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unicorn84

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About unicorn84

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/04/1984

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    single female
  • Location
    northwest
  • Interests
    too many to list
  • Occupation
    student
  • Swinging Experience
    <1 year
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    unicorn84
  1. Wow thank you for all the great advice! I had not considered joining an online site. I guess I didnt think I was 'high volume" enough to warrant that. If Craigslist is any indication I guess I pictured getting 100s of responses! I had not thought about the other angle however- that I could see what they were about before meeting! As for list of questions to ask potential playmates- see thats the thing. I do tell folks up front that I am only a little bi (I like how you put it- totally fine up till a point!) and that is why I felt so "duped" by the woman in my first example. She knew how I felt and she told me she was straight as well... then basically attacked me the min the door was closed. She gave me a whole line about how she only made out with a girl once in college and always wanted to experiment but was straight etc. She talked her way into my pants (really I am very ok with *most* stuff with women) and then wouldn't stop!! I mean wow !! I swear she was trying to devour me alive!! This was NOT a blushing newbie who just wanted to kiss another lady for her man. It really wasnt hot though it was intense and icky. *also I still dont know the proper way to represent myself. I dont think I really quite fit the straight label but I know Im not bi. sighs. Maybe someday Ill figure it out but for now all I can do is have limits. But regardless thank you for your response:blush::blush: *ps I do want to point out that I realize that I made many newbie mistakes, put myself in that position and did not speak up for myself like I should have (I hate hurting peoples feelings). I have become way better about that. You live and hopefully you learn=)
  2. *smiles... Ignorance killed the cat curiosity was framed!! Sorry I must have forgotten to add that info the second time I wrote the post! There is a local swingers club where I live. Actually there are technically 3 brick and mortar clubs but I have only been to one of them. The others aren't known for being classy/clean. You should have seen the looks on peoples faces when they found out I was alone and going by myself the first time LOL!! What can I say Ive always believed in owning ones sexuality wherever that might take you. As for how I found this forum- a complete accident of the internet. I ran a search for something I think and a topic popped up from here.
  3. Greetings, this is my first post but I have been lurking/reading for a while. I really dig this community and love that I have found a place to talk to other folks in the lifestyle! I realize that the following is the result of being a newbie and making mistakes of my part. I am getting way better about recognizing the various "characters" in the swinging world. 1. Getting duped by a woman. She said she wanted to kiss a girl in front of her bf because he was just such a sweet good man and she wanted to give him a little something as a gift. She was totally straight and blah blah. I thought- aww sweet man? Sign me up! What is the harm in a kiss?? Well apparently she was very very very predatory and preferred girls to guy and it was her way of luring a newbie unicorn. I will always remember the sad sad look on his face as she tried to ravage me the min the door was closed. 2. Also getting duped by a woman. She invited me into the room with her/bf, got naked in 2 seconds and only then informed me she was on her period.. uh.. ew.. Then she FLIPPED out on her bf for me being there. (she set him up he was entirely shy and had never been there before). She was abusive and jealous and actually made me feel shame as she freaked out on him. They completely ignored me as I put my boots back on and left. In both cases felt used like I was a pawn in someone elses game. I guess Im just frustrated because this seems to happen alot (pet peeves are for another post). now that I have vented I can move on=) To the adventures ahead! *ps when I first wrote this post it was much longer and more detailed. However apparently my login had timed out before I finished it so it was lost! So apologies if this one seems a bit terse!
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