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Hell...to me, that's just a BDSM contract that has replaced the collar for a chastity device. Its sexual, mental, and financial domination. At least that how I read it.

Im curious how the lunch went as well. I say if we don't hear back from him......send out a search party. Cause going to lunch with a angry bat shit crazy lady....well...ya know. May have stabbed him with a Spork.

What Sunbucks said. Lol. True on both accounts.

Wow. That just made my day! Good stuff and congrats!

Theres stuff my wife has done in the past that Im sure I don't know about. And most certainly.....vice versa. But, at the end of the day, as long as we are together, it doesent matter. If she wants to let me in on things....fantastic. But, shes more than welcome to do it at her own pace. The only thing that matters to me is our life together. Not what happened or didn't happen prior. The things that we do in the past make us what we are in the present. Whatever she has done has shaped her into the woman you care about. Just take it as that and appreciate yalls time together.

I know you wanted input from the ladies but really, is anyone the same person as they were twenty years ago? Why would it be so hard to believe that things and/or people change over two decades? It's all part of moving forward and evolving as a individual or a couple.

My wife is kinda that way too. Hell, I bought her lap dances from a lady in vegas and while she enjoyed them greatly she later informed me that she felt like she cheated. I explained to her as long as we do things as a couple then....its not cheating in any form. At least not to me. Its us having fun together but, in a different way. I think she gets it. Or if not shes getting there! We got time. Yall do too.

Something else to think about is getting all of you the whatsapp app on yalls phones that way you can create a group and everyone can be involved. I think there's another called kik but Im not sure on that. Its basically like a chat room for phones. Sorry if that's already been touched on.

Noooooooo shit. Yeah. That wouldent have been good at all. Lol. Sounds exciting to me but, that wouldent have flown with the wife at all. She was nervous enough as it was. Thanks for the info!

