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buckmclane

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About buckmclane

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 01/26/1979

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    M.Male
  • Location
    Ariona
  • Swinging Experience
    none...
  • Anniversary
    08/05/2006
  1. Yes I have made it a goal to lose weight and to go back to Vegas for my birthday in January to experience an awesome and amazing time and north be sick. I have been going to the gym and so has the wife so we should be super amazing awesome for the January trip!!
  2. Hello, we went to Vegas for our anniversary and it was really awesome we had an epic room and we had a lot of fun. Bad part was that we were both got sick the first night and felt terrible when we were there. We have talked about it a lot and actually had our first experience with another girl. That opened a lot of things that I wasn't expecting. The girl actually used me to have sex with my wife... it was weird because I haven't been used before. It was kind of a let down for me because there was stuff she "just didn't do" and most of it was what I had in my fantasies. She was very loud and very fake loud. Overall the experience wasn't great and I am leaving a lot out because it would be a two page post if I didn't. We are still looking to play with another couple and another female that would enjoy both side and participate in both sides.
  3. That makes sense. I have read a lot on the boards and looked inside myself a lot and realized that I need to be honest with my feelings with my wife and not be so guarded. I haven't felt so close to her ever in our relationship and I can't wait to take this next step with her.
  4. After typing the first lines I worded some of the wrong. (Old habits) I meant to use, we and us and not I.
  5. Update.... so I finally decided to man up and deal with my insecurities and go for it. I think that it would be awesome to have another couple and take it slow. Talking to the wife and trusting her with my emotions (which was terrifying for me) was the best way to go. I was honest with myself and with her and it has been a lot better in our playing. We still haven't player with another couple yet but we are going to be in Vegas at the end of the month sat and sun and hope we will be able to find a couple to play with. We have been married for 7 years and we haven't been able to go for a two day period with out kids anywhere for more than a few hours. We now have two nights and the entire day without anyone but ourselves and can't wait!!! I just wanted to thank you guys for being awesome and helping us out in our relationship!
  6. Damn insightful! I didn't look at it that way. That is what I was saying. I wasn't saying I just want you now. I was saying I want to make sure it is the best thing for our first time. Thank you for letting me see the error of communication. Sometimes I can be pretty dumb when I open my mouth for the wrong reason.
  7. Ok now I am stuck.... After incredible sex and her coming like crazy...I was just happy in the direction we were heading. Taking it slow. I told her this past week was the best sex of our married lives and I wanted to take it slow and enjoy this for a while. This really pissed her off !! I told her that I wanted to have a three some with her and try swinging just that we go slow. She told me she felt that I was being selfish and that I was leading her on.. just telling her what she wanted to hear... I am not thoroughly confused, would anyone be able to help? You can always send a message or respond to the post. Thank you again for reading.
  8. Thank you for the welcome guys I took your advice and had my wife look at the boards at the FAQ's she understand a little bit more. We were talking last night for a while about it and she opened up a lot to me and I open up a lot to her she felt like I was judging her when we had sex I had no idea she felt that way after we talked about it we can acted on an entirely different level and had probably the most incredible sex we've ever had ever ever and I meant to put two Evers. I think I'm more open to the LS with a couple because in my head if she is with another guy with me and another girl I know we're going home together and I wouldn't feel threatened because I know he's going home with the other girl. Again I think this is in my head and it's going to be hard for me to come out and we're just going to take it very very slow . But thank you guys very much for your input and you help me connect with my wife better than ever before
  9. I wanted to see if anyone was having the same type of issue with fmf. Most of the stuff I have found is mfm and I am not sure that I am ready for that and after talking to her she told me that she really wasn't interested in having another M. I just wanted to make sure I talk with people who have had some good experiences and bad experiences.
  10. Hello eveyone, I am super new to this site and this lifestyle. I am here mostly for information. I am married to a female. I am interested in learning about this lifestyle. At first look, I thought it would have been creepy but then I actually read the comments and posts I was pleasantly surprised! I love all of the feedback that everyone gives it really seems honest and friendly, not creepy! I am a large framed guy 6'3 about 250 and my wife is much smaller than me she is 5 years younger than me. I am celebrating my 35 at the end of the week! My wife recently asked me if I wanted to have a threesome FMF for my birthday. My wife has always wanted to have a threesome and I had the typical guy response of heck yeah! Then I actually started to think about it and want to gather info. I have read a lot on this site about FFM and MFM and I don't think I would be ready to have another M in the mix yet. I grew up catholic and sex was love and blah blah... I have recently started to come out of my shell and actually entertain the idea of swinging and involving more than just me. My wife was not raised catholic and she is freer with sex. She is educated about it and thinks about sex differently than I do. She see is as "just sex" and I can't wrap that in my brain. I am trying to figure it out in my head and not think about how I was raised but how I feel about it. I do have a jealousy issue but I think early in our relationship it was because I was super insecure about myself. I have grown since we were first together. I don't want that statement to have people say.... this lifestyle is not for you. I have read that ALOT but I disagree; I think I would be able to like it. We have been together for 15 years and married for 7. I have been with 2 others beside her and she was with 1 besides me. I love her to pieces and I don't want her to feel that she is missing something because she wasn't able to explore with more people M or F. Our sex life used to be not good because I was selfish. I wasn't able to make her cum when I was inside her. She would always cum when I would go down on her. Then I started to think about her more and find out what I was able to do to make her have an incredible experience with me. I have gotten her to open up to me and trust me so every time we have sex I can usually get her to cum once or twice before I do...sometimes not. But we always talk and make sure we are both satisfied before we are done. I want to make the right decision for both of us and not cause any weird feelings because we chose to take this next step... Well, that is my story and I just wanted to stop by and introduce myself. Thank you for reading!
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