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  • Birthday 05/30/1966

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  1. He controls when he sees me and only when he wants too. He's very secretive and when I ask what he's doing he avoids the question and won't answer. In the beginning it was great between us but now 6 years later it's just to much for me. I am on my out of this relationship and I know what's going to come when I do belittling name calling etc...let me just say this I'm not a jealous person and treat people with respect and don't believe in cheating and like the saying goes those who do the accusing are the ones doing it themselves. When we go out I get a lot of attention and the look on his face when I do is almost the look of hatred and when a male tells him that they think I'm attractive he will ask me what did I do to make that man say that to him and then the accusing starts and saying I was flirting. To let everyone know I am going to leave I just wanted to know if there were others who have encountered this with their partner in the lifestyle.
  2. I've tried to talk to him but he refuses to hear anything I have to say. He wants an explanation for whatever it is he accuses me of. He makes things up of things he said he saw me do that never happened when I try to talk to him and tell him my side he starts telling that I could care less how he feels. We are only a play in the same room only couple and he keeps changing on our profile that we play separately and do hall passes so I change it back and he will go and change it again. Everything he accuses me of is what he's doing himself and projecting it back onto me. When he wants an answer and I try to explain my side of things all I get back from is "go ahead and deny and argue what I saw" and when he starts in on me he grabs on like a pitbull and won't let go it's been 3 weeks now that he won't let this last argument go.
  3. Hi I'm so frustrated and don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and have been in the lifestyle for a little over 2 years. Every time we play with a couple or full swap I think we're all having a good time and stay within our boundaries and make sure we ask the other couple their level of play so we're all on the same page and it never fails every single time he gets upset about something that I did during play or starts accusing me of things that I didn't even do. If the woman from the couple we're playing with doesn't give him a blow job it's my fault that she didn't and I shouldn't of given her guy one. Another time we we're playing with a unicorn and he decided to fuck her without a condom without asking me first and when I told him that he shouldn't have done that and I was upset about it he said I caused him to not use a condom with her because I had said I was hungry and it caused him not to be able to keep an erection to put the condom on. When something bothers me and I want to talk about it he yells at me and turns the blame on me and will ignore me or not see me from anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. But if he asks me why I did something during play like touched the guy in a certain place or we kissed to long etc. and I tell him that didn't happen he won't let it go for weeks and then will email that couple and make me look horrible explaining to that other couple I was out of control or drunk and that he was sorry I ruined the evening for everyone but to the other couple they say we had a great time she was great. He chooses the couple we are going to play with and always the man is way over in his late 50,s and the wife is always beautiful and younger and if I say no I'm not attracted to the husband it's another huge fight, not once has he let me pick a couple where the husband is attractive and closer to my age he will make an excuse why he doesn't want to play with them. We are both very attractive and I get a lot of attention and its almost like he hates it.
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