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lookingfora3rd last won the day on January 24 2013

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    a few years of play, fairly new still.
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  1. I really don't get whats so hard about achieving a comfortable DPP position. Maybe we are just super flexible but it doesn't seem so hard..no pun intended One guy underneath, girl on top either CG or RCG then guy on top slides in with guy underneath. Both cocks need to be HARD and it seems contrary to logic that the bigger the better as long cocks will presumably 'pop out' less.
  2. First off I'm so sorry this happened to you but you can get past it very easily. Secondly, and please understand that I am not judging your man but... if he is out playing unprotected then in our opinion he is not respecting you, himself, or his playmates. This is SERIOUS stuff that we are playing with here and you very well dodged a bullet with just HSV1 and not HIV or something much more serious. Again I'm so sorry but remember that this is NOT a big deal and TONS of people have it and don't even know it. I got a few cold sores years ago but after a long talk with my doc I eased my mind, started taking better care of myself, and they have never come back. Stress is a killer, smoking and diet as well play a HUGE role in your resistance. One thing you really should look into is Cimetidine or 'Tagamet', it's a heartburn drug sold OTC branded and generic everywhere. Glaxo Smith Kline lost the patent to it so it went generic OTC. Because the medical community doesn't stand to make huge profits on it they don't push it but in many studies it has been proven as or more effective than Valtrex or Acyclovir but at less than 1/8 of the cost PLUS you don't need a script or possibly embarrassing doctor visit. Google it and read up, it seems so unbelievable that the pharmaceutical companies would purposefully 'hide' a potential breakthrough because they don't stand to make huge profits on it. A real shame and very telling of the mindset and methodology of western medicine. I know a few people that have this (my Dr. for instance) and with proper diet, 400 mg. of L-Lysine daily, and some form of Acyclovir at the first signs of an outbreak they remain symptom free for years. Good luck to you and if i can help with anything at all please feel free to email anytime.
  3. and we feel like it probably should. When Ms.Looking has done this we have both fully agreed that when the sex is over she comes home. In our opinion sleeping together is for partners and couples, feelings and emotions come with sleeping naked together, waking up together, having coffee together, etc. When the hot, dirty, scandalous fucking is done WE get to love on each other and reaffirm our connection with each other. Not saying sleeping with your fuck buddy can't work, this is just what works for us and keeps any jealousy at bay. The mind is an unexplainable thing and irrational thoughts feed themselves, we prefer to not give them any 'consumables' so to speak.
  4. awesome thanks everyone, got your e twisted, the GF and i were confused at first then put it together, haha..thanks! and twoforyou, that's a good suggestion..may just do that to help weed out the shitbags, which at this point seem plentiful. sadly hot, respectful, nice guys our age don't seem so..i have read on the forum from multiple posters that it can be harder to find a good single guy then a couple, that makes no sense at all but is starting to seem like the case. that said, we actually had a long talk last night and decided we wanted to meet couples as well so we changed up our 'desires' a bit. thanks everyone for your help
  5. So this morning we set up a paid profile on swinger lifestyle looking for single guys. Our shit started blowing up big time almost immediately so we went in and made some revisions to close the gap a bit. Well, that didn't work at all so I personally just went in and changed the wording to make it sound a little harsh...maybe too harsh. So can you guys check it out and give us some honest feedback. Are we scaring potential guys away? Just seems like you need to lay it all down on the table with these guys. thanks everyone. We're on SLS and our profile is: lookingfora3rdin2012
  6. Gonna have to disagree with some of you here, the man isn't always staying home because he has no other 'choices'. I have never had a problem meeting girls, in fact out of respect for our relationship I many times have turned away potential fuck buddies to keep things in our relationship happy, healthy, and where they need to be; she knows I have 'options' yet remain faithful and she loves me that much more for it. Ms.Lookingfora3rd isn't exactly comfortable with me playing solo and I understand. It is not selfish of her it's just what makes her comfortable and we are both perfectly fine with that, in fact we prefer it. To be completely honest I would much rather have my fun at home watching porn and waiting on her to get home fresh from fucking and with a HOT story any day.
  7. Couldn't agree more. Ms. Lookingfora3rd has been trying to find a fuck buddy for a long time now as we both find the idea of her playing alone very very hot. Two different guys have shown major interest then just disappeared for no reason BEFORE doing anything with her other than light kissing/petting. Problem is she is honest with them and I guess guys get scared off pretty easy. All I know is when I was single if a HOT young horny chick told me that she wanted a fuck buddy and nothing more emotionally speaking, I would never have ran off like a scared little boy. It is all about intentions and we seem to think that the guys with bad intentions are worried about the consequences that may be served by hubby. Especially when hubby is a tattooed biker dude
  8. Wow, what an incredibly hot discussion! We have wanted to try it for a while now just waiting for the right situation. So, did you do it? How was it? Did she absolutely love it? Details!!
