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  1. Thanks! Interesting ... if you are swinging already, did you wait 10 years before bringing it up yourself?
  2. Thanks for your insightful reply to my forum post! Are you in KIK or WeChat messenger to keep in touch with? Thanks

  3. How do you recommend we find a suitable couple to do this with? (We aren't in the US) Ideally we meet a couple during holiday with whom we can do it with.... but what are the changes of that happening! Sigh
  4. Thank you for taking the time. What you say makes sense. I shouldn't get to greedy or try to make it a 'trap'. Just enjoy what we have both agreed to for now.
  5. I've been with my now Girlfriend for six months and we totally love each other. I've shared with her my fantasies around swinging and the lifestyle and we even watched some movies and episodes of Playboy TV swing, etc. After some thought she said swinging and sharing goes against her values of being a committed couple. I said that's fine and I understand. But I asked her if she would be ok with same room sex with another couple in the same room and/or bed. She said she will be fine with that. Is that a good sign? And should I pursue the plan?
  6. Go ahead and enjoy it! I love my gf a lot and my desire too is to see her satisfied and pleased.
  7. I agree - that's one of the reasons I like the lifestyle - the pride I'll have sharing my girl and letting the other guy experience how good she is. But knowing that some of my friends have seen her pretty much naked makes me nervous. And esp since I suspect some of them know about my hotwife fantasies. They may 'target' my gf?
  8. somehow I find all your responses to be so wise! Thanks for helping make sense of everything! Merry Christmas!
  9. Basically accept that that is going to be the case and be okay with it.
  10. Thank you funcouple for your reply. Perhaps it's just her being playful? For eg, some time ago my gf leaned over to write something and some of us were standing right in front and we could see through the top of her blouse and she wasn't wearing a bra! I was quite nervous about it. Recently when I told my gf about my feelings she is playful about it.. she acted surprised but saying it's ok since they can only see. Almost like she knew what happened. i'm ok with that unless any of the guys see it as a welcome to approach her.
  11. Is it normal that you get jealous if any of your friends look at your gf in a particular way or if your gf herself does the same with your friends? i.e. check them out But if that happened with some strangers it would be more of a turn on for me. Is it normal this feeling when it comes to getting friends checking out or hitting on your gf?
  12. Let's say your current partner or new partner in the future doesn't like the idea of swinging, do you think you'd be able to give up on the idea and not think about it too? I feel like the idea is a major factor for me to get turned on and hard right now. If I have to completely give up thinking about it (even secretly in my own head during sex) I'm not sure how easy it would be to get excited by only 'normal sex'. But before I even knew about the lifestyle few years ago it was all fine. Strange. What are some of your thoughts?
  13. Another quick question along the same lines.. As you said if this is only "sort of a role playing type titillation game" not something she is keen in making a reality right now then is it ok to keep dirty talking about her being naughty during her travels? Or is that going to condition her to believe that I am actually ok with her doing it?
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