Hi all. As you know, we're new to this lifestyle. Our only experiences have been two threesomes with another woman (my wife is very bi-sexual). After each of the threesomes, everything was fine. We all had a great time and the sex between my wife and I was incredible for months after. Most importantly, the communication after the encounters was excellent. I found watching my wife pleasuring someone else and being pleasured incredibly erotic. To my surprise, she found me being with the other woman just as erotic. Now, after months of discussion, we've decided to try a foursome with another couple. This is a huge step for us. We've been married nearly twenty years and still act like newlyweds both in and out of the bedroom.
When we discuss trying a foursome it's exciting. Talking about it during sex is even more exciting but, after I ejaculate, some of the excitement wears off. I know this is to be expected. But, my concern is is this, if, during a foursome, I ejaculate first and the excitement wears off, what kind of emotions can I expect while waiting for my wife and her partner to finish? I know this sounds silly, but it's weighing on my mind. Do any of you have similar feelings, experiences or advice you can share with me here?
Thanks.