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warrencple

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About warrencple

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  • Birthday 04/26/1970

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  1. Well, considering our experience so far has been an erotic massage for me at the last party we went to, when we met M... I'm not disagreeing with the wife on not wanting to go spending the night yet, nor am I trying to convince her into it either. The mere fact that she's willing to continue on this journey is enough. J&K
  2. So, the wife and I are moving forward in our adventure. She's not comfortable with the idea of going to our new playmates home to play, we're both in agreement that we don't want to bring her to our home (aside from the mess, we right now want to keep our home as our "us only" place), so that leaves on-premise parties or getting a room. How do you more experienced folk do it? Do you get a room for however long you and your playmates want, even if you have to pay for a night, and check out when you're done? Do you plan it for you or them to stay over night and check out in the AM (of course, many of you might spend the whole night with your playmates, see below for the wife's feelings on that for us)? Do you find a motel with "special" rates (ick, ick, ick)? Now, while the idea of the three of us spending the night together in a hotel doesn't bother me, the wife right now doesn't feel comfortable with that, either. And she's driving the bus, I'm just standing next to her making suggestions... I'll admit, I'd feel kind of "odd" checking three people into a hotel room, then a couple hours later checking out. Of course, part of me also wonders how often just that sort of thing happens, or how often people check in for a couple hours to grab a nap on a long drive... I'd bet most hotel staff are used to such things... Anyways, thanks for any ideas. J&K
  3. Well, in that case, after talking to the wife, yes, it was play! J&K
  4. So, some of the long-time members of the site might recognize me / us and be thinking, "oh boy, here he goes again, getting geeked about something that's just going to come crashing down..." Nope, nothing like that. This could have gone into the first time experiences just as easily as the good experiences section, but to my mind, this was a good experience. Last night, the wife and I went to a party at a sort-of local club. If you consider an hour and change drive one-way local, which we kind of have too. The club in question is more of an open-invite house party, than a "commercial" club, with seating in what was the garage, and play and socializing areas in the basement. All comfortably heated... We got there, mostly keeping to ourselves initially, until the buffet opened. After sitting down to eat, we noticed one of the guests with a blue first-timer name tag coming down the steps. Lo and behold, it was the gent (let's call him D) who operated a club we had started our journey at! We chatted briefly with him, and after eating, went down to the dance-floor / playroom / porn TV / massage table / pool room. As more guests began coming downstairs and shedding down to lingerie, we stripped down as well. We again chatted with D, as well as another female guest we'll call M. M eventually went off and was giving another guest a blowjob. The wife and I eventually grew bored(?) waiting for someone to start something, so we climbed onto the large play area, the size of 4 blow-up mattresses and began to play. Once we were done, I began to feel quite agitated and "antsy," so we went back upstairs intending to use the hot tub. Well, the tub was full to capacity at this time. I was quite restless (and here the long-timers are thinking, "here it comes, a whine...") Rather than give in and leave, we again went downstairs. We were sitting on the side of the play area, when M came by and struck up a conversation with us. We chatted for a bit, before she went to chat with a couple coming out of one of the private play areas. I asked the wife how she would feel about asking M if she would be interested in joining the wife and giving me a massage, and the wife agreed she would be OK with this. We went over to the massage table, got Ms' attention, and I managed to get as far as asking if she'd be interested before getting tongue tied. So the wife asked if she'd be willing to assist in giving me a massage. M agreed she would be happy to do this. I removed my boxers, we put a towel down on the table, and I stretched out. First, if you've never tried it, go get a "four hand" massage at a local spa. Even in a non-sexual situation such as a spa, it's *incredibly* relaxing. In this case, it rapidly moved from "relaxing" to "arousing." M's hands would occasionally move between my legs and caress my balls, as would the wifes. The ladies finally asked if I wanted to turn over. I was quite willing, but immediately asked the wife if *she* would be OK with it, as she has always been the most unsure about the whole swinging thing. She stated she was OK with it, so I flipped over so that the ladies could work on my front. It didn't take long for me to get erect. M was very carefully *not* touching my penis, as she knew from our talking that neither of us had ever done this. She asked the wife if it would be OK, wife asked me, and I told her I'd be OK with it if she was. Wife then told M to go ahead. When M stroked my cock, I let out such a groan of pleasure... Now, bear in mind, my first, and only sexual partner, or even sexual contact with a woman, was my wife. The ladies continued to massage me and stroke my cock. Eventually, the wife leaned in and took my cock in her mouth, then started making "bleah, yuck, ugh" from the massage oil:lol: She took a small towel and wiped me as clean of the oil as possible, and her and M began to lick and suck. M suggested they lick up on opposite sides, which was an incredible feeling. Unfortunately, I think from a combination of having previously orgasmed, the sensory overload, and likely a bit of performance anxiety, I wasn't able to orgasm before the ladies wanted to stop. I sat up on the table, gave the wife a kiss, then surprised both myself and the wife a little by giving M a rather passionate kiss. We both thanked M profusely for joining us. The wife and I collected our things and went back up for a drink, at which time we decided to call it a night. We went back down one last time to say goodbye and thank you to M again before leaving. On the ride home, the wife and I discussed the evening. I spent much of the trip alternating between reliving the event and making sure the wife was OK with what had happened. The wife was OK, she stated she didn't feel any jealousy or anything negative as to what happened. We tracked down M on SLS when we got home, and sent her a message again thanking her, and suggesting if she wants, meeting up again at this club. So, the wife and I have taken our first *real* steps into swinging at this point, after almost 5 years of being the voyeur / exhibitionist couple. Where do we go from here? Well, first, back to the club to meet M again soon! J&K (So, does getting a massage and BJ from two women count as playing?) PS. Sorry for the text wall...
  5. The wife and I are going to a Hallo-Weenie party (at a lifestyle club) next weekend. While I'm not much of one for costumes, and *definitely* don't have the body for a mostly nude guy costume, I've got a couple ideas which the wife likes and I'm OK with. Either Indiana Jones (I've got a real fedora, pair of khakis and a white button down shirt and I'm there,) or Tony Stark (Iron Man) using my arc reactor t-shirt from Thinkgeek, dress slacks, and let the facial hair grow all week to do the goatee.
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