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  1. While we are not in a position to worry or care about being outed, there are WAY too many fakes and picture harvesters out there. SO we don't do face pics or give phone numbers, etc out. If people want to see faces, come to the events. We don't wear masks, unless that is the deal at the event. Penis pulling pic collectors don't come to meet and greets, clubs, and parties.
  2. That size seems unnecessarily extreme. Maybe it works for you, but 7"-8.5" length and 5.25"-6.25" girth should produce all of the maximum stimulation any fully arouse woman can handle. Don't see the true gains in pleasure in progressing above to bigger monsters. They do admit much more risk of injury, even permanent injury. Again, if it works for you, knock yourselves out. The vast majority of women will agree that a modest increase in size over average is plenty of fun. It is more about the construction of the toy and the way it is used more than size.
  3. Favorites are the VixSkin dildos. They are VERY realistic, safe, durable, and easy to clean. Warm them up in hot water and add a dab of lube and have loads of fun. Bandit, Johnny, and Outlaw are the best -- and recommend trying in that order. Each is around $100 and shop around for the best prices. The dual density (rigid but bendable inner core and soft spongy outer sleeve layer) construction makes then almost indistinguishable from real erect penises. Full insertion, Bandit is 7.25"x5.5", Johnny is 7.5"x5.75", and Outlaw is 8.75"x6.25" (our measurements, not the manufacturer's or vendor's). They are all considerably larger than the true measurements of most men. All can be comfortably accommodated by even petite gals if fully aroused and done thoughtfully. Bandit is an excellent starter. A woman for whom orgasms are not commonplace or usual in ever session should experience multiple deep orgasms from the first use and every subsequent time. Johnny might not seem like a big change form Bandit from the numbers, but it is a world of difference. The curvature adds quite a bit of natural G-spot stimulation (A-spot too). It produces very strong and deep orgasms where, once that fuse is lit, she will be so delirious and lost in orgasms that she won't be able to tap out even if she wants to. If this one is used well, husbands will see a sexual beast of a woman in their wives they might not have realized was there, with sounds unrecognizable as hers. Do not start with Outlaw. It will scare most women and have them running for shelter in the bathroom. They need to work up to that one. Despite what guys (even porn stars) claim they measure up to, Outlaw is seriously about the largest real and hard penis you'll ever encounter in years and years of looking. This is as close to that extreme experience as you'll probably come to. But take it slow and gentle, with adequate (but not too much) lube. Don't be hard on the deep strokes; you don't want uterine prolapse. Keep it pleasurable. At half stroke length penetrations, work it well. She go out of her mind with orgasms. The Outlaw will stretch her and she'll be very gaped for a considerable time afterward. (Try fucking her right after.) Have no fear, as with real huge cocks, she'll be back to normal in a day or two. The legend of permanent stretching and being ruined by a BBC is just a legend, with no basis in fact.
  4. For vibrators, we went for the highly recommended LELO line. Ended up buying the LYLA 2 remote controlled bullet. The idea was to drive the wife crazy by remote control in public. Specifically, the idea was to pass the remote around to control her at a local meet and greet. The remote's range is very nice. The criticism is that in the mode where the remote tells you what she is feeling, it is not exactly discreet enough in some rooms. We had high hopes for it and the engineering is tops. However, th inserted egg is not comfortable enough. The compromise for us is to customize panties with pouches for it to be against the clitoris, rather than inserted. Most people seem to like it inserted anyway. In the world of dildos, we found the VixSkin ones remarkable. They are dual density, meaning a more rigid core and a spongier soft outer layer. They are astonishingly almost indistinguishable from real erect penises. Warm them up in hot water first, and you won't tell the difference. They also are made from durable, easy to clean (you can even put them in the dishwasher apparently), and safe silicone materials. The best introduction to a larger than average penis is the Bandit. That one has an insertable full 7.25"x5.5", which is considerably larger than most rue male measurements but very pleasurable for any fully aroused woman. Above that, is the difficult to find Johnny model. It inserts 7.5"x5.75". That doesn't sound like a big difference, but it is. The other thing about the Johnny is the curvature. The G-spot stimulation is out of this world. But make sure you are used to a bit of size and are aroused before going with all of this one. The biggest is Outlaw. At 8.75" x 6.25" of insertion, it is extremely filling .... and fulfilling if used right and with a little lube. (She'll provide more lube along the way for sure.) By no means is this a suggested started dildo; it'll scare a woman who has never been with a particularly hung guy before. Go slowly and gently in the deep penetrations. She'll be moaning and writing on the bed as her arousal heightens to accommodate it all, lengthening and stretching. At more modest depths (half or less of the length), fast fucking will produce deep vaginal orgasms, might even tighten so much as to force the dildo out. Even a petite woman, like the wife here, can handle Outlaw as long as she is fully aroused and used well. We have a smaller one, around average size (forget the model name) that is great for anal play while fucking or using one of the larger ones in the sweet spot. Just be VERY careful not to cross contaminate and to throughly wash the toys (as with ALL toys) with soap and water after you're done. (We started by using condoms on them even to make it easier and more realistic of a new lover.) We also have explored fucking machines. Might build one; probably will. Of the commercially available ones, the top of the line seems to be ShockSpot. It is not inexpensive but has the best features and engineering apparently. A manual one that is very interesting is the Monkey Rocker. It is not available right now but new production should be bringing it back to the market soon. Not particularly interested in the Sybian. It had its day but seems to be overmarketed and obsolete given the current offerings on the market. We have shopped around for the vibes and dildos. Our best pricing seems to have come from Amazon and Deep Memories. But shop around and read reviews at all of the sites. There are plenty of high quality toys out there.
  5. That's why most of us are here, to augment our great sex with mind-blowing variety. Whether you are giving her your dick or giving her access to a hung stud who provides her with thrilling sex, you are her source. She'll be grateful to you that you got her tickets to the best ride at the fair. She'll still enjoy sex with you, almost assuredly more than ever, even if you don't make her cum as violently and as often as that stud does. As long as she is enjoying it and it is safe, encourage her to play and take personal pride in the fac that you are giving a more intimately special gift than most husbands will ever. She appreciates that and will only be concerned that you are happy about it and for her. Enjoy!
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