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  1. The criticism actually didnt bother me all that much. The funny thing is my girlfriend who is five years older than me told me that nobody she has ever been with knows what she likes like I do. So I asked why were you moaning like that when the other dude was giving you oral? Her reply, because I was playing with her breasts. But I hadnt thought about it like that. I honestly believed that like the last poster she would not want me anymore after the other dude and all this and more went through my mind. But she told me that she feels terrible about how she acted and doesnt want me to think she wants some one else, but it was the excitement of something different that got to her. And she only enjoyed it when all four of us were interacting and I concentrated on her just as much as the other girl. I think I see a fmf threesome somewhere down the road lol. I want to thank all for the advice and will post again when we have our next experience.
  2. Well here is an update: We talked again yesterday about the whole thing and I agree that I should have spoken up and stopped it if I was not comfortable. Now the thing is she said I put all the blame on her and I did. But alot of the advice I have gotten here made me do some self evaluation and it was not a pretty picture so to speak. And I let her know that as well. The thing is she suddenly remembers more of what happened and had an oh shit moment. Basically she told me she got so wrapped up that she did forget about me and was sorry but she also said that if the roles were reversed she could not have gone as far as we did and if she had saw me kiss the other girl or break rules she would have reacted far worse than I ever did. Strange huh? I think I am lucky to have her, but i agree with the last poster who said what if she had posted this instead of me? Would so many of you have been so critical? I am not upset that some of youe were I just wonder. As far as things with she and I we are ok and will work more on our relationship before we try swinging again.
  3. All of you make valid points, some of which I had not thought about. I should have done a ton of things differently, but I didnt. Now I am even more upset because she told me she told me she could not have watched me have sex with the female but expected me to sit and watch her. The other thing is she said I have every right to be upset and everything I said was right. How is that possible if she doesnt remember? She said she got caught up in the moment but I dont believe that. Yes it is my job to control my feelings but at the same time and I was having a good time up until she kissed that dude and got totally ignored. She claims she wasnt all that in to the other dude but she was wetter than water. (Maybe it had something to do with me?) At any rate she doesnt want to talk about it but she keeps mentioning it every chance she gets. I guess I am lucky to have a girlfriend like her and I am trying to let it go but I keep having these nagging feelings that just wont go away. Maybe I should just believe what she says and trust that she got caught up in the moment. One of you said we should take a break from the lifestyle and I think that is what we are going to do.
  4. Well the funny thing is I have some swinging experience, but I wasnt the one to bring it up. She did. And we wanted to try it together to ad more spice to our already awesome sex life. The thing that drew me to swinging sex was the excitement of meeting new couples who felt adults getting together to have fun and sex wasnt wrong. The other couple knew of the no kissing rule. In fact they told us no kissing too. But I look up and she turns his face towards herand frenchs him. How can she not remember that? The fact that I could not perform isnt the reason I am thinking of breaking up. I am thinking of breaking up because she broke the rules and claims she doesnt remember. Then to make it worse, she never got off the bed and didnt even know I had left.
  5. Hello. I need some advice. My girlfriend and I recently had our first couples experience. We met a very nice attractive couple and we were both attracted to each of them. During our meet we were all nervous but managed to get past that. Now our rules were no kissing and if one us is having issues the other will disengage and condoms. Now the problem is we started with soft swap and within five minutes she is kissing the male half of the couple. The thing is I saw her. I didn't say anything but should have. Everything after that just went downhill and I could not perform. The female half of the couple knew I was having issues but my girlfriend never even looked up. Instead she is laughing and giggling and whispering the whole time which put me on edge even more. I had to leave the room for a minute to calm down and she didn't even notice. But I kept trying and managed to get it going in the end. I was fucking her from the back while she gave him oral. The female half of the couple was patient and as I pulled out of my girlfriend she tried to put a condom on me and I couldn't do it. So I said I can't do this and went to the bathroom washed up and started to get dressed. I come out of the bathroom and my girlfriend is on her hands and knees waiting for him to put on a condom and she didn't even notice I left. Funny thing is I forgot my smokes and had to go back to get them and that is when she noticed I had left. I was going to leave her there but decided to wait. Ten minutes go by and she finally comes out asking what is wrong and I told her she broke the rules, virtually ignored me, and didn't even notice I was gone. And she tells me she can't remember any of what I saw. WTF!! So now I am having major trust issues and think we should break up. Any advice?
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