect) All things that the church religiously disagrees with, upon sex with others. America is just about the only country where being bisexual or with multiple partners is "bad" and looked down upon. Its just a personal preference of each. Religious or not. We dont put down those that are, and expect the same respect with our beliefs. Excellent question though! ~~Jenn

I am not sure of a state that declares masturbation as illegal, but I do know that Arizona does have a law against anal sex. And also has another law against 2 people of the opposite sex living together and not being married. I know Arizona isnt the only state with outrageous laws like this. I wonder what other states have these types of laws...hmmmm.

Being a female it is easier to be welcomed as a single swinger than if I was a male. I think that knowing the ins and outs of swinging would help with if I was single. Now I wouldnt just jump into it right after I lost my husband to whatever happened (knock on wood it never happens) But with time, the comfort of that part of my past would come back and I would want it to be part of me again. So yes, swinging single is definately an option. ~Jenn

Oh my is double vaginal awesome! I have used my double dong bent in half, and one side with my husband as the other penetrator. But I have also used several other vibes and toys as well. I hope to eventually have 2 men vaginally inside of me, but so many men are homophobic when it comes to touching ball sacks or even rubbing cocks while inside....hmmmm oh well. ~~Jenn