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We play in our own house only with close friends. A hotel is better than home for those general swinger friends; I found a suite is better for sex parties. For long term swinging friends, there's no such "how to leave politely" problem. Our own house is easy and the safest place in fact.

yes, this is exactly what I have be experienced. I now figure it out more: the satisfaction from swinging type sex is much more than which in "normal" usual marriages. because we practice and then learned "not to possess" our spouse or any other person, and, in return, it give us much more joy and satisfaction from the relationship with our spouse.

In our case, it is actually initiated by my wife. She became very horny at her age of 45. She led me to frequent discussions of swinging, which was my 'hobby" many years ago when I was in my 30's. Then, in one day, during our intercourse, she asked me when will I "really arrange a man for her for fuck with?", and, after that, everything began, the box of Pandora was opened. I, after 3 years, finally have managed learning to handle a swinger wife, and, in an open marriage. Sometimes I will be a little bit proud with all this. Sometimes I feel I am still somewhat confused. I am not sure if I would have become a swinger if my queen did not ask me to. That why I came to this site and wish to hear more from other swinger couples.

we have been playing separately for years. It was not easy to really share every details with each other, in fact. now, after years, we share more than before, but still limited. We only know that we do respect our basic true human desire, and we really have good time with each other's permissions.