YoungGeeks

Thanks for all the advice everyone. And thanks for the warm welcome. As for why we're not starting with couples swapping, i guess my wife is not really in other men right now. I suggested it when we discussed posting on the forum for advice and I've also brought up the idea of maybe a MMF threesome for her cause I understand that's easier to find, but she's not interested at the moment. She's had an awkward drunken threesome before and she's always wanted to have a proper one. I actually have a friend who was/is a unicorn, so I'm hoping to be able to tap into her contacts. Though before reading these forums when she said she was a unicorn I thought she meant she was a sparkly, carefree, unique person. I'm not sure if we 're going to be able to do the big party thing at first, my wife has a big problem with crowds. Sorry if that was a little rambley, still a bit nervous, I know most of the theories but never actually put them to the test. I'll have to check out that book you mentioned funcoupledayton, I've never been all that great at the whole party thing, that might help me figure out what I was doing wrong. :P Again thanks for all the advice and it's nice actually being able to talk about this stuff with other adults.

My wife and I have been discussing the prospect of having an open marriage for about a year now, and we feel we'd really like to start diving in and exploring some of our fantasies. We've got our boundaries set up; condoms, no sex at home, always come home at night, open communication, and of course full veto power for both of us. My wife wants to explore her bisexual side, and I'm always looking for new sexual experiences. I'm not sure if these forums are the best place to ask questions, since we are not currently looking for couple swapping at the moment though we have talked about it maybe looking into it in the future. We are looking to start with a MFF threesome, since it seemed after reading some of these forums it seemed that the best way to start would be something we shared as a couple. One of the biggest hurdles we currently face though is we are both extreme introverts. We are open enough with each other that it's difficult to put on the masks that you have to use to deal with other people. Does anyone have any advice on dealing with this particular problem? Thank you for reading this and thanks in advance for any advice offered.