  9. we are in the 'love it' camp also and have been lucky enough to try in in multiple settings with different partners. The first time was on accident, it was the first time the GF went to visit her one of her fuck buddies. I was so excited and anxious to hear all about it, i paced and paced waiting for her to get back..when she finally got home i pretty much pounced on her at the front door, i slid my hand into her panties and everything was soooo wet. I didn't think much of it as of course she just got fucked so i assumed she was still just wet. I carried her into our bedroom, i couldn't wait to feel her freshly fucked pussy and hear all about it. as i slid it in i could feel that it was so loose, warm and wet..it was so sexy and i had no idea how my life was about to change. as we were making love i asked her "where did he cum babe?" she said "in me" i, slightly disappointed, remarked something to the effect of "oh he came in the condom" that's when the hottest 6 words i have ever heard were spoken..."no, we didnt use a condom" That's when my head completely exploded, when the realiztion sunk in...she wasnt just wet from being turned on, that was his cum!!!! I pulled out and dove in between her legs out of sheer instinct..i spread her apart and got my tongue as deep inside of her as i could, licking every last bit of his tatse from her warm, wet, swollen pussy.. It opened lots of new doors for us and greatly increased our appetite for sex in general. Since then we have taken it a few steps further and now we share other guys cum by means of passionately making out. It is both of our biggest fantasies now...god i love that woman!!!!
  10. ok first off...WOW this forum and especially this sub-forum have opened so much up to me, I don't feel like such a head case or outcast, it is really great to know that there are others like us out there. So thank you all for your knowledge and judgment free attitudes. So here's the deal...and sorry in advance for the long-winded post. I absolutely LOVE cum, well actually both the GF and I do. The taste and feel of it, the way it looks when it's on a beautiful woman's skin, the way it looks on my GF's lips and tongue. The fantasy started about W years ago when we first started dating. I had been thinking that the idea was hot for a while and one night during sex I stopped right before orgasm and just came a little giving her just a little on her lips and tongue to 'play with' then we continued making love as we fantasized that it was someone else's cum that we were sharing. We both felt as though it was one of the hottest things that either of us had ever done and it became a semi-regular role play thing for us. I actually got really good at having more than one orgasm so we could kiss and play with cum, all the while pretending it was from another guy. We even bought an ejaculating dildo and experimented with homemade recipes...haha So that was fun and hot and we learned what we wanted. We decided together that the next step was to play with cum from another guy. We found a guy who wasn't freaked out by the idea and we had our fun...it was the most sensual thing I have ever done up until that point, and to this day, almost a year later, I still regularly get myself off thinking of that encounter. We managed to pull it off again a few months later with the same guy but this time she actually spat it into my mouth and I proceeded to clean all of it from her lips and face with my tongue while we made very passionate and sweet love...god it was so incredibly sexy that I get hard every time I think about it. So how common is this? I know guys like to taste their own but do 'straight' guys ever want to try this? Let me first say that I am 99.9% certain that I am 100% straight haha. I am not attracted to men at all, don't want to find guys on my own, have no desire for anything considered traditionally gay, am not turned on at all by gay or bi porn, etc. I love the term used on another thread in this forum "situationally heteroflexible" and feel that it most describes me. For instance, seeing a cock in my GF's mouth is so sexy it drives me crazy. I want to help guide it in, and I want to put mine in with his (and we have ). The thought of double vag and his hard cock rubbing against mine inside of my GF drives both of us crazy. But that's pretty much where it ends. I have zero desire to be with a guy by myself, in fact oral, penetration, pretty much anything touching other than our cocks and specifically inside her, is a turn-off for me. I know I'm a huge perv, and I love it. I don't like labels and don't give a shit what people think about our sex life but just curious how others feel about this. Is it hot or is it weird? And please use this thread share your cum sharing thoughts, fantasies and stories with me! and I loved this quote from another thread:
  11. yes there are others who enjoy the hell out of this idea. I am a confident lover, not small down there by any means, not ashamed of myself, etc. etc. and i know that she is attracted to me more than anyone else so we are not in the 'humiliation' cuckhold camp but i gotta say there is NOTHING HOTTER than the few times she has played alone and come right home after. She tells me every juicy detail while i do everything to her, but better than he did so damn hot!!!! ultimately though she likes MFM much more than playing alone and an almost bad encounter last time she met someone alone has caused us to re think that whole part as we both feel that i should be there for safety if nothing else. but...if she does find someone down the road sometime i will not resist as it is really a huge turn on.
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