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We would have chatted with them online or on the telephone enough to know there was a good chance that we would want to play with them. We always plan on our first meeting as a "Meets & Greets" only. However, if things go as we hope they would, we would open to aborting the "Meets & greets" plan and go on and play on the first meeting. The "Meets & Greets" plan always leaves you an out if you aren't real comfortable with playing with them first time out.

4 people are a standard textbook swap. 6 people turn it into a small orgy.

We like to chat and/or talk with a new couple on the phone first a few times . We then arrange a meet and greet only meeting. Although, we have been known to play on a first date if things go real well.

If we are discussing Non swinging friends with our swinging friends, we pretty much just refer to them as "Non Swinger" friends....

Sure its drug free. I would take it as consistent hard drug users. Or couples that want to get stoned out of their heads whenver they meet couples. Even the use of marijuana should be cleared by all involved before partaking. Its only polite.

If he or she is having sex with a person of the same sex behind the others' back or against the others' wishes it is definately cheating. All sex outside the marriage should not only be known about by the spouse, but ALSO be supported by the spouse.