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Ibrew

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Ibrew last won the day on July 14 2012

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About Ibrew

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  • Birthday 04/28/1969

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married
  • Location
    Oregon
  • Swinging Experience
    1 week
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Mr_MrsBrewster
  1. Ok, I have to ask do garments stay home when Mormons swing?
  2. In my opinion, living 3 different lives might be too complicated. With a mormon background I could see that people were living 2 lives. The every day to day life (family, work, and other) and then the religious side. Cognitive dissonance rules this separation, more simply the reality of life and the perception of religious views. Now a third aspect is going to be added. Lying will have to be incorporated into this new lifestyle. The couple will have be on the same lie at all times. "What did the two of you do saturday night?"; one cannot be saying movies and the other saying dancing. "oh what movie" "oh where do you go to dance?" The Mormon culture is a total rumor mill, because the constant interactions between members. You think fantasy football sucks up time? Interviews between members and leaders can at times be very invasive into private lives; especially with questions like "do you only have sexual relations with your spouse". What if one of the couple buckles under that question? Would the couple be ready to be ostracized by the congregation? Is the husband ready for his wife to be encouraged to divorce him? Furthermore, would the couple be prepared to be ostracized by their families? Swinging requires complete honesty between the couple, self, and the people you swing with. Lying is not a part of this lifestyle. I don't feel that swinging and my day to day life conflict, it is only a side of my life that I don't let everyone know about. It also does not create a cognitive dissonance. It actually helps me find out who I am and gain a little self esteem. "Wow, others do find me attractive" well maybe more of massaging my ego. If our families found out, we could care less of their opinions. If someone starts asking me intimate details of my life, I can tell them aggressively "none of your (insert expletive) business!" I truly do not want this to come out as flaming the OP, but serious questions and serious discussions need to be worked out by any couple who decides to engage in this new life together, regardless of ethos.
  3. We have our profile on two of the swinger sites, and as we have gotten friend/pic requests I have come up with phrases and definitions. One that comes up is "porn hunter" being defined as an individual or couple that want to see private pics and live at least 200 miles away with no prospect of meeting them. The question is "what unique phrases do you use to describe your experiences online or otherwise?"
  4. Looking at the replies has been a great help in allowing me to step back and think about what is happening. This is dumb now that I think more, flirting and dressing up. I am really more bothered at the negativity regarding this rather than what she is doing or not doing.
  5. Basically the title says most of it. We are relatively new ( a couple of months) and have had good experiences. However I have noticed that mrs ibrew does things differently with others than with me. I asked her if she would be willing to be like that with me sometimes and she said it was part of playing and not real. Still I feel a little jealousy when I see her with others in those ways. She also responded that it was degrading for me to ask for those aspects of swinging with others. I have been really trying to bring it up in a positive light, but ends up in an unpleasant argument. Maybe this has been answered in other posts but can't find it. I need a little help. Am I asking for a comparison of others, which we agreed we wouldn't do?
  6. We would like some help with ours too. I know I need to get pics up. Mr_MrsBrewster
  7. Progressing quickly, we are thinking about looking local clubs. This brings up the topic of manscaping. I wouldn't say that I have the genetic profile of Sasquatch, but close. So grooming advice, ms. Likes the clean shaved nether regions for multiple reasons, bj and the NPR. But my teenage treasure trail is a full out treasure parking lot. Go for the full hair removal (waxing/shaving), continue to shave the trio (which may look like a _______ poking out of a brush pile), or neatly trimmed? Have fun!!!!
  8. The ms and I talked over the weekend about finding couples to rv with, not sure about swing with couples. Did our first trip this past weekend read the forums, had sex, drank beer, read more of the forums had sex .....
  9. So do you have to be a geezer or have a motor home to participate in this thread? What about pre-geezer and a travel trailer?
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