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biblonde

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About biblonde

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    Lifestyle Mentor
  • Birthday 08/12/1966

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    sacramento
  • Occupation
    being a brat
  • Swinging Experience
    3 1/2 years

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  • SLS Name
    curious1918

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  1. we play with a couple that both are straight..even though I am bi, I behave really good with them. I would never ever push another woman into doing something that she really doesnt want to do. Although we mostly look for couples where the woman is bi..we also dont push away straight couples either. Hey I have NO problem just playing with the guys!!
  2. Intuition....he was mad and upset and then it started him thinking...He really couldnt say anything since with his position at work it wouldnt have been good. these were guys that worked under him and with his job it could have cost him if they knew we were into this. Or they could have used it against him in a blackmail kinda way. Cant really explain how on here but you get the idea. This was years ago and know we both just smile and laugh without any kind of answer if we here people talking about it...hey we know we are having the time of our lives and enjoy it to the fullest ...I kinda feel sorry for them for not having the trust and the kind of relationship that allows this much fun!! lol
  3. Well...I have a couple. The first was a couple years ago my hubby and some of his workers were standing around talking and it was about the time all the swinging stuff was being talked about on tv. They were all pretty bad about it saying stuff like "How a man that would allow his wife to be with other men is nothing but a CHUMP" and it went downhill from there. My hubby just kept his mouth shut and didnt say anything but it effected him for a while. We almost got out of swinging all the way since at the time we had just started getting into it. The second is more than once (again while this was on TV all the time) at work (yes I am a bratt at work) I have had co-workers say "you seem pretty wild bet you and hubby swing!!" I just laughed at them and said what ever...or made some other smart ass remark. They still bring it up once in a while. Or they tell me there is a rumor about that..mostly it is them trying to get a reaction to see if it is true or not.
  4. In our house the wife (me) is the aggressive one! I like the thrill of the hunt....and I do tend to get a little bold (okay alot of bold!) he tends to be the more quiet and goes with the flow of things.
  5. It happened once! Hubby wasnt at all thrilled...they never showed up here again. We had been friends for a while and if they would have called we wouldnt have had any problem with it since he was out front working on his car. They only knew the general erea and looked for our cars...was weird to say the least. That was over 2 years ago. We have ran into some pretty stange things but luckily we dont get to excited over the bad or stange things...we figure it is something to learn from and move on. there is always something good to be found out there and most of our encounter have been pretty great!!
  6. I forgot this one....yes those that show up at your house without you telling them where you live!
  7. traits we hate 1. those who are jelous (even if they say in the past he/she was jelous) 2. those who dont know what they want out of this lifestyle. 3. Loud or rude people...ones that dont understand we dont talk loudly in public about who we have been with! 4. women that ask hubby to marry them right after they finish having sex! (it is funny now but wasnt at the time) 5. men that think within 5 minutes of meeting they should check out my tonsils or put their hands all over me without making sure I am even interested. 6. People who are trying to fix their marriage.
  8. Interesting topic. I havent read all the replies but thought I would post anyway. For the first two years we were in this lifestyle, almost every guy we were with had a problem. I didnt take it personally but it wasnt much fun either. But I found other things to do to entertain myself! I have found that alot of times the first time we play with a couple I exspect it to happen so when it doesnt I am really really happy and if it does then I am not let down. Luckily my hubby hasnt had this problem yet so he keeps me pretty happy if the other guy has a problem. I do notice that the guys seem to get more upset over it (I guess it is the ego thing) which usually makes it worse. Advice to the men...if it happens just relax and find something else to do for a bit....usually that helps it "work". if you try to make it work it wont! Believe me there is alot of fun things to do while you are waiting! he he he
  9. I have to agree with MOONLIGHTKISS...up close and personal is the best. We have had some that within the first 5 minutes of talking want xxx pics and they get sent on their way. We usually assume they are single men collecting pics. But since it is my birthday I think everyone should send me nakked pics to drool over..he he he just playin
  10. At the time it pissed me off alot since they were giving my 12 year old details...as in you mom promised to suck my dick till I cum down her throat. He had 2 like that and when he told me what the first one said I though he was being gross and grounded and sent him to his room..well about 5 minutes later the phone rang and he still had the phone(he snuck it in his room) and he answered it again and handed it to me so I would see he wasnt lying...OOOPPPSS did I owed him alot of apologies...now I look at it and just think "WONT DO THAT AGAIN" so now unless we really know you ....no house number! that was when we first got into the lifestyle.
  11. We had this happen a couple times but this is the best example....this "girl" had wrote us on SLS saying she traveled alot and we chatted a bit on yahoo first then I turned on the web cam "at "its" request"since they were checking to see if I was a girl also. Well this person kept requesting me to do things (which I said no to) that sounded more like a male than a female request. So finally I asked her to call me since her camera wasnt working. I gave "it" our home number since I was home at the time. That way she could prove she was actually a SHE. I really didnt believe it was a she. WELL....I was soooo right. The "IT" posted my name and phone number on some XXX chatt rooms promising all sorts of stuff to alot of men! they started calling my house at midnight and went on to the next morning. After the first one we thought maybe it was just a wrong number till my son answered the phone and them telling them that their mom had promised to do (insert graffic details)...my son looked at me and said "ummm....mom I think this is for you." It took about 2 minutes to get my number changed after I told the poor guy what I would do to him if we actually meet..he he he ..yes I can be cruel. Learned that I dont give out house number and if I think it is a guy....run dont look back!
  12. We both shave and like our partners to also. Or at least trim up and look sexy!! yummm
  13. there is usually a towel close by but we dont always rush to clean up. We did have one guy that made me squirt (and yes he knew ahead of time i do that) he jumped up ran into the kitchen and got a paper towel like he was freaked out. made me nervous at first but then when it happened again he thought it was cool. I guess he just didnt know what to expect. It was pretty funny to talk about on the way home. Hubby asked why he did that ...we were both laughing.
  14. I kinda find it amusing that they say over and over and over again how they didnt want to fuck either of you and how horrible you were yet they are fighting tooth and nail to get you to come back so they can convince you to play again....They show their true colors in their emails and hopefully they will get the hint and move on to the next victim. They really need to grow up and you guys need to take it as a learning experiance and move on! best of luck!!
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