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  1. We planned a gangbang for the first time and even made a thread here to ask advice on how to bring 'all these guys' to pass the front desk and come inside our Hotel Room. One guy was too weird we cancelled him, one other (the one we knew the best and had 3somes w before) disappeared two days before the meeting, and one just keep texting for like 3 hours after he was supposed to be there "I'm almost there! wait for me, missed my train/my subway/etc". We ended up in that superb suite in a beautiful hotel..... doing a 3some! the guy that came was super sweet, good looking, my wife had a lot of fun and he got crazy about her. But nothing new there still never tried the gangbang fantasy of my wife yet.
  2. well I almost feel bad I took defense of cereel so strong. At the end he admits what everyone was telling. And so I was wrong
  3. When there is no flirting I find it just hot to see someone having sex with my wife. I'm more jealous of someone flirting with her and that will not even touch her!
  4. We're having the same move from 3somes FFM & MMF to now gangbang (next week the first one) as it is the biggest fantasy of my wife. The only difference is that I am not passive and always participating. If it's her fantasy than no lead is needed. Maybe the idea of a gangbang in real is scary for her cause she feels unsafe? The best is to ad one guy at the time I think. Guys she trust that you had MMF with before is best. We don't like to meet in clubs so we are making the small group of men little by little.
  5. I've to say you're pretty hard on poor OP. Probably they are very experienced and seen that a lot and I understand them. Talking from my point of view I think she shouldn't have kiss the guy and she should have notice you leaving or having trouble. Our first encounter with a couple went wrong, I couldn't get hard, I felt really bad about it I wasn't having a good time at all. But my lovely girlfriend was there noticing, and we were checking on each others all the time. I love her so much for that and you feel extra connected. If I share my wife with another dude and it's awesome (I did it few time) I never feel any jealousy. If some dude at her work tries to seduce her and she smiles back, I will get jealous. It's all a matter of trust. She brought some girl home, it was awesome too, and she wasn't jealous. In 'outside' life she could be very jealous. Isn't the idea of both of the people in the couple having a great time? Going home, getting so exited about that experience they had? If Cerrel gf was a bit more checking on him, he would have feel there are together as a couple before anything else. He would have feel bad about that meeting but ready to do it again. Now he even think of breaking up. Everytime you see a advice tutorial on "how to make a great 3some" for newbies you see always: makes rules! speak to each other a lot before! Good communication! ...the girlfriend saying she doesn't remember...? is she 17yo? I don't get why every one take her defense. Everyone is jumping on this poor guy and I think personally it is unfair. I think if he had a good time and a real hard on for 4 hours yes probably he wouldn't be mad at her I agree. But, who cares, he didn't. You make rule for this bad direction scenario so you don't feel shitty and no trust and want to breakup. Of course the question to the OP is what if it was reversed and the girlfriend was having a really shitty time and for him it was awesome and hard as a rock, would he had stop and go home?
  6. I think this is very true what you say. Would you agree with probably the idea of not letting only yourself going into experimenting your fantasies but the concept that also your lover could and should. Non swingers will just cheat and be dishonest, or not cheat and be frustrated
  7. Too bad this thread is old. I hope angelkin you are still following! We feel the exact same way. First, as the male of the couple I couldn't understand why we had such an amazing threesome with another guy but our couple/couple didn't go well at all... We met a single girl and had also a threesome and it was amazing as well! It's possible that is was the couple that we didn't like, but the more we talked with my wife the more we find super hot the one person in the middle surrounded by the opposite sex. And we were asking the same question, are we swingers? Or maybe more sharers? hahaha
  8. thanks a lot guys for your answers. We did enjoy the MMF so much we'll do more of them for sure. FFM is almost impossible online to find... and hope to have our next MMFF getting as good as our MMF experience! we shall meet first in a neutral place as you said, not only from photos (was naive of us) and have an plan B escape in case it doesn't match (somehow we are still reluctant about SexClubs maybe it will come with time and experiences).
  9. Reading you guys it seems obvious I'm rushing to conclusion and I shall just come down at bit. Meeting the couples from pictures to real directly was probably not a good idea, specially as we have no experiences... and it's true putting the performance on top of the problem before the one of being not attracted by the woman isn't good at all. I just felt pressure that performing (P in V) or not performing would affect the whole mood of the evening for the 3 others because of me... yes without P in V it could be fun too, but it's not the same as 4 people really turned on and having fun. But as you said if I focus on that it will be much worse. I thought the situation would be such a turn on that even without much attraction with the other wife I'd feel excited but... I guess I'm wrong and I need more connection with the other girl not even only physically. But do you guys with experience pick the people of the other couple the same way you would do if you were single on a date in term of attraction, interest? I believe as you are in love in your own couple, you are less picky? or there I am again so wrong! We're supposed to meet this new couple next month which are way more matching our taste (both my wife and I) and I hope it will go well.
  10. Hi everybody, I'm the male part of a couple. We had recently our first couple/couple meeting. We met them online and invited them over our place. We talked for one hour and started to have sex. I couldn't get hard at ALL. Ok I did get hard but for about 2 minutes when the 2 girls were "trying" to make me hard and sucking me but soon went back to noodle mode. It was a very embarrassing and shameful moment. On top of being the party breaker I was feeling horrible as a man... I'm still feeling bad about it today... I've to admit I only saw the girl from pictures and when I saw her in real life I wasn't very much attracted to her... but anyway how do I know it is that? My wife is a showgirl (no nudity) and she is extremely beautiful looking and maybe I got too used to that? also it was hard for me to have two centers of focus between me and that girl and my wife and the other hubby. We met then a really cool guy online and he came over to our place. Me and that guy had sex with my wife for about 2 hours it was very wild and I was hard as a rock all the time. it was an extremely erotic experience. She looked so hot and beautiful I was totally turned on. btw I was active in the MMF to whole time. Is there something wrong with me? Am I not made for MFMF swinging and I am one of these guys who prefers that someone fucks his own wife instead of having sex with another wife? Just to clear it out, I did a lot of MF, FFM before to meet my wife and I never had any erectile problem. Also, never had once one with my wife since I'm with her. Also, I do not have a small penis (i'm 7inches). I am 100% straight. And I am not into cuckold/humiliation at all. We found now online a couple really super hot and which we connect a lot more, I find the girl totally in my taste and we shall meet them soon. I am so scared now that we meet them and to not get hard... I know it's the worse to think of that but I can't help it... I don't want to feel humiliated like that again... what shall I do? Am I stuck on MMF and FFM forever? Thanks a lot for any suggestion and help.
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