Thanks for the input.
I am going to make some changes to our profile---and explain why we had a profile from 2012 and consider ourselves new (we actually just recently finished our profile and added pictures--so our pictures are only a few months old...lol) I never thought about that being a red flag.
My wife actually brought up the age thing--I did not realize that SLS did not auto update that portion....is there any way to tell when that part was updated?
Changed the bit from MFM to MFMF....
The zero weight...that is my wife's choice....so the best I can do is leave it be until she is ready for me to change it....lol
Thanks again for taking the time to review this for us