Hell of a weekend in Vegas with the wife over the weekend. Our first stop was the Red Rooster and this was also our first experience in any kind of swinger type setting. It was easy enough to find from the strip which was really nice. Once I pulled up I could tell my wife was getting nervous and/or having second thoughts. We havent even made it in the door yet. Heh. So, I knew to probally take it easy. Which was fine as I wasent expecting a whole lot. Anyhow, get through the door and the owner is there taking the donations. Really nice fella. Made just a bit of small talk and we were on our way. Most of the reveiws about the place being a bit out dated is pretty well spot on. I think it part of the charm. It was out dated but, it just kinda fits the place. Dropped off my wifes alcohol at the bar and the staff there was excellent. They were super busy but, not busy enough not to be nice and courtious. Hats off to em'. And, just a side note...theres a picture downstairs of the owner cheesing it up with Ron Jeremy. Now, how fucking cool is that?! Long live the Hedgehog. We cruised around the house for a few minutes just checking things out. As much as we could anyways as the place was packed. We finally settled down at a table downstairs near the bar so we could take it all in. Soon as we walked in I felt like I was right in my element. The wife on the other hand....was so nervous I had to remind her to breath. Poor gal. I was determined to make her as comfortable as possible. If she wanted to just sit and just check things out I was perfectly fine with that. She's a trooper though and we stayed down there for a while. On thing I found really cool was there was people from all walks there. All sizes, shapes, colors, and even different tax brackets were represented. Guess thats what they would call the melting pot. Everyone was getting along beautifly. We could almost tell the locals from the tourists (like ourselves). Locals were chatting away and us out of towners were mostly keeping to ourselves. Easy nuff'. We did kinda have a fun little game though it may have been a little mean. It was the "who's not going to get laid" game. I would pick one out, for example, the fella with the rustler jeans pulled up past his belly button, and declair "not getting action" and so on. Was fun but, snobbish on our part. Wifey finally loosend up a bit and we ventured upstairs which is where the action is. We were actually more comfortable up there because the crowd was alot less. Had a little room to breath. We find a table and sit down and to my left is a couple on the couch. They are giggling and having a good time. The lady is sitting there topless and really (oddly), I think that made my wife a little more at ease. So, high five to that couple! After a few minutes we start making out (YES!), Ive got my hand under her skirt, shes rubbing me, all is going good! The couple next to us is following suit. So, my wife sits up and unbuttons my jeans and proceeds to give me one of the best BJ's she has ever givin me. How.....freaking.....awesome. I stop her for a minute so, she can check out the couple next to us which is doing the same thing. That brings a smile to her face! People from downstairs were checking us out here and there and then a group of couples (6 altogether) comes up the stairs and watches the action for a bit. It was amazing. One lady is rubbing her partner and the others are holding each other close. It was really exciting. I (or We for that matter) had never been in that kind of situation so, it was mind blower. As soon as they go back down stairs I stop my wife and ask if shes ready for the couples room. She is so we proceed to head that way. This is where I kinda goof up but, it actually worked out for the better. It was my understanding that there was a room with 8 beds in it for the couples and that is where I wanted to go. But, I reckon I took a wrong turn somewhere and we ended up in a small room with two beds in it. But, Im a go with the flow kinda guy so we just set up shop in there. We had the room to ourselves and did what couples do when they got a room to themselves. We both got off hard the first go round'. While we were catching our breath and recouperating another couple comes in and sets up shop in the bed next to us. This got me excited and nervous and also set us up for round two. Which went really good. Me and the other fella were going down on our significant others at the same time. I would look up occasionally to see my wife watching them. We get down to buisness alot sooner than they do with me on top. Soon as I get behind her I can see her watching them more intently and I really believe that helped her get off alot sooner. Anyhow, we both finished and just laid there and watched for a little bit. Great time. And Im really REALLY glad my wife ended up having a good time as well. Think the sharing the room with one couple worked out perfect. Maybe the big room (if its really there) would have been a sensory overload. I knew going in that there would be no swapping or touching or anything of the sort and that was perfectly fine. No rush to get down to things. But, as we were coming home we are already talking about going back so thats good news! Also touched on going to the Green Room in Tulsa as thats about as close to playing around from home as we are comfortable with. I would definatly reccomend the Rooster if your in Vegas and are new to things. I have nothing to compair it to though so my opinion on it is what it is. There may certainly be clubs that make the rooster look like a turd but, I wouldent know. Just know we most certainly will go back. :P (Sorry if my writing/reveiwing skills suck. And.....my spellcheck isint working. So, Ill go ahead and apologize for all the misspellings too. Have a great day!)

Don't know how bi I would be but I couldn't ever be romantically involved with another dude. Everything else sexually speaking would be good to go tho. Top, bottom, doesn't matter. Just throw everyone in a pile and dive in! So, I'm guessing I'd be an 8 out of 10?

Couldn't agree more. And hell, for that matter, if your worried so much about your daily orgasm intake then, think about having kids in the house. Me and my wife (we have 3 kids) are doing good to pull off quickies in the laundry room or shower much less have actual awesome sex where we get to take our time.

Haven't tasted a whole lot but have always liked what I've got. Sure there would be some bad stuff to be had tho.

This here is a cool thread. I certainly agree that "open minded" can mean well, damn near anything. Too broad a term to really say anything. Its like asking the wife "where do you want to eat?" in which she says "anywhere you want". Then having to go through the whole list of places to eat in town before I finally get to the one she wants to eat at in the first place. Would be easier for everyone involved if they would just say what they wanted right off the bat instead of trying to feel it out or guess. Rawr.

How about texting the wife and checking yalls schedules to make sure yall dont converge at the club at the same time? You shouldent have to do that tho as youve done nothing wrong. That would be going out of your way. Maybe you could text the wife "Im going to the club on wendsday from 9:00 to midnight. So yall fuck off during that time. Bitches.". Maybe that is a bit extreme....but, ya get the picture.