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FlirtyGirl

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About FlirtyGirl

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  • Birthday 01/04/1978

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Cookeville, TN
  • Interests
    Rock Crawling (Jeep), Saltwater Fish, Travel, and spending time with Family
  • Occupation
    Laboratory Scientist
  • Swinging Experience
    One Time only (newbies)
  • Anniversary
    07/31/2004

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  • SLS Name
    FlirtyGirl38501

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  1. I am a squirter. It is really hard to let go with a new partner cause it seems even if your tell people you are they really don't get just how violent and crazy it can get!
  2. As I also feel this from time to time I know it is not possible and are not scared to admit it...he is not the only man that turns me on so why should I demand something that even myself can not give....my husband gives me his love and his attention...he spoils me and goes to great lengths to please me and give me what I want and need and for me that has to be enough...I mean it is for him!
  3. Seriously does that work? You sure that wasn't an older sister messing with you.
  4. I don't require it for couple play...I just state so the female knows it's welcome.
  5. I just are not gonna lie I find women attractive...there is not very much sexy to the male anatomy...penises are kinda creepy....lol if it wasn't that they were so fun and felt too damn good ladies probably wouldn't invite their staring one-eyedness over to play. Women are just sexy and pretty to look at and touch....but that's my personal opinion
  6. I am bi-curious cause I truly want to be with a woman, but it is not required....all it means for me is it's on the table and if she asks I wouldn't say no......but I wouldn't push the issue. It would be the same as me being in her shoes....if I didn't want her to touch me I would just say so, but if I changed my mind I know she would also be open to the option of my invitation.
  7. I try to talk to people and see what there likes and dislikes are...I am drawn to people that like similar things that I do or have the same boundaries etc...that way we kind of know everything that is on the table and we can pick and choose those things as play time progresses. I want somebody that is concerned for my wants and desires as I am of theirs....sex is NOT one sided...if it was it would be called Masturbation LOL
  8. I have had a hard time being accepted in school and even on the dating scene sometimes. I am 5'8' and 262lbs (honestly). That doesn't always appeal to everybody, but that doesn't matter one thing you will learn is you could be Angelina Jolie or Scarlett Johanssen, but those types are not for everybody....there are men out there that appreciate sexy in ALL shapes and sizes and THAT my friend is all that matters.
  9. I wonder if in some way Porn although not bad does contribute to a lot of mis-education by men.....we all don't over dramatize our orgasms so maybe it is hard for them to honestly tell when they are doing a GREAT job unless we tell them.
  10. I and my husband both had this take on that. We were just forthright and said the first meeting is not a play meeting...maybe some flirting or touching, but no obligation of play...the purpose is to screen for compatibility.
  11. I avoid all ackwardness. I would rather everybody in the party have the cards on the table so to speak then to have somebody later on issued a surprise hand...that's not fair gameplay
  12. I really like and appreciate this thread because it has tackled and been able to create some interesting thoughts as to what I should and expect from the lifestyle. I can understand and side with all points and observations made within this post and can see and understand how all this and all the facets of the experience are involved. I believe that in open honesty and the ability for couples to communicate and put their own emotions and needs aside to completely understand the viewpoint of the other parties involved is essential to a successful swinging relationship. Please keep us updated as to where and what is going on with this situation. My goal is to find a couple like this to play with on a regular basis and how to navigate the in's and out's of the whole process. On a secondary note I guess all individual situations are just that...individualized. It is all in what you are comfortable and finding where your personal boundaries lie....you never know they might be further out than you thought.....It is all in finding comfort in an otherwise socially uncomfortable situation with the people you love closest to you at your side.
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